General Dating Questions/I'm confused!


Hey, how're you doing?
I met this girl at university and got her number. I called her later and asked her out. She accepted willingly. However, as I was flirting with her on the phone, I told her: " Don't forget to bring flowers !" she said:" It is not going to be a date! No need to bring flowers!". Of course, I was teasing her and didn't mean that I want her to bring flowers for me!
Anyway,  I met her. Actually, she came with her sister! Also, during the conversation she talked about her boyfriend two times.
Do you think should I ask her whether she is dating her bf exclusively? Do you think by her behavior she clearly means she is only considering me as a friend?


I think she does see you as a friend and wouldn't ask about her exclusiveness if a date involving flowers doesn't interest her. I would assume she's just friendly. If it were a date I would hope she wouldn't mention her boyfriend or exboyfriends at all.

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I hope more than anything that my advice and opinions will help give people perspective in their lives, and hopefully make them feel better about themselves and their situations. I will attempt answering questions for anyone of any age group or nationality. However it would be particularly useful to know the age of all people involved. It does make a difference towards the advice I give. Also not terribly familar with arranged marriages and situations in which the family can dictate the details of the relationship.

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I don't really have any specific experience in this area other than learning from other people's mistakes and a few of my own, and whatever I've learned as a psychology major.

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