General Dating Questions/How often

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How often do you keep in contact when you are trying to get back together with someone? Should it be everyday? Every few days?? Should both take turns calling?

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Hello Megan!

This seemingly-simple question has a ton of issues involved with it! The accurate answer is: it depends.

It depends on many, many things! Why did you breakup? Why are you trying to get back together? Who wants it more? Who initiated the breakup? What's the current state of the relationship? Etc., etc., etc.

In short, there's no hard-and-fast rule about how often to keep in contact.

I've worked with many people on getting their ex's back and trust me, it's not as simple as how to keep in touch. With that said, you probably don't want to be in contact every single day - that just becomes a burden. However, when to contact - if you even should contact this person - is up to all the other factors.

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I'm able to answer any sort of question related to the approach, meeting people, dating, sex, relationships, break-ups, non-legal marriage and divorce questions, and anything in between. I've helped over 30,000 people with their individual issues. IMPORTANT: Please, PLEASE don't ask me, "what was he thinking..." or "why did he say..." types of questions! I DO NOT READ MINDS! There are 1,001 reasons why someone does what they do, says what they say or thinks what they think. If you *REALLY* want to know what they were thinking, saying or why they were acting that way - go ask them! Be sure to check out my FAQ's on my website at: http://beingaman.com. You can email me directly at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers all over the world. My main focus is men`s relationships with women, but I also have many female readers and answer questions for them regularly as well.

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