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Expert: Athena_of_CUPID2000 - 7/5/2005


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Dear Athena,

I am an attractive 34 year old woman who is currently single. I met Tom on a night course and found him very attractive.  He has sent me emails indicating that he has a girlfriend but wants to have sex with me. I would love to have sex with him but am offended by his blatant womanizing and refuse to lower myself to those standards. I would like to respond to him intelligently yet want him to know how offensive his behaviour is. Please let me know how you think I should respond.

Thank you!
Karen

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Karen:

When I saw the subject line "how do i deal with a womanizer??"  My first thought was "run the other way"

I think you should tell him just what you told me.  "I would love to have sex with you but am offended by your  blatant womanizing and refuse to lower myself to those standards."

Glad you see him for the dog that he is right off the bat, so many women don't understand that men who will cheat on the girl in their life with you will ultimately cheat on you with someone else.  Guys like that can't seem to help themselves.

Good luck in your search,
Athena

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