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| Subject | Date Asked |
| Insights on dating | 9/20/2010 |
| Q: Based on your own experiences, what insights can you provide on dating and partner selection? A: My take on dating is that you should use that as your means to getting to know someone and in terms ... | |
| boyfriend and ex | 9/20/2010 |
| Q: I recently got back with my boyfriend after 6 months of being friends. Before then, we dated for ... A: I would have a problem with my guy being hung up on his ex because that's an indication he'll never ... | |
| I think he likes me, but I am not sure. | 2/8/2010 |
| Q: I have a sneaking suspicion, that this guy at school likes me. He happens to look over at me quit a ... A: He may like you, but could be intimidated to approach you. Maybe you should pull him aside in ... | |
| Should I have given him my number? | 2/3/2010 |
| Q: I went for dinner (by myself) and I only ordered a small appetizer. It was a very romantic place, so ... A: I wouldnt give him your number while he's working you could see if the seating hostess or someone ... | |
| First time sex | 1/25/2010 |
| Q: Ok me and my girlfriend will have been dating 2yrs april 23rd or this year.. We have never had sex ... A: Here's my take on this if you're old enough to conduct yourself in an adult manner you're old enough ... | |
| She loves me? | 1/9/2010 |
| Q: My ex and I broke up. we've been off and on for 7 years. When she broke up with me, I left and went ... A: Don't let someone play you like this you need to move on and deal with someone who's not going to ... | |
| Group Dinner | 10/16/2009 |
| Q: I met a boy on Sunday (we're both 19). He had been talking to my best friend (JD) and his new ... A: Just spend time with him as a friend and let it grow from there because you want to spend time on ... | |
| How can I get this to work out | 10/5/2009 |
| Q: Met this girl a couple months back, and instantly clicked. Anytime we were in the same room we spent ... A: Why would you want to date someone who had a serious boyfriend? If you're not talking on a regular ... | |
| I have a problem | 10/5/2009 |
| Q: Ok, I really need some good advice for this one and I hope you can help me. I took this girl to my ... A: There's that cardinal rule that you should only dance with your date, but if you guys are not ... | |
| Sex in Relationships | 9/30/2009 |
| Q: I’ve been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. I’m confused as although I am in love with him, ... A: When a man tells you that there's certain things he wants in sex pay attention to that. I have to ... | |
| what should i do after sex? | 9/29/2009 |
| Q: So i've been dating this guy since May. IT's been over 4 months. Last saturday, we went over to his ... A: What he said to you "babe, I'm surprised we got this far. You were supposed to be some girl who was ... | |
| My boyfriends relationship with his ex | 9/15/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I been dating for a year, this is a long distance relationship. I love him very ... A: Ok sounds to me that your boyfriend still has feelings for her because of all the interaction they ... | |
| Difficult meeting women | 9/13/2009 |
| Q: I have difficulty meeting women especially low success in attracting and dating women. I am 49 , ... A: Since internet dating has not worked for you have you tried going to social groups or you can go to ... | |
| ex calls again | 9/12/2009 |
| Q: Sorry this is so long but it requires every detail....Well, in January of this year, i met this guy ... A: I am going to be honest with you and that is you're wasting your time with Matt because if he was ... | |
| Husband Leaving | 9/10/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been together since college approx. 14 years and have been married for the ... A: In getting a lot of questions about husbands and boyfriends leaving for other women I say this you ... | |
| part 8its not me its them who are wrong for hurting me .all i want is boyfreind to like but they rejcted me and ask out others but never ever me.i am treated like dirt by them all my life i | 9/9/2009 |
| Q: i did fix up my before it got me no where only more insults from guys.i did whole make up clothes ... A: It's obvious you have some psych issues to deal with, but I had no choice, but to request that your ... | |
| part 7-its not me its them who are wrong for hurting me .all i want is boyfreind to like but they rejcted me and ask out others but never ever me.i am treated like dirt by them all my life i | 9/8/2009 |
| Q: i went 10 counsellors and 2 pschlogist and 1 doctor and none could solve my problem. so i don,t know ... A: How long are you going to keep complaining about your situation before you decide to get up and do ... | |
| please help me.i need some one to talk to.part 6-its not me its them who are wrong for hurting me .all i want is boyfreind to like but they rejcted me and ask out others but never ever me.i am treated like dirt by them all my life i | 9/7/2009 |
| Q: i have very unhealthy pattern of rejection and its only getting worse.i can,t get any help from any ... A: I can't counsel you on your problems these are things you need to be talking to a counselor about ... | |
| Temporary or Permanent break | 9/2/2009 |
| Q: i've been with my boyfriend for over 14 montsh now,he's married i found out about it when we started ... A: You're dating a MARRIED man what are you doing? Please don't say you're taking a break because he's ... | |
| is he too jealous? | 9/2/2009 |
| Q: so me and my boyfriend are 17 yrs old and have been dating for 4 years but he is really jealous and ... A: Sounds like your partner has some insecurities and if you've been together for 4 years something is ... | |
| Breakup | 8/31/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been living together for about 2 months. Prior to that and until about two ... A: Shelia, Usually when a man starts not wanting sex and becomes distant there's a chance he could be ... | |
| He blamed Me! | 8/30/2009 |
| Q: So let me summarize this situation as best as I can. I started my new job a month ago and this one ... A: First off this guy lied if he didnt acknowledge having a serious girlfriend. Second he was stalking ... | |
| have not heard back yet. | 8/29/2009 |
| Q: Let me give you some background first. This girl initiated first contact with me on a dating ... A: Nick, Ok giving what you told me it sounds to me like she doesnt know what she wants. To be ... | |
| part-4 its not me its them who are wrong for hurting me .all i want is boyfreind to like but they rejcted me and ask out others but never ever me.i am treated like dirt by them all my life i | 8/27/2009 |
| Q: i am teacher ASSISTANT help teachers teach. A: Ann, I know what a teaching assistant is I know someone who is one. Still you can find a job with ... | |
| part-4 its not me its them who are wrong for hurting me .all i want is boyfreind to like but they rejcted me and ask out others but never ever me.i am treated like dirt by them all my life i | 8/26/2009 |
| Q: i have no money and i tried to get job ,but i could n,t get any . may be i was meant to be on my ... A: For someone who's got a background in teaching you could get a job working as a substitute teacher ... | |
| part-4 its not me its them who are wrong for hurting me .all i want is boyfreind to like but they rejcted me and ask out others but never ever me.i am treated like dirt by them all my life i | 8/22/2009 |
| Q: i think all that make any difference to because the same thing will happen me.i have no friends,i ... A: You need to get out in a social setting to make friends I am sure they have something where you are ... | |
| Stacey | 8/22/2009 |
| Q: My name is Dave. I’m 23. I just graduated from college and landed a job as a stock broker. I just ... A: Dave, If you and Stacey have kept in touch using Facebook I think you guys should get together and ... | |
| part-3 its not me its them who are wrong for hurting me .all i want is boyfreind to like but they rejcted me and ask out others but never ever me.i am treated like dirt by them all my life i | 8/21/2009 |
| Q: from what i see guys are only interested in good looking ,slim,busty,young girls not no body like ... A: Listen to what you said in your"i never paint my nails,or were dresses,or were skirts,were make ... | |
| Online sex? | 8/20/2009 |
| Q: I have recently discovered that my boyfriend of 2 and a half years has joined several dating/online ... A: It's natural for men to be thinking about sex since they're visual creatures and maybe there's ... | |
| part-2 its not me its them who are wrong for hurting me .all i want is boyfreind to like but they rejcted me and ask out others but never ever me.i am treated like dirt by them all my life i | 8/15/2009 |
| Q: so what happen when none of this advice work.what do i do then. because i am getting on now and i ... A: What more can I tell you guys are going to be jerks, but guys also like confident women who have ... | |
| dating in the workplace | 8/11/2009 |
| Q: So I just started a new job as a host at an upscale restaurant, I am not planning on staying in this ... A: My take on dating in the workplace is to be careful doing that because people have gotten hurt ... | |
| its not me its them who are wrong for hurting me .all i want is boyfreind to like but they rejcted me and ask out others but never ever me.i am treated like dirt by them all my life i | 8/8/2009 |
| Q: is there any solution to constanted flow of rejection any i like does n,t show any interested me at ... A: I don't know what to tell you because you can't make a guy like or love you. Guys are going to ... | |
| please help me | 8/8/2009 |
| Q: i send you a problem please help me i am very upset please help me A: I answered the question you sent me I have answered to the best of my ability, but the rest is up to ... | |
| girl meets boy | 8/8/2009 |
| Q: My mother introduced me to a guy about 2 months ago ..it was really quick and we didn't talk just ... A: I think your mom was noble to help you, but her matchmaking skills needs serious work. I know when I ... | |
| can unattractive,fat girl find love ?????????????????????????? | 8/7/2009 |
| Q: i am nealy 30 yaers old and i never ahd boyfreind i didn,t even get my first kiss.and its,t from the ... A: I don't know what to tell you because you have to be the kind of girl men are attracted to and if ... | |
| advice | 8/6/2009 |
| Q: People keep asking me for relationship advice. I don't know why. Anyway, so now one of my friends ... A: It sounds to me that your friend is attracted to a jerk because it sounds like he's just interested ... | |
| complaint | 8/6/2009 |
| Q: I'm a PHD student and I was verbally harassed by another student, who was screaming obscenities at ... A: Sounds to me like this girl is actually jealous of you, but I think it's getting really stupid ... | |
| complaint | 8/4/2009 |
| Q: I'm a PHD student and I was verbally harassed by another student, who was screaming obscenities at ... A: If you made a complaint and if this person is threatening you with physical violence I would contact ... | |
| born rejected-2 | 7/27/2009 |
| Q: i am not celbrate by choice i just got stuck not choice.i have weight problem i am nearly 30 yaers ... A: If you're dealing with weight I would start with getting your diet and begin an exercise program ... | |
| born rejected | 7/26/2009 |
| Q: i am female almost 30s years old failer at romance .i,d really love to have at least one boyfriend ... A: You have to have the personality and confidence that men find attractive. I would suggest you do ... | |
| negative attitude? | 7/18/2009 |
| Q: I dated a man for years and he was very moody and miserable. He never mistreated me per se, for the ... A: It sounds like they're jealous of you for whatever reason, but that doesnt excuse the harassment and ... | |
| Men and PDA... | 7/17/2009 |
| Q: I met a guy and we ended up sleeping together. He called me pretty much every day since then (we ... A: When you start having sex with someone without really getting to know them that's all that's going ... | |
| being more successful in dating | 7/16/2009 |
| Q: I am looking for a girl who loves me with all her heart and soul ,In order to achieve this goal and ... A: There's so many websites I could recommend one off hand and that is LovingYou.com which I went to a ... | |
| confused about a relationship. | 7/15/2009 |
| Q: So i met this girl and i have dated her for about 3 weeks and she said i was a great boyfriend only ... A: She may have dumped you because you won't be sexual or for a variety of reasons. I would ask her ... | |
| negative attitude? | 7/12/2009 |
| Q: I dated a man for years and he was very moody and miserable. He never mistreated me per se, for the ... A: I would take some time away from dating and focus on getting your life together. It will take time ... | |
| revenge? or being smart? | 7/11/2009 |
| Q: Hey Not a relationship issue in a romantic sense, but a relationship issue none the less. I had a ... A: I don't call it revenge per se because few people go back to someone's school record unless they ... | |
| being attacked? | 7/8/2009 |
| Q: I need some advice. This keeps happening to me. 99% of the people I meet are totally nice to me. ... A: I would begin by separating myself from these types of people and if they're people I can't avoid ... | |
| hes not listening | 7/6/2009 |
| Q: im with my boyfriend for 2 years now and he asked me to marry him. i said yes but im not very happy ... A: If he's looking for a housekeeper you're not it because you want to feel there's some equality to ... | |
| Male with sexual disability | 7/4/2009 |
| Q: Tell me when I can tell a new woman about my sexual dysability. Also, I need to know when not to ... A: My advice to you is to feel a woman out and ask her about how she feels about sex, but wait until ... | |
| Confused and lost... | 7/3/2009 |
| Q: My name is Rebecca. I have been with my bf for a year now.He is a medical representative and a very ... A: Yeah guys tend to do that, but it's up to a woman to support them through a hard time and understand ... | |
| Is it ok? | 7/2/2009 |
| Q: . . Is it ok for me as a white female. , to just be into black guys. , i mean is that reverse racism ... A: It's not reverse racism it's called having a preference and everyone has a preference to dating ... | |
| relationship Trust | 7/1/2009 |
| Q: . I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for four years. We have been living together for ... A: If there's a lack of honesty this needs to be addressed because if you plan to marry again this is ... | |
| Still thinking of my ex from 6 years ago | 6/30/2009 |
| Q: I'm 25 years old. I had 3 serious relationships (average 2 years each). I broke up with my 1st ... A: Unfortunately and I hate to say this, but it's time for you to move on you've been out of the ... | |
| Is there a difference whether a relationship is settling or whether someone's losing interest? | 6/29/2009 |
| Q: I know that a new relationship settles after a period of time and the sparks and thrill die down a ... A: This is why it's important that you work at your relationship because the fact that many go into ... | |
| Am I asking for too much? | 6/2/2009 |
| Q: We've been together 1 year. He's 43, I'm 35. I have a 15 year old daughter and he has none. Our ... A: Sounds to me he wants a caretaker than a productive partner in a healthy relationship. You may need ... | |
| party | 5/30/2009 |
| Q: my boyfriend lives with this parents in southern california. his brother (who has a family) lives ... A: That doesnt mean your guy is cheating it could mean that it's just a family thing and he should have ... | |
| What Should I Do? | 5/22/2009 |
| Q: Well me and my boyfriend has been dating for a year and some days. We have had a couple of fall outs ... A: A year is not early you've been in this for a while I would say early if it's in the first 1-3 ... | |
| internet friend that never meet yet... | 5/20/2009 |
| Q: i met someone over internet for over 9months now but the problem is i have not seen his face all ... A: I would be wary of this person because after 9 months and you havent seen his picture. Anytime ... | |
| i dont know if i still have feelings for my boyfriend. | 5/19/2009 |
| Q: I'm 21 i have been with my boyfriend for three year. We live together at his mom's house. Sometimes ... A: Here's my advice to you and please don't take this the wrong way, but DROP this guy because he's ... | |
| Forgive and friendship | 5/19/2009 |
| Q: Can I forgive my ex for cheating on me and still not want him to be my friend? There are no kids ... A: Having dealt with an ex cheating on me was hard because he hurt me and the idea of being friends ... | |
| dating | 5/19/2009 |
| Q: I met a woman online recently and we wrote to each other for about a week and then we decided to ... A: I would look at meeting someone closer to you because you don't want to feel like you're being used ... | |
| brak up and getting her back | 5/19/2009 |
| Q: ok so my girlfriend broke up with me.. we could only see each other during the weekends so summer ... A: It depends on what this girl wants you can't expect her to come back she has to want this for ... | |
| Long Distance for the Summer | 5/18/2009 |
| Q: I'm a first year in college (18) and I have been dating my boy (20) for six months. We leave for ... A: Since this is summer encourage your guy to go and get his license since he's 20 and should have a ... | |
| Girls | 5/18/2009 |
| Q: im currently a college student and having a really hard time meeting girls. i recently gave up the ... A: Try this site called Meetup.com and look at meeting people who share your interests without the ... | |
| is he still interested | 5/18/2009 |
| Q: i met a guy on the internet about 3 months ago, we have been communicating at least 3 or 4 times a ... A: I would be wary of this guy because if he's already with you and in the market for other women ... | |
| Is this girl avoiding me ? | 5/18/2009 |
| Q: There is a girl (TOO Shy) at work who's become a friend but i think she may have liked me. The ... A: I would see this as this girl's not interested and move on because shy people don't act like this ... | |
| 2 years | 5/16/2009 |
| Q: .... WE have had some rough patches but I thought the were worked out. I know that I can have a very ... A: Anytime a man starts resorting to being physical with you it's time to step off and find someone ... | |
| Single Mom with a 5 year old son and a new boyfriend | 5/15/2009 |
| Q: I'm a single mom. I've been dating for my boyfriend for almost 9 months. We are planning a vacation ... A: Yes the sleeping arrangements are appropriate, and it doesnt send the wrong message to your son to ... | |
| your thought | 5/15/2009 |
| Q: I've been living and dating with my girlfriendover two years. I love her however she scares me. The ... A: Your girlfriend's mother is at fault for her being spoiled because that tells you she had nobody to ... | |
| broken engagement | 5/14/2009 |
| Q: if the girl breaks off the engagement, should the man get the ring back? A: If the girl breaks off the engagement and she's still got the ring I would have to say According to ... | |
| looks | 5/13/2009 |
| Q: do good looking people get treated better and far more friends,let say a good looking guy would he ... A: In my honest opinion that looks are not everything and personality plays a huge part in how you're ... | |
| I need advice. | 5/12/2009 |
| Q: So there's this girl named melinda that's my age that I like now.. I've brought her with me to a ... A: I wouldnt consider this girl for a couple reasons and the first one is that she's still in a ... | |
| My ex | 5/11/2009 |
| Q: Whew, So about 1 week ago now, sat night i got drunk and my girlfriend said something that made me ... A: You may have said some things that came out wrong when you had too much to drink, but my advice to ... | |
| Concerns With my Relationship | 5/8/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been in a serious relationship going on 5 years now. I have one child and ... A: You and I are in the same boat because I left a 5 year relationship in 2006 after 5 years and like ... | |
| Need followup | 5/8/2009 |
| Q: This is a teacher liking a student. I even do not understand whether it's platonic or I have any ... A: Ok she's in 9th grade which puts her as a freshman in high school and you're a teacher. Absolutely ... | |
| help please | 5/8/2009 |
| Q: there is the girl I'm really starting to like very much. I am 23 and she is 19. We have been hanging ... A: I would be careful with this girl because she's fresh from a relationship and she's not had a chance ... | |
| divorced men | 5/7/2009 |
| Q: I ran into an old flame 3 months ago, almost exactly the same time his 23 year marriage was ending ... A: I would step away from this until he's had some time to get over his broken marriage. If the ex-wife ... | |
| ex probs | 5/6/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend (33) and I (26) have been together for about 3 years. He is a very faithful guy never ... A: If your guy has been with you he shouldnt be in contact with other females. Most women know if a guy ... | |
| Plz do Reply | 5/6/2009 |
| Q: This is a teacher liking a student. I even do not understand whether it's platonic or I have any ... A: This depends on the situation because you're crossing lines that could be frowned on. I don't know ... | |
| Boyfried and parents | 5/5/2009 |
| Q: I have a boyfriend that I have been dating now for about a year and two months. (He is 21 right now ... A: It doesnt seem like this guy was abusing you so I don't see what the problem is with your parents. I ... | |
| Relationships | 5/4/2009 |
| Q: i was sleeping with a guy i liked for a few weeks and then i fell pregnant, he made it very clear he ... A: When you start having sex with someone you're not really dating this guy doesnt see you as someone ... | |
| do he likes me? | 4/30/2009 |
| Q: My crush already has a gf.Somehow, he's making me to like him more,saying things like "Get anything ... A: Until this guy is free and clear of the current relationship I would only maintain a friendship and ... | |
| do he likes me? | 4/30/2009 |
| Q: My crush already has a gf.Somehow, he's making me to like him more,saying things like "Get anything ... A: There's a possibility of him being interested, but seeing that he's got a girlfriend he's currently ... | |
| finances in relationship | 4/29/2009 |
| Q: we started dating years ago. we bounce because of fears and lyes. he has always been financally ... A: I would ask yourself if this relationship is even worth continuing it seems like there's a lot of ... | |
| Is he genuine or playing me around? | 4/27/2009 |
| Q: I'm 19, he's 26. We've worked together for about 9 months and from the beginning there was this ... A: Let me break this down to you while being real with you at the same time. Number one this guy is a ... | |
| 24 year old girl wanting to move back home with boyfriend. | 4/26/2009 |
| Q: Our 24 year old daughter moved in with her boyfriend about 6 months ago they live at his mom's home. ... A: Absolutely NOT....you did the right thing by saying NO because if she's not married there's no ... | |
| should i give up | 4/25/2009 |
| Q: I have been dating this girl for three years and just now she told her family about me and we have ... A: You've been dating for 3 years and your girl is JUST now telling her family about you.....um ... | |
| Relationships Issue | 4/22/2009 |
| Q: I met this guy online, he is 43 years old, and I am 30. It has been about two months and he is ... A: I would be mindful of this guy because it sounds like he's very needy and wants a woman in his life ... | |
| confused | 4/19/2009 |
| Q: i need some advice. Here goes. Im 16 years old , and my boyfriend is 18. we have been dating for six ... A: My thing is that at this point it's up to your guy since he's the one going away to school and ... | |
| Another Trust Issue | 4/17/2009 |
| Q: Here’s the deal. I had been going to the Gym a lot over the past few months and some buddies there ... A: I would think about how this woman's problems have affected her socially such as the fact she ... | |
| Lonely | 4/16/2009 |
| Q: I'm sorry if its not your topic..but I couldn't find anything that I need. I hope you can help. I ... A: I suggest you check out this website called Meetup.com and it can give you some groundwork as to ... | |
| I'm confused | 4/15/2009 |
| Q: I've been talking to this guy on myspace for a month now. He's 20 and I'm 19.I'm gonna go ahead and ... A: You're confused since this is all relatively new to you about sex and dating. I would take your time ... | |
| marriage material | 4/10/2009 |
| Q: what are some clues that a man is 'marriage material' and i should definitely pursue him seriously? A: Signs a man is ready to marry or is marriage material is these things: His time for having casual ... | |
| Dating a guy who has made it clear he does not wnat a committed relationship | 4/9/2009 |
| Q: Here is my situation. I am dating a guy who i am in love with. We started seeing each other since ... A: I don't like saying this to women, but if a man tells you upfront that he's not wanting a committed ... | |
| How to ask a guy to live together? | 4/9/2009 |
| Q: I want to move out of my parents house. I've been talking to a guy for a month now. I really like ... A: I wouldnt rush to move in with a guy I've been talking to for a month. Reason being is that you ... | |
| taking things to the next level | 4/7/2009 |
| Q: I`ve met this gal in the university,have got her email recently.I see her sometimes in the ... A: If this girl is working as a member of the faculty I would be very careful with that. I would ... | |
| Moving out of my parents home to move in with my boyfriend | 4/6/2009 |
| Q: I have been in a steady relationship for almost 2 years now, my boyfriend and I get along great. We ... A: Moving in with a guy isnt a good idea and I am going to explain this to you after seeing female ... | |
| should I pursue? | 4/6/2009 |
| Q: I am a 28 year old woman. I'm in graduate school pursuing a doctorate. I met an incredibly handsome ... A: My take on players is that eventually they do grow up and if he's acting like this eyeing you and ... | |
| I want to move out | 4/5/2009 |
| Q: I've been talking to a guy on myspace for about a month now. We both really like each other but ... A: Have you thought about going away to college near this guy? As far as suggesting you and him be ... | |
| Why isn't this girl replying ? | 4/3/2009 |
| Q: This girl & i have been texting each other lately & things have been going well. We went out as ... A: I would not read too far into this sounds like she's playing games because if she was honest she ... | |
| Can exs still be friends? | 4/3/2009 |
| Q: I'm David and I need your advice. Over two years ago, I broke up with my ex and began dating again. ... A: I would be careful with being friends with exes because they can cause problems for you and the ... | |
| Why isn't this girl replying ? | 3/30/2009 |
| Q: This girl & i have been texting each other lately & things have been going well. We went out as ... A: If someone's not replied to an email or text message within 3 days it could be one of two things ... | |
| Very pregnant with relationship problems | 3/30/2009 |
| Q: I met what I thought was a wonderful guy. I was apprehensive at first being a single mother and had ... A: This is something I tell women over and over again. When you start playing house and making babies a ... | |
| too old for boyfreind especially first one, | 3/28/2009 |
| Q: i am going on 30+ years old.with 11 years of being alone and rejected behind me as well.i have ... A: Sue Ann, Being single isnt a bad thing and when you're not confident with yourself that emits to ... | |
| Need Some Advise | 3/27/2009 |
| Q: Greetings, I met this girl at school a couple of months ago and we began to talk and get to know ... A: Steve, I would be very watchful of this because if she was hesitant when you asked her out she ... | |
| making a mistake? | 3/26/2009 |
| Q: I have a rather complicated story I guess, but its probably not complicated to you because you ... A: Ashley, If you're really interested in this new guy and have been dating him for 6 months that's a ... | |
| Help | 3/23/2009 |
| Q: okay well me an my gf have been together for a year now and just recent, we started having problems ... A: Your girlfriend should not have made plans if she wasnt going to go through them with you. If she ... | |
| he's almost perfect! | 3/13/2009 |
| Q: I’m writing to ask for your kind advice. I have recently met a wonderful guy who is the “prefect” ... A: If you're not feeling him I would tell him the truth the worst thing you can do is lie about your ... | |
| I love my boyfriend, but I like someone else | 3/9/2009 |
| Q: I spoke to my bf yesterday. I tried to brake it off with him. It hurt me so badly to even think ... A: I would really put some thought into this because if you're still in love with this one particular ... | |
| dating | 3/5/2009 |
| Q: I want to settle down with a guy. When I date someone in the beg. it's great, but I sometimes get ... A: What you want to do is figure out what you want in a guy for long term and begin to go with that. ... | |
| A Disappointing Thin........... | 3/4/2009 |
| Q: I want to say about my story first. I'm falling in love with a girl, but she don't even ... A: Keep in mind that this girl is in a relationship with this guy. Second he may have transferred to ... | |
| dating | 2/28/2009 |
| Q: im a 24 year old African americanmale, I recently moved to tampa florida about a year and a half ago ... A: You're not throwing your dating net out far enough because a lot of foreign women are looking for ... | |
| how to stp turn 30 | 2/28/2009 |
| Q: I am 30 yaers old and i never had a single boyfriend once in my life and never had my first ... A: Unfortunately we all get older, but don't stop yourself from living your life. I felt the same way ... | |
| dating | 2/27/2009 |
| Q: I am 28. I have been courting this girl who has a BF. Before I started the process I asked if ... A: What you have is nowhere near a good relationship this girl has a boyfriend. If she's serious about ... | |
| crush | 2/25/2009 |
| Q: There is a girl that I like who is a senior at my high school,and i am a freshman. She is 17,and I ... A: Giving the fact that you're 15 I would be watchful since she's going to be 18 which under law makes ... | |
| dating | 2/25/2009 |
| Q: hey my nme is chad im 20 yrs old and my girlfriend is diane. she is 18. she has a friend named ... A: I would not threaten this guy, but I would let your girlfriend know that what she's doing is ... | |
| Question on writing a good online personal ad | 2/23/2009 |
| Q: How are you? My name is Julian and I reside in Coral Springs, FL. I was checking out single women ... A: My advice to you is be yourself and get to know her as a person and establish getting to know each ... | |
| Relationship Problems | 2/20/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I recently got into a fight because he had found out I was trying to contact my ... A: The biggest problem is people contacting exes when the relationship is over, but your boyfriend ... | |
| time to move on? | 2/18/2009 |
| Q: I am 24 and have been with my boyfriend (44) for two and a half years. We don't have any problems in ... A: I took the time to think about your question and I am going to be honest with you as to what I am ... | |
| Is he cheating? | 2/17/2009 |
| Q: I just have a question for you. My boyfriend and I have only officially been together since ... A: As far as this being a problem...YES it is a problem number one your friend has no business trying ... | |
| I dont know what to talk to my boyfriend about | 2/12/2009 |
| Q: Hey, I have been dating this guy for a month. Everytime we talk he asks me "What do you wanna talk ... A: Part of dating is to get to know each others interests, likes, dislikes. Try doing things together ... | |
| players | 2/6/2009 |
| Q: I'm a female. I liked this gorgeous guy who is a bit of a player. He liked me back too but he didn't ... A: Please pay attention to what I am about to tell you. If you figured out he was a player he's not ... | |
| Did I wait to long and blow a chance to sweep my S off her feet? | 2/1/2009 |
| Q: Around Christmas and New Years I flirted with a woman at work, S, and it looked like she may be ... A: Sounds to me like this person's been hurt before and if she's appearing guarded that means she's ... | |
| Unsure in the beginning | 1/30/2009 |
| Q: Just to preface-I am 23 years old and in my first year of graduate school. I have been dating this ... A: No getting hyped up over things not working out early on is a sign of insecurity. Everyone goes ... | |
| Am I being Selfish? | 1/26/2009 |
| Q: I recently took the next step in my long distance relationship by moving countries to live with my ... A: You made the sacrifice by moving to another country to be with your boyfriend his brother needs to ... | |
| Mixed Signals | 1/25/2009 |
| Q: I am male 24. I like a girl who works in my company. We dont speak much as she is another ... A: If a friend that you know is reliable told you that this girl thinks you're cute she thinks you're ... | |
| complicated relationship | 1/23/2009 |
| Q: ok so this summer i started working with this guy who is 19 (im 17) and after a few times on the ... A: Here's the thing we as women try to change guys, but the thing is we have to stop trying to change ... | |
| Just friends or more? | 1/19/2009 |
| Q: I met a girl in October through mutual friends. I'm 22 and shes 18. She's absolutely gorgeous, ... A: Since you're both fresh out of relationships it's best to not rush into anything new just yet. I ... | |
| Possible-commitment phobe? | 1/18/2009 |
| Q: I'm 15, and there is a boy at my school I really like. I don't know what to do, though, because even ... A: I wouldnt go through with this if you're not looking to be serious it wouldnt be fair to him. If ... | |
| An amazing girl | 1/14/2009 |
| Q: I know this girl that I really like. I sent her an e-mail over myspace asking her if she thought ... A: I would be reserved if someone told me I wasnt ugly and not close to hot that's an insult. That ... | |
| help | 1/11/2009 |
| Q: I have been dating my girlfriend on and off for 5 years now and five months ago she moved with me ... A: I think it's time to decide whether staying together is the best thing because if you've been ... | |
| Should I break up with my boyfriend? | 1/9/2009 |
| Q: I am 18 and have been dating my boyfriend for almost three years. I have just recently found out ... A: What's going on with your parents necessarily doesnt involve you and I wouldnt dump your guy because ... | |
| me and the party! | 1/8/2009 |
| Q: ok i went to this party recently on new years eve with some friends of mine and we got really drunk ... A: I would see your doctor immediately he can prescribe the morning after pill if you had sex without a ... | |
| Relationship in Distress | 1/8/2009 |
| Q: I'm a 21 year old college student. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He lives in ... A: You guys have been together a year and a half and he's not even met your parents yet? OMG this guy ... | |
| Ex's | 1/5/2009 |
| Q: I'm currently seeing someone and he has said that an ex has been contacting him. I have to give him ... A: Your guy needs to state clearly to his ex that he's moved on and is in a relationship with someone ... | |
| dating | 1/2/2009 |
| Q: I have a question about dating.There is a girl at my school who is a senior and 17 years old.I'm a ... A: I would be careful with this since she's almost 18 which under law makes her legally an adult. Plus ... | |
| what do i do | 12/29/2008 |
| Q: i ve been in this mess for over a year now and i m really getting tired .about 2 months ago we ... A: Ok it's time to stop playing games either this guy is going to be with you or his ex he can't have ... | |
| Hello Nafeesah | 12/24/2008 |
| Q: Well I met this guy I love two years ago and it was an attraction at first sight. We then started ... A: Sounds to me like he's being very immature because if he wanted the truth of the matter he would ... | |
| men wanting girls in 20s BUT NOT IN THERE 30S | 12/20/2008 |
| Q: one of the experts on this website told a gil that women in 30s are less attrative and less sexy ... A: Whoever this Dr. Neder is must not know what he's talking about because I am 33 and I have guys ... | |
| Not sure if shes interested | 12/19/2008 |
| Q: I met a girl about a week ago through a friend of mine. A few of my friends and I all went for a ... A: She sounds interested I would explore this further and as for your friend dogs like him are always ... | |
| is my partner gay? | 12/18/2008 |
| Q: ive been with my fiance for over a year .. almost the entire relationship ive had one underlying ... A: It took me some time to think about how to best answer you and I think he could be bi-curious ... | |
| Is she being friendly or does she fancy me? | 12/17/2008 |
| Q: work in M&S and there is a girl who i get along with but can't figure out if she likes me or just ... A: I wouldnt go too much by hearsay unless you actually see this girl with a guy, but I would watch how ... | |
| Desperate for an answer | 12/16/2008 |
| Q: I've been involved with my b-friend for almost 2 years - lived together (with his 3 kids) for 1 1/2 ... A: Sounds to me like he's been creepin and didnt want to come clean until you forced him to. This is ... | |
| question | 12/15/2008 |
| Q: I have been dating my best friends brother (known her for 10 years) for a few months but we have ... A: I think your friend should not be freaking out I mean you're dating her brother now it would be ... | |
| shyness | 12/6/2008 |
| Q: i am a freshmen in high school and i really have a crush on this guy in my class he's very sweet ... A: Having a crush on someone can be a pretty intense experience, but if he's been looking at you that ... | |
| He cheated but I still like him? | 12/6/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a month now and last night he took me aside and told me how the ... A: Alyson, Please don't take this the wrong way when I tell you straight up what you're dealing with ... | |
| advice from another website on rejection | 12/6/2008 |
| Q: a question in general about rejection how is when guy like a girl hes doesn,t getrejected and how ... A: Let me debunk part of this response....number one society has this standard of beauty that has many ... | |
| Relationship drama | 12/4/2008 |
| Q: :) I know this is long but this issue is complex and it wouldn’t be realistic if I removed essential ... A: Sounds to me like dude is trying to mold you into his ideal girl who's perfect meaning she'll put ... | |
| question about past marriage | 12/3/2008 |
| Q: My fiance knows about the marriage I had with my son.I didn't tell about a short marriage I had for ... A: Not really because if it was a short relationship it's not going to really apply here. The only one ... | |
| guys have it easier | 12/1/2008 |
| Q: i don,t know about the USA where i come its always tradtinal for the guys ask the girls out.i don,t ... A: Part of being a woman a guy will look at is to build your confidence and one of those things starts ... | |
| coping | 11/29/2008 |
| Q: do guys get rejected even the goodlooking guys.any guy i know never got rejected.thehe always ... A: Some guys are insecure and even the good looking ones have been rejected. Guys who have a tendency ... | |
| what to do? | 11/28/2008 |
| Q: I am currently a sophomore in college. I have happened to fall head over heels for the most amazing, ... A: Let me sum this up for you if you know this girl has a boyfriend why are you wasting your time with ... | |
| Did I totally screw myself over ? | 11/25/2008 |
| Q: I recently starting to talking to this girl I that I knew back in high schools. We had some classes ... A: Sounds like she wants to be friends, but just doesnt know how to express that to you. You pretty ... | |
| contacting someone from a few years ago | 11/25/2008 |
| Q: My name is Nick, and I am 29 years, but not too experienced when it comes to dating. Here is the ... A: No I think it wouldnt be a bad idea to ask him since he can pass along your information to this girl ... | |
| What am I supposed to think | 11/24/2008 |
| Q: OK Let me see how I can explain this. I met this guy *lets call him Jeff just to make it easier than ... A: Sounds to me like he's playing games and using you and I hate to see how you're sitting there ... | |
| What up with him? | 11/24/2008 |
| Q: I started talking to this guy for about a month on the im. I figured he was cool since we shared ... A: My honest opinion is that he's wanting something more, but he's also tired of being sexual with ... | |
| What up with him? | 11/23/2008 |
| Q: I started talking to this guy for about a month on the im. I figured he was cool since we shared ... A: That's strange to go from saying how you're nice and pretty to absolutely nothing sounds to me like ... | |
| girl | 11/22/2008 |
| Q: ] need some help. i`m matias i`m 21 and there is a girl i like. from the begining. I meet a girl on ... A: If someone indicates they have a significant other I would take that as the truth and move on. You ... | |
| what went wrong | 11/22/2008 |
| Q: I am a junior in college. I recently met an interesting (what attractive girl is not interesting) ... A: That's a sign she's looking for someone, but she's the one giving mixed signals. Sounds to me like ... | |
| experence | 11/20/2008 |
| Q: i meet a lot guys who had girlfreinds before and know how to kiss,and i have no experence at ... A: Have you thought about going to school and getting a skill in something? I met a lot of guys in ... | |
| lifetime of rejection part 3 | 11/20/2008 |
| Q: for me any way getting a boyfreind is far too hard,it takes too long, very year i hope i get a ... A: It's not hard to get a boyfriend I had 3 of them in the last 10 years and my last boyfriend I was ... | |
| hello | 11/20/2008 |
| Q: i am 19 and think my standards are too high in finding a guy. i am a bit picky, but i know what i ... A: You don't have to lower your standards because you don't want to settle for just anyone. You're 19 ... | |
| lifetime of reection part 2 | 11/18/2008 |
| Q: well i can,t move on the reejction hurts too.i,ll nerv ever put any thing pass guy again,i,ll nerver ... A: I've been through rejection and yeah it hurts, but you know what it's that guy(s) loss because they ... | |
| I want to be mature | 11/18/2008 |
| Q: Things between my ex and I are looking up. We have been broken up for four months now (after a two ... A: I think right now you need to take time away and do some serious thinking about this because you ... | |
| Is it just going to take time? | 11/17/2008 |
| Q: "Hi Nafeesah! After reading some of your responses, I had to ask your opinion on my dilemma. I have ... A: Maybe she and this guy are wanting to get back together, but I am sorry that you're sitting here ... | |
| Is this guy too nervous to make a move or not interested? | 11/17/2008 |
| Q: So, I have no idea what is going on with this guy i like. We met at the end of last year, when we ... A: I get a lot of these question like the one you're asking me and I always tell the asker to pay ... | |
| emtional unfaithfulness | 11/17/2008 |
| Q: I have been dating this guy for about 4 months. We met at work. Things progressed a little fast and ... A: If you feel that your boyfriend keeps contacting this girl that's a sign he's wanting to get back ... | |
| rejetect of lifetime | 11/16/2008 |
| Q: the guy who rejeted me 2 yaers ago in nightclub he was drunk and he insulted and addd insult to ... A: You have to make a decision about your life and you can't sit there waiting for a guy to find you. ... | |
| Is it just going to take time? | 11/16/2008 |
| Q: "Hi Nafeesah! After reading some of your responses, I had to ask your opinion on my dilemma. I have ... A: She's fresh from a break up with her boyfriend she wants to be on her own for some time to get over ... | |
| Am I A Cheater? | 11/16/2008 |
| Q: I'm a 22 year old woman and I am an andrologist. I've been dating my current boyfriend for about a ... A: You need to be careful since you want to keep your sexual fetishes separate from the job. There's ... | |
| no hope | 11/15/2008 |
| Q: i am 27 yaers there is no hope of ever fiding love any guy i have like have went off with other ... A: You have to begin to build your self esteem back up and to work on having a positive self image. You ... | |
| Getting her back | 11/15/2008 |
| Q: well last year I met this girl over the internet...we became friends as we had a lot in common...we ... A: The thing with online relationships is that you don't get actual face to face time. This girl you're ... | |
| He said he only sees me as a friend, but doesn't act like it. | 11/14/2008 |
| Q: I thought my guy friend liked me as more than a friend. I was so sure of it because of the way he ... A: Ok starting off this guy is not being straight with you when you asked him how he felt about you the ... | |
| nerdy guys part 2 | 11/14/2008 |
| Q: but do get him to like me if he does at all.may be he only goodlooking girls not girls lke me .i am ... A: You have to take a chance or miss out on an opportunity to meet someone. Part of learning how to ... | |
| i'm confused | 11/11/2008 |
| Q: i'm married and it was an arranged marriage,i was really dissappointed after my marriage,me and my ... A: Maybe this guy was afraid that because of your culture since I see a lot of arranged marriages among ... | |
| nerdy guys | 11/10/2008 |
| Q: i seem to like nerdy guys with glasses and into computers big time,quiet and awkard,genuine .i like ... A: The thing with a lot of nerdy guys is that many of them get rejected for being goofy looking and ... | |
| life | 11/9/2008 |
| Q: i know this isn,t area of expertise but i have no one to talk to. i am 27 yaers old .i feel life ... A: Ann, Thank you for writing to me and I understand your pain I've been there trust me it's not fun. ... | |
| my boss | 11/7/2008 |
| Q: Ok so my male boss, a cabinet secretary for our department, got upset with me the other day for ... A: I would be careful with this he could be indicating something, but you're also dealing with someone ... | |
| Jealousy | 11/4/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I are early 30's and dating for almost 6 months. I am starting to notice jealousy ... A: I had this issue with my now ex and part of what you're saying is what I had to deal with and in the ... | |
| Our fights | 11/4/2008 |
| Q: Were good friends for about a year and a half before we got into a relationship. Both of us are in ... A: If things have escalated to this point do you really think it's going to get any better? I don't ... | |
| will he want relationship? | 11/4/2008 |
| Q: there's this guy at work that I've really hit it off with. We've been flirting lots but have also ... A: Spend this time getting to know each other because sex is the last thing you need to be thinking ... | |
| What do i say to a girl when i get her number ? | 11/4/2008 |
| Q: I am a male teen who's naturally very shy. But today i got a girl's number for the first time. ... A: If the girl gave you her number yes you should call her back and begin getting to know her. Few guys ... | |
| Dating, friends, and dropping people from your life | 11/3/2008 |
| Q: I have a rather complicated situation that isn't very easy to explain, but I’m going to do my best ... A: I would take this as this guy's way of saying he's not interested and by him not calling you he's ... | |
| making out | 11/2/2008 |
| Q: Ok so heres the thing; Ok i have made out before and all, but tomorrow i have like a REALLY hot ... A: I wouldnt rush into making out with someone because you can make a girl uncomfortable with that. I ... | |
| Online dating? | 11/2/2008 |
| Q: I wasn't sure who/where to ask this question. If I meet someone online via craigslist, or eharmony, ... A: If you're meeting someone from online whether it be a chat room or a dating website it's best to ... | |
| guys | 10/28/2008 |
| Q: I am usually a loud-spoken girl but for some reason i cant speak to guys, even ones i dont like or ... A: The best way to learn how to talk to guys is to watch your friends or even just going out in public ... | |
| comunication problem | 10/28/2008 |
| Q: Ok me and my girl are both 18 born on the same day we are seniors in high school and live an hour ... A: You need to address the direction of where your relationship is going that should get her attention ... | |
| Can my guy acquaintance like me? | 10/25/2008 |
| Q: So I'm going crazy about this guy who I don't see all the time, but recently I've been seeing him ... A: Do you think he might be seeing someone? That could be a reason for his absence. He could be busy ... | |
| What should I do.. | 10/24/2008 |
| Q: Well I have a situation. Me and my boyfriend just broke up after 2 1/2 years. Because I moved 200 ... A: I would ship his stuff to him don't take it to him personally. Don't give him a reason to try and ... | |
| probation | 10/24/2008 |
| Q: ok me and a guy want to date but he is currently in probation... his PO for some reason says that we ... A: He's not committing a felony by being with you because you're the same age. If that's the case call ... | |
| Can my guy acquaintance like me? | 10/23/2008 |
| Q: So I'm going crazy about this guy who I don't see all the time, but recently I've been seeing him ... A: Sounds like you guys like each other, but it will have to take more for the two of you to get to ... | |
| How to get your boyfriend to let down his walls? | 10/22/2008 |
| Q: Ok this is going to be a long one. My boyfriend and I met on myspace. I had just recently got ... A: This took me a moment to think about this sorry if it's taken me some time. Part of what you're ... | |
| complicated | 10/21/2008 |
| Q: I jus moved to a new state don't have any friends jus my bro. I started work and started to make ... A: Having a long distance relationship is hard to maintain especially if both people involved are not ... | |
| boobs part 2 | 10/19/2008 |
| Q: i am 27 yaers and small boobs .and very fat face not all cute . i missed out on lot never having a ... A: You're not the only one in this world who's going through this and the only way you're going to have ... | |
| Shy | 10/19/2008 |
| Q: I feel so shy around girls...and I don't know how to fix it... A: Eventually you're going to have to make that transition and get out there and begin talking to girls ... | |
| Would a girl like this approach & brighten her day ? | 10/16/2008 |
| Q: I see this girl in my gym every now and then, who i think is stunning. If i was to randomly go up to ... A: If you're giving her a compliment like saying how beautiful she is then it's not offensive. Impress ... | |
| boobs | 10/16/2008 |
| Q: do men find women with very small boobs attractive or not. men are more ask out a girls with huge ... A: Society infuses into our thinking of what is considered acceptable images of beauty. There's nothing ... | |
| Help i don't want to push him away | 10/14/2008 |
| Q: I am a 24 year old woman. I fell pregnant when i was 20 years old & married the guy( we are divorced ... A: If he's not wanting to do anything that can be the sign of excessive clingy behavior. You might want ... | |
| blokes | 10/14/2008 |
| Q: i have another i find blokes are aggresstive at me for no reason pick on me .they have aggresstive ... A: Men are going to be who they are you can't change them, but you can only change yourself. Men are ... | |
| I messed up and i want her back.... | 10/9/2008 |
| Q: Alyssa(15) and i have been together for about 6 months and we kept on breaking up and making up most ... A: Number one rule DO NOT listen to your girlfriends' friends sometimes friends are jealous and envy ... | |
| not appealing | 10/8/2008 |
| Q: i don,t it fair why other girls can boyfreinds but not me .i didn,t even a kiss off a guy i like ... A: Guys have their preferences, but you have to make yourself appealing to guys by having self ... | |
| Confused... | 10/8/2008 |
| Q: To try and make a really long story short, I like a shy boy. I'm a little shy, myself, but not a ... A: Sometimes it takes the first step to bring the lines of communication open. You have to take a risk ... | |
| Finding the Right Girl | 10/6/2008 |
| Q: First of all I would like to thank you for this excellent free service. Not a lot of people ... A: First and foremost you're one of the rare form of guys I know since most of the guys I meet are into ... | |
| age difference | 10/5/2008 |
| Q: hi I was wondering in New Jersey if im a 21 year old male can i legally date and engage in sexual ... A: I would be very careful with this some states 16 is the age of consent and other states may have ... | |
| *** More than Friends??? | 10/4/2008 |
| Q: I just recently broke up with my girlfriend, it was a sour end and she had just been with someone ... A: Sounds like you like her, but she's dealing with having to get over this guy she was dating. It ... | |
| How can I get my ex boyfriend back. | 10/3/2008 |
| Q: I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years, engaged for 6 months. He just left me with no explanation. ... A: I hate to say this to you, but he's not going to come back and there's nothing you can do about it. ... | |
| Just ondering if i stuffed up a chance to go out with a girl i like? | 9/29/2008 |
| Q: Im 16 and live in a rural town, the girl i like goes to the same school as me, in fact since the ... A: Starting off with something simple and nothing over the top will help you get to know this girl ... | |
| what is he thinking? | 9/24/2008 |
| Q: I am not sure what is going on with this guy. We have been seen each other for almost 2 months now. ... A: It took me a bit to think about things, but what I came up with is that some guys are scared of a ... | |
| actors | 9/23/2008 |
| Q: what i read about jothan rhy myres .he said he woulnd,t date a fat girl or actress ,and he,ll only ... A: By his admission to that it officially makes him shallow and anytime a guy has to degrade women like ... | |
| younger women | 9/22/2008 |
| Q: i find men betweeen ages 25 to 25 now want to go out with girls as young as 17 yaers olds and i ... A: Most of these guys who are dating teenage girls are going to eventually find someone closer to their ... | |
| Just ondering if i stuffed up a chance to go out with a girl i like? | 9/19/2008 |
| Q: Im 16 and live in a rural town, the girl i like goes to the same school as me, in fact since the ... A: Yeah I would ask her out again since none of us expect our cell phones to go screwy on us. Sounds ... | |
| Next Step | 9/18/2008 |
| Q: I am 14. She is 15. Same grade. I have a girlfriend that I have had since last April. I really like ... A: She maybe uncomfortable with being more intimate with you. Your girlfriend's parents and sister ... | |
| rejection part 2 | 9/16/2008 |
| Q: i am NOT meeting them on line.i am meting in sports event and sport i do.I don,t know to get ... A: It's a start to getting yourself back on track, but don't rely solely on a diet pill you have to eat ... | |
| How do I ask her out? When? | 9/15/2008 |
| Q: I want to thank you so much for your help. I really need a girl's opinion on what to do. Here is my ... A: I apologize if it's taken me a bit to get back to you I was thinking about your lengthy question. I ... | |
| rejection | 9/13/2008 |
| Q: sorry to bother you agin.but guys do hate fat or thin.guys were never nice to me not even once.they ... A: When you don't have any self-confidence men wont notice you. Men have their preferences and if they ... | |
| How to get to know that new cool person you just met... | 9/11/2008 |
| Q: Hey, this might be a sort of weird question but hopefully by the end of it, it will make sense. I ... A: Since you both got out of relationships I would actually work on being friends first so that you and ... | |
| Co-worker situation | 9/11/2008 |
| Q: How should I ask my ex-co worker out?, I only got to say hi once! (keep reading...)? I only worked ... A: If he's got an email address through the company email him and ask him what you want to ask him. If ... | |
| Are girls looking at me becasue i'm ugly ? | 9/10/2008 |
| Q: I am male teen 18 and i started college the other day. When i was walking into the entrance, this ... A: If girls are looking maybe it's because they do find you attractive and if you changed some looks it ... | |
| help | 9/7/2008 |
| Q: I am a 45 years old man living in Venezuela, married and with 2 kids. One week ago i travelled to ... A: You don't want to lead someone on because getting intimate even without sex carries consequences. ... | |
| parents hate me | 9/7/2008 |
| Q: this is a long one, that has more than one story behind it. So my g/f and I leave parties early, ... A: Your girlfriend's parents don't hate you they're not ready to let their daughter grow up and make ... | |
| He Moved Away | 9/4/2008 |
| Q: old and I was recently talking to this guy in college. I'm a junior and he graduated last year. We ... A: I would move on if this guy's not reciprocating his feelings towards you back. It's not fair for you ... | |
| How Many Dates | 9/4/2008 |
| Q: Okay. I met a particular young lady almost 4 weeks ago. We went out and had a blast! We have went ... A: You want my honest opinion about this when someone says they want an understanding and not looking ... | |
| problems with my boyfriend | 9/4/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He is 23 and I am 20. I love him with all my heart ... A: Sounds like your boyfriend has some needs sexually that he's not able to relay to you and to want to ... | |
| neeed advice PLEASE?! | 9/2/2008 |
| Q: alright...my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months on september 5. i really want to do ... A: Make your boyfriend a nice dinner and watch a movie together you want to do something that's cost ... | |
| Sex... | 8/31/2008 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. And him not afraid to touch her. In fact i finger ... A: Sounds like your girlfriend isnt ready to have sexual intercourse yet and she may not be comfortable ... | |
| I'm sort of new in this town... | 8/30/2008 |
| Q: I'm a single man age 34 who moved from Columbus Ohio to Louisville Kentucky about a year ago. I'm ... A: You moved to a new city so it's taking some time to adjust to a new setting. Have you considered a ... | |
| rejection yet again part 2 | 8/30/2008 |
| Q: the guy i was telling you did go out exterme amount of girls he country lad living in the city .when ... A: I would have to agree with your mother that he might be married or involved with someone and uses ... | |
| ... | 8/27/2008 |
| Q: Yes, I am 5'8, 140 pounds, very slender and very toned. Many women are not attracted to me and call ... A: Unfortunately society doesnt help matters with telling you what is considered handsome and ... | |
| rejection yet again | 8/26/2008 |
| Q: i have story tell you going back 6 years.i meet this guy at course a really good looking guy and he ... A: I wouldnt bother with him since he sounds shallow. I would spend some time working on your ... | |
| dating | 8/26/2008 |
| Q: So i am 16 and this guy is 19. And he started talking to me because he found me attractive. He is so ... A: Here's my take on it I would be very careful with this because you're 16 and this guy is 19 making ... | |
| ? | 8/25/2008 |
| Q: I am 20, he is 22. We've been together about three and a half years, and we've lived together for ... A: When men that young start acting like that he's starting to lose interest in the relationship and ... | |
| Getting back with an ex | 8/25/2008 |
| Q: I used to Date this guy about 6 years ago. I am 29 years old and he is 30. Me and him go way back ... A: It seems like you have something there, but there's too many issues that need to be worked through ... | |
| Relationship problems concerning past | 8/25/2008 |
| Q: I have a general problem. I do not know how to overcome these problems. Its not that complicated but ... A: Sounds to me like she's rebounding and not giving herself time to recover from this last ... | |
| Lost Love Found? | 8/21/2008 |
| Q: I met this very nice lady named Christina on match.com. Initially, we chatted on yahoo messenger ... A: Sounds like there's a connection and you're going the right way by going out on dates, but I think ... | |
| Your point of view | 8/20/2008 |
| Q: Nafeesah I would like an opinion from You. A guy approaches a Women in person and the Women shows ... A: Sounds like she's playing games because someone who's genuinely interested would answer their phone ... | |
| Strange? | 8/18/2008 |
| Q: I have dated a guy for four years. Except for the first six months our sex life is down to maybe ... A: I would really do some serious thinking about the direction your relationship is going because if ... | |
| Is this the end? | 8/15/2008 |
| Q: I'm a 25 year old female, red hair, white complexion. My boyfriend of 6 months is 21 he has a crew ... A: Here's where a lot of people get thrown off when you're dating a guy who's 2 years out of his teens ... | |
| Asking her out online? | 8/13/2008 |
| Q: was working when I saw a beautiful girl who seems really nice and I wanted to give her my number. I ... A: You can give the girl your contact information, but what your employer would frown at is getting ... | |
| Why were the 2 girls looking at me ? | 8/12/2008 |
| Q: I was working out today at the gym and after i had gotten changed , i went to the cafe bar to buy a ... A: If they were looking at you they were probably thinking you were a good looking guy. If you see this ... | |
| love isn,t for me | 8/11/2008 |
| Q: idon,t love for me because every guy i meet doesn,t wnat any thing to do with me.the fact i am 27 ... A: You're not meant to be alone you need to build your self confidence up and start with fixing up the ... | |
| a good place for a 1st date | 8/9/2008 |
| Q: i am 16 years old and just wondering if a girl likes me. she is quiet and we have known each other ... A: Ask her again if she's free to do something and keep in mind that if someone's repeatedly telling ... | |
| Did I over react? | 8/7/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend 31 and myself 25 have been dating about 2 years, we live together and are very close. ... A: Sounds like he's kind of taking you and the relationship for granted because if he's going to be ... | |
| healthy relationship | 8/7/2008 |
| Q: I am a young professional who recently started a new relationship. We have known eachother for about ... A: It is beginning to get excessive and maybe you need to have some time apart for things to cool down ... | |
| she asked me for my number ,confused | 8/6/2008 |
| Q: i have/had a crush on a girl i was taking summer classes with, we're both 20+, college kids, well ... A: Ok let's address that crush you have full knowledge of this girl having a boyfriend.....she's off ... | |
| Relationship with boyfriend | 8/6/2008 |
| Q: I want your advice about my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been dating for seven years and ... A: Sounds like your boyfriend is using emotional abuse and manipulation to keep the nonsense going such ... | |
| healthy relationship | 8/5/2008 |
| Q: I am a young professional who recently started a new relationship. We have known eachother for about ... A: It's hard when you start dating someone that it can get to be too much if you're together a lot. ... | |
| i'm confused | 8/4/2008 |
| Q: i met a nice guy about a month ago on line, he is 33 and i am 30, (we both have been single for 4 ... A: A man that is serious about you won't go a few days without calling or emailing you. Sounds to me ... | |
| kissing | 8/1/2008 |
| Q: hey. im 14 and me and my boyfriend hve been going out for about 3 weeks. i know its not that long ... A: Kissing is one of those things that you perfect over time. A first kiss isnt always going to be good ... | |
| Relationship with boyfriend | 7/28/2008 |
| Q: I want your advice about my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been dating for seven years and ... A: Sounds to me like your boyfriend is gradually losing interest in the relationship because if he's ... | |
| a good place for a 1st date | 7/26/2008 |
| Q: i am 16 years old and just wondering if a girl likes me. she is quiet and we have known each other ... A: One of the disadvantages of rural communities is the limited social outlets. I am not sure if your ... | |
| if a quiet girl likes me or not. | 7/24/2008 |
| Q: i am 16 years old and just wondering if a girl likes me. she is quiet and we have known each other ... A: Sounds like this girl does like you by how you're not coming off as loud like your friends. You guys ... | |
| Co-worker | 7/22/2008 |
| Q: There is a girl I work with who seems to really like me. She shows plenty of interest in me and is ... A: That could be a sign she does like you, but you want to make sure she's not playing games with you ... | |
| Not expressing myself, and he's frustrated. Help? | 7/22/2008 |
| Q: I have a question to ask you about how i can fix this problem. I have been with my boyfriend for a ... A: The nature of your relationship is long distance so that can be hard on someone and can affect their ... | |
| kissing | 7/21/2008 |
| Q: i was woundering how do i get a guy kiss me because i don,t know how to kiss,i am extermely shy and ... A: The one thing that I've told to women that helps them to understand why guys sometimes don't notice ... | |
| My Boyfriend | 7/19/2008 |
| Q: "I just started going out with this guy, Austin. He called me and we talk a lot and yesterday he ... A: Don't rush on your first kiss you got plenty of time to experience that. I actually got back in ... | |
| early dates | 7/17/2008 |
| Q: I have been seeing a man that lives in my neighborhood for about 3 weeks. We have drinks at his ... A: Since you've been dating this guy for about 3 weeks now this is the early stages of dating, but if ... | |
| taking a break in a relationship | 7/16/2008 |
| Q: My girlfriend found out that her father had been cheating on her mother a few months ago, and it ... A: It sounds like you both need a break in the relationship to get some things in order and to figure ... | |
| Him | 7/14/2008 |
| Q: for the past year and a half i have been liking this dude a lot...i mean words and explain the way i ... A: It seems like this guy is playing games because he's talking about having sex with you and you ... | |
| gentleman | 7/14/2008 |
| Q: its me again.i was woundering would i attracted a gentleman with class,cluture,sophicated ,digeished ... A: Sleazy men like weak women and it takes a strong woman to not tolerate crap like that. You're not a ... | |
| Insecurity? | 7/11/2008 |
| Q: I've been dating my boyfriend for over 7 months. We have a pretty good relationship. The problem is, ... A: I think your boyfriend is immature if he's never had a serious relationship and if he's joking about ... | |
| im in love | 7/6/2008 |
| Q: i know this guy when he was a 8 grader and i was a 7 grader he is Caucasian and I'm latina ... A: I wouldnt bother with hearsay because 9 times out of 10 the information is inaccurate. I would talk ... | |
| never had a boyfreind part 2 | 7/5/2008 |
| Q: what it was he thought i wanted to sleep with him not the other around.the next day it just done ... A: It's not sad because everyone learns about dating at different times it's up to you to change ... | |
| Parents Don't Like Boyfriend, But Parents Are Insane | 7/3/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I met when I dropped out of an Ivy League University and I couldn't go back and see ... A: Your parents only want the best for you and the things they never had, but it's time to live your ... | |
| never had a boyfreind | 7/2/2008 |
| Q: it louise again,i never had boyfreind may be it becuase i am ugly looking,short ,fat,i am never even ... A: The thing is you have to have self confidence because I felt the same way you did and as I matured I ... | |
| looks | 7/1/2008 |
| Q: but i do i meet who aren,t shallow the majority i meet are very shallow and who don,t want to seen ... A: What many guys don't know is that the girls in Playboy are fake and artificial most of the models on ... | |
| what should i do? | 7/1/2008 |
| Q: this was my first relationship plus we were friends and sure i was far from a perfect bf but i tried ... A: Please I understand plenty about learning disabilities so your misspelling was not a problem I ... | |
| look | 6/29/2008 |
| Q: why is it only the good looking pepole find love . just let say the likes jensen ackles always finds ... A: Actually to be honest most attractive people are winding up single due to the fact that quite a few ... | |
| jealous girlfreind | 6/27/2008 |
| Q: my girlfriend has a problem with me talking to my ex-girlfriend of 10 years. she thinks that my ex ... A: I see where your current girlfriend is coming from because there are cases where guys who stay ... | |
| Impossible Love | 6/25/2008 |
| Q: I went on Vacation to another country, with absolutely no intention of meeting people, But I did. I ... A: In answering your question I can't tell you what you should do about this guy because you don't ... | |
| Describing male needs to a female..... | 6/16/2008 |
| Q: Women often seem confused about why sex/physical contact is so important to a man. The fact that ... A: Sex is important, but that's not the basis of a relationship and there's other elements you should ... | |
| Age difference | 6/12/2008 |
| Q: I was wondering, in New Jersey, is it legal for a 15 year old to date an 18-going-on-19 year old? A: Actually New Jersey law stipulates that the age of consent according to the law books is 16, but I ... | |
| Don't know what to do. | 6/11/2008 |
| Q: I'll keep this short and to the point. I'm 30. The other day I walked in on the girl I've been ... A: I would be shocked as well as disgusted because the girl is having sex with her brother. Clearly ... | |
| Suspected Cheats and Lies; confusing | 6/10/2008 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together 8 months now, and we have a good relationship, the one that ... A: I would be suspicious after you've been honest with each other for so long.I would be questioning ... | |
| Hiim | 6/5/2008 |
| Q: for the past year and a half i have been liking this dude a lot...i mean words and explain the way i ... A: If your best friend dated him and some significant time has passed since the relationship ended then ... | |
| 6 month | 6/5/2008 |
| Q: okay it's going to be my boyfriend's and mine 6th month anniversary but the problem is that i don't ... A: Maybe buy him some songs for his IPod since some sites allow you to purchase and download songs for ... | |
| dating | 6/3/2008 |
| Q: This guy and myself have been friends for over 2 yrs, and we just recently expressed our feelings to ... A: Ok this is a tricky subject, but I'll do my best to answer the question. Starting off you both like ... | |
| cheating husband | 5/30/2008 |
| Q: i had a baby a year a go but all this happend to me as i was pregnant when i was 4 months pregnant i ... A: This sounds all too familiar to me because you went from having just the two of you to now adding a ... | |
| GirlFriend Problem | 5/28/2008 |
| Q: me and my girl went out since she was 15 and i was 18. we went out for three and a half years and ... A: I agree that your girlfriend is being very selfish it's like she expects you to be there with her at ... | |
| Confusing Online Relationship | 5/28/2008 |
| Q: I am in a little bit of a difficult situation: Two months ago I met a really sweet guy online. He is ... A: This is what I tell people about internet relationships and that is to go into them with your eyes ... | |
| ex gf | 5/27/2008 |
| Q: my girlfriend and i dated for almost 6 months. we are both 25. one day, she told me she wanted a ... A: When you start dating I would usually give a couple months before going home to meet family. She ... | |
| ex gf | 5/26/2008 |
| Q: my girlfriend and i dated for almost 6 months. we are both 25. one day, she told me she wanted a ... A: Your ex sounded like she didnt know what she wanted many people seem to go into relationships ... | |
| Pls advise me | 5/26/2008 |
| Q: i have a problem which i hope u can help me. i am 28 years old and i've known my boyfriend for ... A: He sounds to me like he's still playing the field because a man who's serious about someone wouldnt ... | |
| boyfriend and friends | 5/22/2008 |
| Q: I feel like my best friend likes my boyfriend. We became friends last year and she is currently ... A: Your friend is not your friend if she's flirting and making passes at your boyfriend she's ... | |
| break up | 5/22/2008 |
| Q: i've been dating this girl for fun but i fallen in love and because of she feel in fault to not tobe ... A: My take is to just do it or you don't because as she said you guys are in your 30s and at that point ... | |
| break up | 5/22/2008 |
| Q: i've been dating this girl for fun but i fallen in love and because of she feel in fault to not tobe ... A: This is a touchy subject because this is something men don't really pay attention to until it's too ... | |
| boyfriend and friends | 5/21/2008 |
| Q: I feel like my best friend likes my boyfriend. We became friends last year and she is currently ... A: There's this universal rule my best friend and I go by and that is we never pursuit the same man if ... | |
| Dating a Single dad | 5/18/2008 |
| Q: I read some of the advice you have given in regards to dating. I have starting dating someone for ... A: If you've been dating exclusively for the past 4 months then it's looking like the relationship is ... | |
| his friends | 4/27/2008 |
| Q: I was arguing at a bar last night with my boyfriend his friend decided to get pushy with me and my ... A: Starting off what happened between you and your boyfriend is none of his friend's business and if ... | |
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