| Subject | Date Asked |
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| What is going on? | 11/15/2009 |
Q: I met a man 4 mnths ago but just recently started seeing him again after I broke things off with him ...
A: Patricia: You were totally right to leave him before because you thought that he was using you for ...
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| Why would she lead me on? | 11/14/2009 |
Q: My teachers assisstant? I have this TA in my history class at college that I am very attracted to. ...
A: Jason: I do not know why she would lead you on but since she is married you need to leave her alone ...
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| HELP! | 11/12/2009 |
Q: Hey Murphy Smith, College started up again, and I began talking to this guy for about 2 months. ...
A: Tara: Thousands if not millions of guys would talk to a woman for months just for sex because to ...
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| Is he in to me. | 11/6/2009 |
Q: I have this man, of course I like or wouldn't be asking right. He calls me or text me when he's ...
A: totallyconfussed: Why would you want to be involved with a man who only calls you when he has been ...
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| the plan for the date | 11/3/2009 |
Q: How`re you? Two dates with this gal have gone well,I`ll be having a date with her tomorrow,actually ...
A: Siavash: I am not sure what indoor activity to recommend? Perhaps bowling, a movie or take her to a ...
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| Discussing a Disability | 11/1/2009 |
Q: I'm hoping you can help me with this. I've had petit mal epilepsy since I was thirteen, and now ...
A: Jill: I have many friends who have epilepsy so I know how you feel and what you are going through. ...
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| Confused about her behavior. Need resolution | 10/29/2009 |
Q: Ok. My problem involves a woman I met last summer. Here's some background info. I was 41 when we met ...
A: Mark: I would not deal with anymore as a friend or for possible sex again that may actually never ...
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| Asking out a girl | 10/25/2009 |
Q: I really like this girl who works in a nearby supermarket. I think she's really pretty. What would ...
A: Mark: Simply go up to her and tell her that you think that she is very pretty and that you would ...
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| unsure of how to not run | 10/22/2009 |
Q: hey there my name is amber and i am 19 yrs old. i am dating and engaged to the most amazing guy in ...
A: Amber: At 33 yrs old this man is too old for you and although you may think it is love that is not ...
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| Being in the control | 10/21/2009 |
Q: how`re you? I`ve had two dates with this gal which have gone well.But when I called her yesterday ...
A: Siavash: You are not in control of the relationship if she will not answer you as far as having a ...
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| Group Dinner | 10/16/2009 |
Q: I met a boy on Sunday (we're both 19). He had been talking to my best friend (JD) and his new ...
A: Alana: I apologize for not understanding your question before. You are not being too forward to ...
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| Group Dinner | 10/16/2009 |
Q: I met a boy on Sunday (we're both 19). He had been talking to my best friend (JD) and his new ...
A: Alana: Why would you try and talk to a boy whom you already said has a girlfriend because I doubt ...
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| body language | 10/14/2009 |
Q: how`re you?It`s siavash again. As far as the body language is concerned ,which way of walking is ...
A: Siavash: Nice to hear from you again. Women like you to walk upright with good posture but for it ...
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| relationship | 10/11/2009 |
Q: I was in a relationship for about a month with this girl. Pure bliss. The second, a total ...
A: Brandon: I do not think that this relationship is going to work because it is not healthy for you. ...
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| . | 10/9/2009 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend had been dating for a year and seven months. I am a freshman in college and she ...
A: Mike: It is obvious to me that she has moved on and I would move on also because by her actions and ...
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| ex-boyfriend | 10/8/2009 |
Q: I just met the most wonderful women a little over a month ago. I was actually on a blind date when I ...
A: Todd: Definately send her a casual text and continue to be her friend and have contact with her ...
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| ex-boyfriend | 10/7/2009 |
Q: I just met the most wonderful women a little over a month ago. I was actually on a blind date when I ...
A: Todd: There is nothing that you can do to make her not go back to her ex boyfriend because they ...
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| Am i reacting inappropriately | 10/5/2009 |
Q: I wanted advice on this from people with more experience then a group of 20 year old girls, because ...
A: Jonas: You may not want to admit or face what I am about to say but your girl does not love you and ...
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| How should I proceed? | 9/26/2009 |
Q: Met this girl a couple months back, and instantly clicked. Anytime we were in the same room we spent ...
A: Josh: Tell her that things are drying up as far as things coming up like that used to that enabled ...
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| How should I proceed? | 9/26/2009 |
Q: Met this girl a couple months back, and instantly clicked. Anytime we were in the same room we spent ...
A: Josh: Tell her that in no way were you trying to direspect her or upset her when you told her how ...
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| not calling too soon | 9/19/2009 |
Q: I`ve got this gal`s number today,how many days should I wait before calling her for the first time ...
A: MIR. Call her tomorrow and do not worry about appearing too needy just be yourself, polite and ...
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| Lacking of Affection... | 9/18/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 10 months now. I am 19 and he is 21. We live about a ...
A: Angel: It is good that you spoke to him about your feelings because now you know what the real ...
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| I have a crush AND a boyfriend...please help! | 9/18/2009 |
Q: Things have been going pretty well except I barely ever see him during the school day, we have no ...
A: Joliza: At your age I do not think you should have a boyfriend at all. You should date and see ...
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| Lacking of Affection... | 9/17/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 10 months now. I am 19 and he is 21. We live about a ...
A: Angel: Instead of trying to guess how he feels or if you are too affectionate why not just tell him ...
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| Casual dating confusion | 9/15/2009 |
Q: I am asking you this question because I think you are male, and I could us a little male ...
A: Aurelia: I would simply talk to him and tell him what you told me and ask him why he did the things ...
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| What to do if the ex enters the picture? | 9/13/2009 |
Q: I recently am dating a man of a month now that has already said he wants to pursue a longtime ...
A: Nancy: If he was done with his ex as he told you he would not have had any problem telling her to ...
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| dating foreign men | 9/9/2009 |
Q: I am dating men who is on business visa in US. Recently he start come up with questions about moving ...
A: Luinda: Yes, I think that you should leave him alone because he is moving too fast and you could ...
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| He says he doesnt know how he sees me...? | 9/8/2009 |
Q: At first I was his like the little sister he never had..and then I figured out that he's head over ...
A: Danielle: From what you told me it sounds like he is trying to politely say that he does not feel ...
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| Does he really care about me...does he really want to be with me? | 9/4/2009 |
Q: "I've been talking with this guy for almost two months...in fact he remembers the anniversary and ...
A: I would move slow. Although he says that he does not want to be with the other woman anymore he has ...
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| is he too jealous? | 9/2/2009 |
Q: so me and my boyfriend are 17 yrs old and have been dating for 4 years but he is really jealous and ...
A: Tim: Good relationships are built on trust. If you wanted to go ice skating I believe that you ...
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| He Blamed Me! | 8/30/2009 |
Q: So let me summarize this situation as best as I can. I started my new job a month ago and this one ...
A: Missy: You meet a guy and after a month of him basically harrasing you and stalking you then you ...
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| need advice | 8/25/2009 |
Q: "Hi! Im 26 years old and just got out of a 4 1/2 year relationship. Due to the fact he has a ...
A: Kathleen: You still think about your ex boyfriend and feel guilty about seeing the new guy because ...
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| Stacey | 8/22/2009 |
Q: My name is Dave. I’m 23. I just graduated from college and landed a job as a stock broker. I just ...
A: Dave: First of all congratulations on graduating from college and becoming a stock broker because ...
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| Should I persure her or let her go? | 8/20/2009 |
Q: I'm not sure what to do and I've been loosing sleep over this, so I'm hoping you can help me. I've ...
A: Steve: You are being used and she will continue to use and hurt you as long as you let her. Waiting ...
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| the writtings on the wall | 8/16/2009 |
Q: I have a little bit of a problem okay I met this guy bout 7mon. when we 1st started he wuz sweet as ...
A: Christina: He used you for sex and does not care about you at all. You need to stop calling him and ...
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| Asking her out | 8/1/2009 |
Q: I`ve met this gal in the university ,got her number and I am going to call her to ask her on a date ...
A: Siavash: What you said sounds good. If it were me I would just say to her: "Would you like to meet ...
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| whould I trust him again | 7/29/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together about 10months now. Before he met me he wa on and off for ...
A: Kelly: Based on the things that you have told me your boyfriend is definately still involved with ...
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| Longterm Relationship Worth Pursuing? | 7/14/2009 |
Q: In the past six years, I've been single for a total of one month's time. I was in a committed ...
A: Grace: Although you may like this guy and he is a good guy you sound like you want to explore ...
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| Hey murphy | 7/13/2009 |
Q: Murphy hi i have a girl we have been together for nine months and we have been going through ups and ...
A: Brian: Try and tell her that you have not been seeing another girl and if she still does not ...
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| Confused | 7/8/2009 |
Q: OK here's the background. My marriage was ending. I for years was conflicted because I realized I ...
A: Mark: My insight is for you to leave her alone and do not deal with or contact her anymore. If she ...
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| bring sex back into our relationship | 7/2/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend of 4 years hasn't had sex with me in 2 years.I know she loves me and has never cheated ...
A: Steve: Sex is an important part of many relationships and understandably you are concerned because ...
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| Dating Dilemma! | 7/1/2009 |
Q: I have these two female friends – A and B. We all worked together. I was just friends with A before ...
A: Patrick: If you truly like "B" better than "A" then call "B" and tell her how you feel about her ...
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| Just not that into me? | 6/29/2009 |
Q: I met a really great guy recently. We met at a friend's party, he took my number & asked me out the ...
A: Marche: At first he was spending alot of time with you and texting you then all of a sudden it all ...
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| I don't know what to say. | 6/20/2009 |
Q: Is he blowing me off without detailing it? 30 years ago we had a thing for each other and went our ...
A: Connie: I am not sure why you would think that because he said to you "When it rains it pours" that ...
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| Defensiveness | 6/19/2009 |
Q: I’m dating this girl of 2 years and we live together. My girlfriend left her ex of three years for ...
A: Bryan: From what you have said she cannot be trusted, which is why she gets very defensive and as ...
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| no trust in relationship | 6/17/2009 |
Q: I made a big mistake and got involved with a married man who continued to go back and forth with his ...
A: Julie: It sounds to me as if he does cheat on you and has definitely done so in the past. You have ...
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| no trust in relationship | 6/16/2009 |
Q: I made a big mistake and got involved with a married man who continued to go back and forth with his ...
A: Julie: I would not stay with him for the sake of the kids if he is cheating on you and not being ...
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| i want my ex back...but she has a new guy... | 6/16/2009 |
Q: my ex girlfriend and I broke up 2 weeks or so ago and it has been tough for me. we ended on "good ...
A: Jim: When you first broke up two weeks that was the time that you should have told her that you ...
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| whats next? | 6/14/2009 |
Q: Okay, I have been talkin to a girl for about a week (although I have known her for about 3 years and ...
A: Cash: I am not sure why things went bad the last few times that you tried to talk openly with her ...
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| should i call | 6/13/2009 |
Q: I met this guy on a dating site and we chatted,,he let me down on a date and i got annoyed when we ...
A: Helen: I am not sure why you would meet a man that you met on a dating site and have not known for ...
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| Moveing on | 6/12/2009 |
Q: I recently was broken up with by my long term girlfriend of 4 years. She basically just couldent ...
A: Jon: You sound like you realize that you were taking her for granted and can understand why she ...
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| work relationships? | 6/12/2009 |
Q: I have been dating a guy for about 3 years we have some issues.. I am in my mid twentys him a few ...
A: Kim: Whether it is something weird or to worry about is not the issue. The fact is that no one ...
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| Break up Confusion | 6/11/2009 |
Q: I'm 21 and my girlfriend of 3 years on and off for 6 recently broke up with me about a month ago. We ...
A: Lauren: I would simply do what she asked you to do and just be a friend. If she calls you for ...
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| Almost fed up | 6/10/2009 |
Q: Its long so good luck!!! I have had the craziest crush on my boyfriend since I was in 9th grade, ...
A: Charlet: Please get away from him because he is no good. He puts you down and makes you feel bad ...
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| I Am Ready To Give Up On Him | 6/10/2009 |
Q: This is going to be long so bare with me.... I met this guy back in Jan. 09 in a night club. We had ...
A: Ganik: Thank you for clarifying that when you said "hook up" it did not always mean sex. I ...
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| I Am Ready To Give Up On Him | 6/9/2009 |
Q: This is going to be long so bare with me.... I met this guy back in Jan. 09 in a night club. We had ...
A: Ganik: He told you that you two should separate. He won't commit to you yet you keep telling me that ...
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| concerns about daughter | 6/6/2009 |
Q: My daughter who is 19 is dating, and actually engaged to a guy who is 23. I have a few concerns and ...
A: Ann: I agree with you as far as them needing to wait a year until they get married because a few ...
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| amplifying the attraction | 6/5/2009 |
Q: sorry it`s a bit long .I`ve met this gal in the university,two dates with her in the university went ...
A: Sivash: I am happy that you found two good books to read and they helped you. I would not recommend ...
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| a break in a relationship | 6/5/2009 |
Q: last month my girlfriend and i broke up. it was fairly mutual and civil as we decided we were ...
A: Kevin: Yes, you can get back together provided she has been missing you like you have been missing ...
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| a little confused | 6/4/2009 |
Q: I've been dating this guy for about a month. He's 34. The thing that I like about him is that he ...
A: Ashley: In my opinion you never should have had sex with a man that could not call you. Texting is ...
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| Is he still interested? How do I communicate how I feel? | 6/3/2009 |
Q: This man was interested in me (he's quiet shy, reserved, doesnt talk a lot, he is also a loner, ...
A: DM: It is alright to e-mail him if you want to but I would be a little concerned as to why you ...
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| hey... | 6/2/2009 |
Q: I need to ask a question. Ok, here we go. Ive liked this girl for a while now but was always too shy ...
A: Steven: If you do not have a class with her in college or just don't see her during the day then do ...
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| What to think... | 6/1/2009 |
Q: Recently after two years of being separated me and my child's father has been hanging out, doing ...
A: Tiana: If you separated from your child's father two years ago it must have been for a reason. ...
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| hey... | 5/31/2009 |
Q: I need to ask a question. Ok, here we go. Ive liked this girl for a while now but was always too shy ...
A: Steven: I would just come up to her and ask her if you can talk to her for a few moments. I would ...
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| Sending card to former girlfriend | 5/31/2009 |
Q: It has been a little over a year and a half now since my former girlfriend called it quits with me. ...
A: Danny: Although you may want to send your old girlfriend who quit you over a year ago a card and ...
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| hey... | 5/31/2009 |
Q: I need to ask a question. Ok, here we go. Ive liked this girl for a while now but was always too shy ...
A: Steven: I would talk to her in person not on myspace and tell her that you already know her from ...
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| help please! I don't understand. | 5/30/2009 |
Q: I hope I don't take up too much of your time by writing this to you, but here goes. I'm 22, and go ...
A: Nicolette: It would be good if you could talk to him before he leaves but if that is not possible ...
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| party | 5/30/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend lives with this parents in southern california. his brother (who has a family) lives ...
A: Marie: There are several reasons why you boyfriend may not want you to go with him this time to his ...
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| help please! I don't understand. | 5/29/2009 |
Q: I hope I don't take up too much of your time by writing this to you, but here goes. I'm 22, and go ...
A: Nicolette: It is great that you have alot of things in common with Nick and that you obviously ...
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| Is she attracted to me | 5/29/2009 |
Q: Is she attracted to me? \n my lecture I went up to this girl who I recongized was in my other class ...
A: Jason: Although she stares at you alot you won't know if she likes you until you ask her. Approach ...
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| amplifying the attraction | 5/28/2009 |
Q: sorry it`s a bit long .I`ve met this gal in the university,two dates with her in the university went ...
A: There is no way to tell why this girl lost interest in continuing to see you however, you are doing ...
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