| Subject | Date Asked |
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| I Want Her Back | 1/4/2008 |
Q: Me and my ex were together for 1 year 7 months, for the last 3-4 months of the relationship things ...
A: Well, if you indeed want her back, the best thing to tell her is: "Sorry I was reacting the way I ...
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| what do i do from becoming more then a friend? | 1/3/2008 |
Q: 23/f Ok I have this friend Terry (26). He is a very good friend and we always have fun hanging ...
A: I guess there is something special about you that makes him come back. Do you think he is attracted ...
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| relationships. | 1/3/2008 |
Q: what does it mean if the guy I'm with doesn't care if he loses me or not because he has other ...
A: if the guy you are with doesn't care if he loses you or not, means the guy you are with doesn't ...
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| breakup | 1/2/2008 |
Q: my girlfriend and i dated for 6 months. we had no problems that i could see. one issue is that ...
A: Well, different people value things differently. For someone, having social life together as a ...
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| marriage or not | 7/3/2007 |
Q: I have been in a relationship for the past year and a half and am ready to have our relationship go ...
A: In this situation the best is to tell your boyfriend that you understand his point of view that he ...
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| Is she playing hard to get? | 4/4/2007 |
Q: Elena, This is a long story so I will make it short. I met this girl and we went on a date. It was ...
A: when a woman says she doesn't want a relationship, this means she doesn't want a relationship with ...
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| Dating Older Man | 4/2/2007 |
Q: I'm an 18 year old female. I am deeply inlove with a man who is in his thirties. I am the one who ...
A: if you are 18 and he is in his thirties, then he is definitely is too old for you. It is ...
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| my brothers mate | 4/2/2007 |
Q: I'm 15 and i found out about a month ago that my older brothers friend had a crush on me we are 4 ...
A: I don't know what do you mean by "hooked up" but if you mean sex, then your brother's friend ...
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| How can I make my girlfriend trust me again? | 4/2/2007 |
Q: I met my girlfriend online and we've been together for about 3 months (I'm 32, she's 30). When we ...
A: Well, you did screw up big deal and you know it, now stop cursing yourself, it's good lesson to ...
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| How to get back into dating? | 4/2/2007 |
Q: I broke up with my Long term gf of 4 years, 2.5 months ago, it was very tough but i finally realized ...
A: sorry for the delay with the response. You actually ask two questions - how to get back the ...
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| Relationship help | 3/13/2007 |
Q: I am 26 year old male who has been in a relationship for close to 5 years now. Just recently I asked ...
A: Well, it must be difficult for your girlfriend without family and friends, and this is why she hates ...
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| big emotional wreck | 3/13/2007 |
Q: he hasn't really walked out on me. we see each other all the time. and though he said no more sex, ...
A: Honey, you don't like my answers. 6 years and he doesn't want sex... he feels he is missing out on ...
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| big emotional wreck | 3/12/2007 |
Q: like i said, i'm a huge emotional wreck right now. i have been "talking" to this guy for 6 years ...
A: I hate destroying your "he loves me" illusion, but men do NOT walk out on women they really love - ...
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| First sex encounter with a special girl | 3/10/2007 |
Q: I'm sorry, but i dont quite see the relation with my question.I am 20. My past sexual experiences ...
A: OK, the answer to yours "what would be the normal/standard/acceptable/usual process/protocol/steps ...
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| getting back together | 3/10/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I work together but not in the same department. He told me about a month ago that ...
A: Congratulations, smart lady - YES, he does want you back as a girlfriend! :-) You did SO MANY ...
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| First sex encounter with a special girl | 3/10/2007 |
Q: I am 20. My past sexual experiences have been very random, unmeditated, and probably awkward. For ...
A: Well, what you are asking here is HUGE - I could write a whole book on that. The short answer is: do ...
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| Did this guy liked me? | 3/9/2007 |
Q: it was before four years ago. this guy who happens to be my classmate was a very cute and smart guy. ...
A: Sure, this guy might have liked you - but he certainly didn't like you enough, or he would ask you ...
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| successful? | 3/5/2007 |
Q: Is it true that women don't want men they meet to be successful? And if it is, what can be done ...
A: No, it's not true that women don't want men they meet to be successful. Women want the men they meet ...
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| never answer | 3/4/2007 |
Q: There's this guy i'm dating for the pass 10 weeks, we have a great time together. we have a lot in ...
A: Well, it certainly doesn't sound like you trust him. Did he give you any reason not to trust him - ...
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| confusing girl? | 3/3/2007 |
Q: I go to this bar often and there is this girl that every time i enter she looks. She has never ...
A: She might be interested, or she might be not. She might like you, or she might think you look weird, ...
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| Closed -off his heart to me over a mistake | 3/3/2007 |
Q: How can I get this closed door to open?He came to the door when I was not feeling up to par and i ...
A: He made a decision and now even though he wants to change it, he thinks it would damage his ...
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| Stay or move on? | 3/1/2007 |
Q: I met a young lady on a matrimonial website & we hit it off very well. She had a prior relationship ...
A: You have met a girl ONCE and you want to know whether there is a potential or not - that's just too ...
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| Interest in a particular woman | 3/1/2007 |
Q: How are you? I see that your a "professional" in this field so I am kindly requesting your input in ...
A: There is no "best" way to approach an "extremely" gorgeous woman - but there is unlimited number of ...
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| HELP ME UNDERSTAND | 2/24/2007 |
Q: I WROTE YOU FEW DAYS AGO ABOUT A GUY I'M DATING WHO SAID THAT HE DIDN'T WANT ANYTHING SERIOUS AND ...
A: Congratulations on approaching your boyfriend and asking him to be exclusive. Now, if you would ...
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| What is going through her mind? | 2/23/2007 |
Q: I have known this girl for maybe over one and a half year now. We are classmates in college. ...
A: What happened last week, you changed the dynamic of your relationship - from being friends you ...
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| Is she interested or just playing around? | 2/21/2007 |
Q: I met this girl in December and is attracted to her. I went out with her 3 times in a time span of 3 ...
A: Usually when a girl says she is not interested in a relationship, then she is not into you. If you ...
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| Long-term committment | 2/19/2007 |
Q: I have been in a relationship with Claudine for 1 year and 4 months now. We started out as friends ...
A: Most women want a relationship with a man they are intimate with; it's pre-programmed in women's ...
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| Is she into me? | 2/18/2007 |
Q: ok, my cousin asked if her friend could stay with me for 4 weeks while on a holiday visiting the ...
A: Women are very easily getting attached to a man they are intimate with. Just like you realized you ...
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| He spent St. Valentine's with other girl | 2/16/2007 |
Q: my boyfriend and i have been dating for a while now but he is also dating other girls. my problem is ...
A: Unfortunately (or fortunately) actions speak louder than words, and now you know: you are NOT #1 in ...
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| He says he doesn't want anything serious | 2/14/2007 |
Q: i've been dating a guy for 8 weeks now and we're intimate who now tells me that he's dating other ...
A: If the guys says he is not serious, then he is NOT! It's THAT simple. Think about what YOU want: if ...
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| How to overcome shyness | 2/12/2007 |
Q: My name is Brian, am 28 years old, and have been in the Air Force for about 6 years now. I am an ...
A: Shyness is a common problem for both men and women and all people are feeling shy from time to time ...
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| No sex in a relationship | 2/8/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend of two years has recently chosen a religion that has convined him that sex is nothing ...
A: You have the right to have what you want in your relationship but your boyfriend also has the right ...
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| Too shy to talk to him. | 2/3/2007 |
Q: Too insecure to talk to him. Question I'm having severe men problems here lol. There is a guy ...
A: I used to be just as shy as you - I could not start talking to a guy even when he was sitting NEXT ...
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| Friend relationship to a couple relationship | 1/31/2007 |
Q: im a 14 yearold boy who likes a girl whos a friend to me but i dont think she would like me more ...
A: As I understood, you believe you may be falling in love with a girl who is in a romantic ...
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| Relationship with a child involved | 1/26/2007 |
Q: my boyfriend and I been officially dating a month but I have been around for a few months longer. We ...
A: A lot depends on how strong the daughter's relationship with the father, and her mother - and how ...
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| what to do? | 1/25/2007 |
Q: whom i really liked in highschool, and later found out liked me just recently contacted me on this ...
A: It is obvious this girl likes you and since she is experienced (she has a kid already!), you ...
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| I asked him out and he didn't answer, what do I do? | 1/22/2007 |
Q: Ok i really like this guy and i asked him out and he hasnt responded to me yet...we talk alot..he ...
A: If you had asked a guy out, and he hasn't reacted with happiness and hasn't planned your outing ...
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| living together before marriage | 1/18/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years, and are both sure that we are the ones ...
A: Don't worry about what you read at different places; ultimately, your relationship is unique and you ...
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| To break-up or not? | 1/17/2007 |
Q: I've been dating a guy who's a good guy and seems to be into me. The problem is, I'm uncomfortable ...
A: Lacey, How can you be ever happy if you are uncomfortable around someone who is supposed to be your ...
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| My boyfriend gave me a beautiful diamond ring | 1/16/2007 |
Q: but he told me it was "just a ring" & it didn't mean anything but he just wanted me to have it. ...
A: I understand you can feel hurt that the ring wasn't purchased specially for you. However, he didn't ...
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| My Boyfriend is a Looser | 1/15/2007 |
Q: I have a major problem and I really don’t even know where to begin, but I’ll try. I’m 27 and my ...
A: Well, what can I say, you are a very kind, capable and generous person - and the only question I ...
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| We never go out, are we dating? | 1/12/2007 |
Q: I'm talking to a guy for a month now and he still hasn't asked me out yet all we do is spend time at ...
A: Dating is not just going out - dating means you spend time with another person and you are ...
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| Boyfriend problem | 1/11/2007 |
Q: I have a big dillema thats been bugging me for awhile.Ive been in a relationship with my bf for over ...
A: I understand your confusion. From one hand, here is a man you invested time and effort in, and from ...
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| real or fake | 1/10/2007 |
Q: I've been dating a guy 3 weeks now who says he has no gf. We've had sex once about a week ago and ...
A: Some people simply do not like to talk on the phone. I am one of them. I can agonize over making a ...
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| Friendship changing way too fast | 1/7/2007 |
Q: I have been friends with this girl since the 6th grade .well here recently i started talking to her ...
A: No, it's not right what you are doing, even if your friend is cheating on her boyfriend and you like ...
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| Confidence | 1/6/2007 |
Q: Hey Elena, I was wondering if you could help me with some problems I've been having. I flat out do ...
A: The formula for confidence in anything (including meeting women) is: Knowledge + Action + Practice ...
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| Progress in relationship | 1/3/2007 |
Q: I wrote to you a while ago and would like to report about the progress I have made in my ...
A: It is great that you have this new feeling for your boyfriend. Love is a verb and to have love, you ...
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| Is it wrong for my fiance to tell me he 'loves' his female friends? | 1/2/2007 |
Q: My fiance and I have been together for about eighteen months. He has cheated on me twice. The ...
A: You are totally right when you feel that the situation with your fiance is not normal. If a man ...
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| How can I get him back? | 1/1/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have just split up 2 weeks ago. He said he needs a break from me and doesn't know ...
A: I understand your desire to get your boyfriend back. There is a way: you stop calling him, or trying ...
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| TRUST in realtionship | 12/25/2006 |
Q: Okay me and my parnter have trust issue we are both gay and trying to establish a relationship, but ...
A: 'Trust' is a verb - it's not a noun. To have 'trust' you must do 'trust' - you must be trusting and ...
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| Why he did what he did? | 12/22/2006 |
Q: My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years decide 2 weeks ago to have me change. He wanted me to stop sleeping in ...
A: I do not want to tell you that, but it's not because you were sleeping in and didn't do everything ...
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| ?? | 12/21/2006 |
Q: I have an online relationship. We have been talking for a year. We havent met yet. I called him ...
A: This is probably not what you want to hear but I think you are right in calling yourself 'mad'. It ...
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| Are we dating? | 12/17/2006 |
Q: SO this situation is eating away at me and I need someone's advice on what the hell is going on ...
A: Well, let me tell you what everyone (except you and your boyfriend) already knows: you ARE an item! ...
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| what do the phone calls mean? | 12/13/2006 |
Q: Hey, My name is Daniella. My ex and i were together for over a year, and were completely in love ...
A: What does it matter if he has feelings or not, if you are not together? Of course he has feelings ...
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| How do I know if a girl is into me? | 12/4/2006 |
Q: Okay, so I am a sophomore in college and she is a first semester freshman. We went through ...
A: The question is not "can I get it back on track or should I just drop it and not try anymore", the ...
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| Older ex-girlfriend | 11/30/2006 |
Q: I was dating this woman who was 10 years older than me, she was 34 I was 24. We started dating in ...
A: This is probably not what you want to hear but here it is: she is right, one day you would thank her ...
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| I am in a relationship but feel attracted to other women, is it normal? | 11/29/2006 |
Q: I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for over 2 years. We have been living together ...
A: To answer you shortly, yes, it is okay that you have those thoughts as long as you do not act on ...
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| Girl Friend and College | 11/28/2006 |
Q: I don know if I've asked you any questions in the past...but I know I've asked a few other people ...
A: It is OK to feel the way you feel. It is normal. Don't try to "get over her"; it will just work out ...
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| How do I get her back? | 11/27/2006 |
Q: My name is Will. I am a junior in high school. I had a relationship with a great girl. We had in ...
A: There are some things that you can do that may help you to get her back. But from my experience, ...
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| When to give flowers and what to say | 11/26/2006 |
Q: I'm 15 and I bought some flowers already for my special someone. The date is planned for tomorrow, ...
A: Just give her flowers as you meet. It's OK that she will have to carry them around. Alternatively, ...
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| Dating an older man | 11/20/2006 |
Q: I am an 18 year old female and I am deeply in love with a 25 year old man. If by any chance, if I ...
A: When you are 18, a guy who is 25 can seem like he is much older than you. And he actually is - your ...
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| I like the guy and I want to ask him out, how do I do it? | 11/18/2006 |
Q: I really like this guy and I want to ask him out, but I don't know if he's married or not. I know ...
A: First of all, why do you want to ask this guy out? You like him and you would like to have a ...
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| myex | 10/16/2006 |
Q: my ex and I dated for three years, 2 of which were long distance and put a toll on our relationship. ...
A: You are right that you do not want to lie in a relationship. It never brings any good. However, ...
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| how to tell the guy i like that i like him | 10/13/2006 |
Q: Ok I like this guy in my Homeroom class...yeah we talk and stuff...But i don't think that he has ...
A: The best way to let a boy know you are interested is to make HIM to make the move. NEVER, EVER ...
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| Possible Cheating | 10/12/2006 |
Q: , I am in need of some help. This may sound weird at first,,but a little background info.--- I have ...
A: It appears as he has not had an affair with this woman yet. You have to act fast to prevent him from ...
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| What is the limit of messages that should be left? | 10/5/2006 |
Q: I met a girl recently and got her phone number after chatting for a while. I called a few days later ...
A: A woman won't usually call you back after you left a voicemail on her phone - she wants YOU to call ...
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| What to do? | 9/27/2006 |
Q: I'm Nathan. This may seem weird, but I'm 13. What can I say, I don't know where else to get this ...
A: How do you know this girl likes your friend? Did she tall you so? Well, I remember being a girl of ...
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| What's up with him? | 9/22/2006 |
Q: I know an awesome guy that I've been extremely attracted to for awhile. Every time I see him ...
A: Well, this guy is obviously into you but it seems he likes you so much, he is too shy to initiate. ...
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| womanizer??????? | 9/21/2006 |
Q: I have a serious issue. I have been seeing this guy for about a year and a half. Well he told me in ...
A: When a guy says he is not ready for a relationship with one woman, believe him! When he says you ...
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| She has commitment issues. | 9/18/2006 |
Q: My girlfriend and I are both 20. We met each other in highschool. We became best friends in our ...
A: I understand your situation. You think your girlfriend has commitment issues, and because you love ...
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| Boyfriend is addicted to porno, and doesn't want sex. | 9/17/2006 |
Q: I have been living with my boyfriend for 2 years now. we are both in our 20's. we have kind of a ...
A: I understand you feel hurt by your boyfriend's behavior and his porn additiction, and you do not ...
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| amor | 9/15/2006 |
Q: Followup To Question - an expert in dating wrote this to a gay whu think he did not behave ...
A: Sorry, I didn't not quite understand what was your question. Can you please explain it in more ...
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| first date | 9/14/2006 |
Q: I have talked to this nice lady on the computer for a week and talked on the phone some. We are ...
A: Yes, those days it is too forward to bring a flower on the first date. But if you feel like this... ...
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| is this that big of a deal??? i feel like it is | 9/11/2006 |
Q: first off, THANK YOU :) for reading my letter and concerns...i am a 26 year old girl and i have been ...
A: STOP doing it immediately!!! If you keep doing it, he will run away eventually because no man can ...
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| What are guys expecting? | 9/6/2006 |
Q: I was connected by phone to what seemed to be a great guy.. He loves to stay on the phone when I ...
A: I guess you need to meet in person before you can decide whether the guy you have connected to is ...
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| Dating a friends ex | 9/5/2006 |
Q: i don't know if i should/ how to tell my friend that I dated her ex. They dated in high school (we ...
A: I think if you are to become friends again, telling her about dating her ex can be a good start to a ...
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| Increasing the chances to find a partner. | 9/4/2006 |
Q: I am doing an autobiography and also updating my profile on a Christian singles network. I have ...
A: Your question is formulated as, "Increasing the chances to find a partner". If you ask whether the ...
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| love him or leave him | 8/27/2006 |
Q: I've been seeing a guy for 5 months now who is living with his girlfriend of 4yrs. we are all in our ...
A: The short answer would be, "Leave him". Hanging there will only increase your pain, and since you ...
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| How to make him to commit? | 8/25/2006 |
Q: I am not sure how much to inform you about him and i it go backs almost 3 years now. But it hasen't ...
A: Commitment is a hard issue for women in most relationships, and in your case it's even harder ...
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| dilema | 8/24/2006 |
Q: Okay. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, and we have a 2 year old daughter together, ...
A: If you are creating a situation where you can find yourself cheating on your boyfriend (and the ...
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| What are his intentions? | 8/23/2006 |
Q: I have been on two dates with a guy that I really like. It was actually a blind date (the first ...
A: The question is not "What are his intentions?" - the question is, what are YOUR intentions? From ...
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| What Do I DO? | 8/22/2006 |
Q: well i was with this girl last summer and we were together for 4 months and i got worried about the ...
A: The sad reality is, you cannot "convince" someone that their happiness lies with you, simply because ...
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| Dating | 8/21/2006 |
Q: I'm a cook in a resturaunt and 37yo. A new cocktail waitress started talking to me in passing, just ...
A: Attractive women will seldom return your calls. It is the best to make sure you reach her and can ...
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| help??? | 8/18/2006 |
Q: Ok well i have only been in love once well i think it was love with the guy tat i was wit for 3 year ...
A: OK, so you like the guy, he likes you, you said something you wish you haven't, so what! Don't we ...
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| too much kissing? | 8/17/2006 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for nine years and recently we have decided to fully ...
A: Kissing in a relationship is a very personal issue but I believe that there are no things that ...
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| Relationship | 8/15/2006 |
Q: I am 28yrs and has been dating a man aged 39 whose wife passed away. This guy has has 3 kids. He was ...
A: It sounds like your relationship is one-way: you give and give, and get nearly nothing in return. If ...
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| Long distance relationship | 8/15/2006 |
Q: My problem is that I have feelings for this old friend of mine. We liked each other in the past when ...
A: You can speed up the rate at which you are going, if you want to. Simply tell him, you feel a very ...
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| What does a guy mean when he says he needs to figure things out? | 8/14/2006 |
Q: I am a single mom and have been seeing this guy for the past 3 months. He has not met my child yet ...
A: What a guys means when he says he needs to figure things out, is usually this: "Somehow I do not ...
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| My boyfriend is a slob | 8/14/2006 |
Q: I've been dating a guy for 3 years now, and have just moved into an apartment by myself for the ...
A: Of course you can do something. Think of something he really treasures. It does not have to be a ...
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| is this possible | 8/11/2006 |
Q: my brother is involved with a girl who he met a few months ago who works in a restaurant He thinks ...
A: Have you ever had this feeling that what you are doing isn't working - but kept doing it, ...
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| turning a guy down for a date | 8/8/2006 |
Q: I have joined several dating websites and have met several guys. I was just asked by one guy (A) to ...
A: The best thing to say in this situaton is, "I would really love to go but I already have plans for ...
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| should i let her go | 8/8/2006 |
Q: i met this girl 4mths ago who i'm in love with but i have a girlfriend who i've been for 3.5yrs and ...
A: I am thinking about the new book I want to write, and the first phrase there will be, "It was long ...
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| Finding my dream girl | 8/7/2006 |
Q: My name is Ritchie, I am 20 years old and I am sophemore in college. Through my life, I have never ...
A: First, you will never be able to never say a wrong thing. Everybody does say some silly things from ...
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| Dating | 8/6/2006 |
Q: My name is Harold I'm 30 years old. I work as accountant in Costa Rica. I work the entire week and I ...
A: You say you work the entire week - so, how about the weekends? The time after work? Most other ...
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| Can I call him? | 7/2/2006 |
Q: Here is my question. I have met an amazing guy online. Yes, online through Eharmony. Well, we ...
A: I understand you'd like to call him, and there is nothing wrong if you do. All those so called ...
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| HELP. | 6/30/2006 |
Q: Reply | Forward | Delete Message #2237 of 2245 < Prev | Next > Hi yall..where do I start? I'm ...
A: Deb, is it FOR REAL? It's not a joke, is it? Forget this loser - what example you give to your ...
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| I am not sexually attracted to her - should I end the relationship? | 6/28/2006 |
Q: i have been going out with this girl for 2 years now. We work great on a mental level, we r into ...
A: The truth is, you cannot make yourself sexually attracted to someone - the attraction is either ...
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| I want to be more than | 6/28/2006 |
Q: i met this girl 2 and a half weeks ago that took my breath away and made me feel something for her ...
A: First, this girl obviously likes you. Second, you are the one who is screwing it up. Now, don't get ...
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| confused about my girlfriend | 6/27/2006 |
Q: Elena Solomon, I have some questions concerning my girlfriend. You see, these problems I am ...
A: It is normal for any person to desire to be liked by others; for girls it is especially important. ...
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| confusion | 6/27/2006 |
Q: I need help badly. I've liked this guy for 6 years now, and in the past 2 years I've realized that ...
A: It looks like the first thing you need to do is to decide for yourself is who do you want to be ...
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| Can a girl in a great relationship be swept off her feet by someone else? | 6/26/2006 |
Q: I've had help from people on this sight before, it's always been wonderful and VERY helpful, but ...
A: Lots of questions here but here it goes: 1.) Is it possible for a girl to change her mind about her ...
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| How to get a girl if you are young and don't have much experience | 6/25/2006 |
Q: I think I'm ready to give up. I'm 21 years old. In my 21 years, I have had one short term ...
A: Many guys your age have a similar problem. They want to date girls but don't know how to make the ...
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| Compatibility in a relationship | 6/23/2006 |
Q: I like this guy.We have lots of fun when we are together and we are compatible when we go out. When ...
A: Well, a relationship is more than just talking on the phone - but if you don't even have anything to ...
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| How to attract women if you never had any experience in dating? | 6/23/2006 |
Q: I am a VERY shy person. I have had only one real date in my 37 years. I am going to a music ...
A: You ask the impossible - approaching women without having any previous experience and not coming ...
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| From absolutely perfect to nothing at all | 6/22/2006 |
Q: I have been seeing a man for 4 months and everything was absolutely perfect up until about 3 weeks ...
A: From all I know, being involved with someone with a drinking problem is a nightmare. I would never ...
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| love | 6/21/2006 |
Q: i talked to you last week about my problem with my friend (the one who 10 years older than me). ...
A: It's good you have the friendship back. So, what do you want? Are you happy to be just friends? ...
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| Confused. | 6/20/2006 |
Q: My name is Mike and im 12 years old. 3 days ago my friend Sydney asked me out, But now she is ...
A: Well, you cannot dump someone you don't have. Your friend is probably just embarrassed. Help her ...
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| Stay or Go. Friends or No. | 6/20/2006 |
Q: I have known/dated this guy for 16 months. When he first asked me out, I rejected him becuase he was ...
A: If you are sleeping together and he tells you he loves you, and you love him, too, then you are ...
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| My Boyfriend | 6/20/2006 |
Q: K ive been dating this guy for almost 2 months, and weve been friends for about 6. Anyways i dont ...
A: Basically, if your boyfriend is interested in your friend, and she is also interested in him, there ...
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| the beach and women | 6/17/2006 |
Q: my name is keith and im 16 every year i go to the beach i see all these beautiful women and i talk 2 ...
A: Girls only have sex with guys when they really like them and they feel they can trust them. If you ...
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| getting this girl | 6/16/2006 |
Q: my name is jared and i really like this girl named brittany were both 16 and we have grown up ...
A: This is the question I hear the most, "How do I make this girl like me?" You may not like my answer ...
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| love | 6/14/2006 |
Q: wow, you are good. i would like to continue talking to you if it is ok? well, this story is way ...
A: Your age difference is not really an issue. The fact that she thinks it is an issue, this is an ...
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| relighting a fire | 6/14/2006 |
Q: I have an ex-girlfriend that broke up with me; things between us weren't going well, so her reaction ...
A: I do not think the cards and gifts are the problem. The problem is that she does not have strong ...
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| The right pace of courtship... | 6/14/2006 |
Q: I know this girl from friends of friends, they have been trying to set us up for a long time, they ...
A: The right pace for courtship is the pace where you both feel comfortable with the way things ...
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| Looking.... | 6/13/2006 |
Q: I am so very frustrated... Every time I meet a guy they act like gentlemen in the beginning of the ...
A: I can understand how you feel. It is very frustrating to have relationships starting wonderfully ...
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| Having doubts... | 6/9/2006 |
Q: I feel kinda shy about going on the internet to seek help but no harm in trying. some details im 19 ...
A: It sounds to me like you are trying very hard to please your girlfriend, and she doesn't seem to ...
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| Problem with age | 6/8/2006 |
Q: I am 32 years old, but don’t appear to look past 25. I am also a father of three. I have been single ...
A: I feel you should be the last person to worry about your age difference. There are already too many ...
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| Am I in the clear?? | 6/8/2006 |
Q: My ex and I cut off communication in march. The reason was because she felt uncomfortable around me ...
A: Hanging on someone who no longer wants you always has the opposite effect. They just want to get ...
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| So confused! | 6/1/2006 |
Q: I recently started going out with a guy who I know I had really strong feelings for, and I know he ...
A: It happens often that you have a crash on someone and he isn't as interesting in person as he seemed ...
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| New Relationship / How to communicate jealousy and insecurity | 6/1/2006 |
Q: I am in a new relationship. Now one month into this relationship I am beginning to develop some ...
A: I understand how you feel. Your girlfriend can be hurting you without realizing it. If you aren't ...
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| My Breakup | 5/30/2006 |
Q: I have been dating a wonderful girl for a year and a half now and everything has been wonderful. ...
A: Unfortunately your situation doesn't look very promising. If she was totally happy in your ...
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| Dating advice- Further complications | 5/30/2006 |
Q: I don't remember muchof the specifics of the conversation. Last week- she told me that she was going ...
A: You made two big mistakes when talking to the girl: 1) You tried to give her advice. This is the ...
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| i want her back | 5/28/2006 |
Q: ok well ill get to the point, me and my x we broke up about three years ago. we were kids and did ...
A: It is possible to get your ex back (after all, something brought you together in the first turn). ...
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| Weight issues with girl friend. | 5/27/2006 |
Q: Elena I've been dating and living with my girlfriend about 3 years now. Our relationship has it's ...
A: I understand your situation. You love your girlfriend but you feel less attracted to her because of ...
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| Becoming boyfriend and girlfriend | 5/27/2006 |
Q: How can I ask my best friend who likes me to be my boyfriend?
A: Usually people first ask each other out, and check if they enjoy seeing each other "romantically", ...
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| bf question | 5/26/2006 |
Q: what if he doesnt call me basck? should i call him again or just wait for him? if so, how long? ...
A: Rae, You must try to word your message on the phone the way he WANTS to call back. Give him a ...
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| Unable to shake strong feelings | 5/25/2006 |
Q: Hey Elena, I very much appreciate the advice that you gave me. In the past, over the phone, Heidi ...
A: Stephen, But this is a completely different sotry! It sounds like you would prefer you two to ...
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| Unable to shake strong feelings | 5/24/2006 |
Q: Hey Elena, I was invited to attend a Talent Convention in Orlando, Florida where the categories ...
A: Sometimes the simplest way of being able to let go is to give in to the strong feelings you have. ...
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| What should I do? | 5/20/2006 |
Q: Ok well, I go to high school and just a couple of weeks ago I met a really cool guy that I sorta had ...
A: Your situation is quite typical. It happens to many girls and guys of your age. What you need to ...
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| Skeptic | 5/20/2006 |
Q: I hope you are able to shead some light on my delimma? I have a female friend whom I have had ...
A: Well, was it a long story short. So, where are we now? As I was reading your story, for me it was ...
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| how can i date | 5/9/2006 |
Q: Good day, I want to ask you a questioni am a boy of 23 i am in the collage, there is this girl that ...
A: Well, there are no "top secrets" on how to date - it's all mainstream knowledge, really. Women ...
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| Driving me nuts | 5/8/2006 |
Q: I hope I don't sound like an idiot, but here goes! I have been madly in love with a female friend ...
A: From what I understood, you have a female friend who probably has a crach on you and you have a ...
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| Young/Older Black/White Inlaws/Baby | 5/8/2006 |
Q: I'm a 35 year old black woman two kids. My boyfriend is 22year old from Loas, no kids. We live in ...
A: I feel for you. It is not an easy situation and there are no definite answers here. You are having a ...
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| What to do about the future? | 5/6/2006 |
Q: I need help. I have been dating a female for about 1 month. Things are going well and I am getting ...
A: If you like your female friend, and enjoy spending time with her, then why not continue dating? As ...
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| How do I perseve him? | 5/6/2006 |
Q: Justin and I have known each other for 5years. We have had an attraction and always been ...
A: It sounds like you did the things you now regret, and you would rather try again to build a ...
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| Me and two girls i need to chose from. | 5/5/2006 |
Q: Hey I'm sorry i did not include my feelings for both girls. Well my girlfriend is some thing i have ...
A: Well, I guess it's probably time to stop being a "nice guy" and put yourself first - for a change. ...
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| Me and two girls i need to chose from. | 5/5/2006 |
Q: Hey. I am 23 year old guy in long term relationship. For now i have lived with my current girlfriend ...
A: I am glad you don't like variants 2 and 3, because it is always better to be true to yourself and ...
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| Difficulty in the relationship | 5/4/2006 |
Q: :) I started going out with my girlfriend 2 years and a few months ago. Throughout it we've had ...
A: What I wonder about is how did you manage to hang out there for SO LONG? This girl obviously doesn't ...
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