| Subject | Date Asked |
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| Break up | 10/14/2009 |
Q: I started dating this guy sometime around March. Things went fairly well but he wasnt the type of ...
A: Hey Rosy, this guy clearly wants to have everything. he wants the sex, and the female companionship, ...
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| the second date | 10/9/2009 |
Q: How`re you? How could I have a great first date with this gal ?And generally speaking,what would ...
A: The only thing you need to know about having a great first date with someone is to not try too hard! ...
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| overwhelmed??? | 10/7/2009 |
Q: Here is a short explanation of my situation and I need your help fast please! My boyfriend and I ...
A: Hey there Dean, I wish I had better news for you but there isn't really much anyone can do to help ...
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| ex-boyfriend | 10/7/2009 |
Q: I just met the most wonderful women a little over a month ago. I was actually on a blind date when I ...
A: unfortunately there isn't a good way to help anyone deal with conflicts of the heart other than to ...
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| Do I go back to her? | 10/6/2009 |
Q: "What I'm really asking is can a relationship work the second time round? About a month ago I split ...
A: There really is no set in stone answer on whether or not relationships can work the 2nd time around. ...
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| Guy Behaviour | 6/4/2008 |
Q: There has been this guy that I have grown to like. I met him in March at dance classes. We met up ...
A: well he may be somewhat keen on you but just not that much yet. You have to let that kind of ...
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| Guy Behaviour | 6/4/2008 |
Q: There has been this guy that I have grown to like. I met him in March at dance classes. We met up ...
A: Just be patient. You have to let things happen, not force them. If you don't wait to hear from him ...
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| Do girls like boys who try hard or not ? | 11/4/2007 |
Q: In school there is a gorgeous girl who is very shy but gets all the attention from guys (mainly boy ...
A: Hey there Dani. Nobody, man or woman, likes things that are way too easy. We desire things we can't ...
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| What does my ex want? | 11/3/2007 |
Q: I’m 24 and been going out with a girl who is 19 for 2 years and a half.. We used to live in the ...
A: Hey there Ash... the reason that she "got over it" so quickly before you... is because she started ...
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| Giving a man my number and note w/invite to bike ride | 11/1/2007 |
Q: Was this wrong? Ok, here goes it! I'm 42 and he's approx 50+ish. He's been living here, at the ...
A: Hey there monique! You didn't do anything wrong at all. Your approach was very respectful, nice, and ...
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| sex | 10/31/2007 |
Q: I was in an abusive marriage where sex was craved by me due to it being the only time I felt any ...
A: hey there JL. What this all boils down to is his lack of respect for you and your ideals and ...
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| I'm being tooled around.. I think | 10/29/2007 |
Q: I'm a 23 year old Airman in the Air Force, stationed out of Las Vegas. I stand about 5'11" weigh in ...
A: Hey there Bret, let me start by saying congratulations on the Special Forces and a bit thank you to ...
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| Avoiding a breakup | 10/29/2007 |
Q: My girlfriend has lost all her feelings for me in just 3 weeks. We have been dating for almost ...
A: Before I get into this question any further, can I ask... are you her first serious relationship? ...
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| like the post "trying to talk to this guy" post | 10/28/2007 |
Q: I have been seeing this guy around my uni campus a lot lately and everytime i see him, we make eye ...
A: Hey Annie... it sounds like you need to talk to this guy! Don't let your entire break go by without ...
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| LDR and exboyfriend's feling | 10/27/2007 |
Q: PLEASE Donˇ¦t fall asleep reading my letter!!! HelloˇKsorry but my story is Really long as it ...
A: it sounds like this guy is interested in "playing the field." He wants to see what else is out ...
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| dating | 10/27/2007 |
Q: i'm a 38 yr.old female dating a 36 yr. old male. we've been dating for almost 3 months now. he has ...
A: I know Halloween seems important to you but guys think differently. Christmas and Valentine's Day ...
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| How can I get her back? | 10/26/2007 |
Q: I met this girl from work a couple of months ago and we instantly started flirting and playing that ...
A: Hey Ben, it's probably not that you made an ass of yourself but it's more likely that THAT night she ...
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| Help | 10/26/2007 |
Q: Hey My name is Mike and here is my dillema. I am a 15 year old sophomore in high school, and I have ...
A: Hey Mike... your biggest problem is the mental block. You think of them differently so it causes you ...
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| WEIRD SITUATION HELP!!!! | 10/25/2007 |
Q: I just got over my ex boyfriend, with the help of a wonderful man named Julio. We dated and called ...
A: Hey there Priscilla. You might want to prepare yourself for the fact that he's probably still ...
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| What does my ex want? | 10/25/2007 |
Q: I’m 24 and been going out with a girl who is 19 for 2 years and a half.. We used to live in the ...
A: Hey there Ash. What your ex is doing is keeping you around for the "comfort" of having someone even ...
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| How do i ask here out!? | 10/24/2007 |
Q: My name is Gage and I am 15 and i really need help. There is a girl in my school that I really like, ...
A: Hey there Gage. Here's what you should do. Nothing. She's dating someone else. Until she's NOT ...
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| Controling, Insecure, Jealous, Womanizing Spouse | 10/23/2007 |
Q: My husband is very controling, and a sore loser.. Whenever he feels bad about something he likes to ...
A: So what if some other woman gets his dick? Some other woman will also get his insecurities, his ...
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| How to turn him down? | 10/23/2007 |
Q: I'm a junior in college and I know a guy (for at least a year) that is several years older than me ...
A: hey Laura.... you're just gonna have to man up and tell him you don't like him. That's yoru ...
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| figuring this out | 10/22/2007 |
Q: I am 32 yearold, college educated, working professional. One of my good friends, Frank was in town ...
A: Hey Peter. Welcome to the pain in the butt that is dating a stripper. Expect this type of behavior ...
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| question | 10/21/2007 |
Q: It's been a while since I've written into you, so I just wanted to update you on some stuff that's ...
A: Hey Carys... Don't pay any attention to the fact that he deleted your first facebook message. I hate ...
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| Why is this girl being mean / cheeky to me ? | 10/19/2007 |
Q: In my lesson, there is this girl who lately ALWAYS teases me, get rly cheeky with me and can be so ...
A: because she's comfortable with you and sees you as someone she can open up and be herself around. ...
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| a possible love triangle? | 10/17/2007 |
Q: Okay, I have this friend named Christina she's 19 years old. Now she broke up with her boyfriend ...
A: Hey Sarah... this is bad all around. A. Why do you want to stick your friend with a guy that you ...
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| 3 months | 10/17/2007 |
Q: i've been going out with a guy for 3 months. i actually met him online. he is now off. in his ...
A: Yes you should tell him that there will be no sex but you'd like to still hang out. Because right ...
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| I need some advice | 10/17/2007 |
Q: I am just getting mixed signs about this guy and i really need some help! We met (online) but at the ...
A: hey there Isabel. It sounds like you may need to be a little bit more aggressive. You seemed to have ...
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| Question about taking a break with Girlfriend | 10/16/2007 |
Q: So since my ex gf and I are on a break we came up with a conclusion tonight because she was driving ...
A: nobody does Adam. Not even women understand women. You just have to tell her that if she doesn't ...
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| Question about taking a break with Girlfriend | 10/16/2007 |
Q: So since my ex gf and I are on a break we came up with a conclusion tonight because she was driving ...
A: yeah, that's what I would do Adam. Essentially she is telling you that she still wants you there to ...
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| Should I trust him, or just forget him? | 10/16/2007 |
Q: I recently started a new job in a mall setting, and met a guy. We are both 19 years old, and I am ...
A: Sounds to me like this guy is playing his cards in whatever way he can to get you into bed. I'd say ...
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| Question about taking a break with Girlfriend | 10/16/2007 |
Q: So since my ex gf and I are on a break we came up with a conclusion tonight because she was driving ...
A: no I don't Adam but that's because I'm a guy and I can see what a dumb excuse that is. Girls are all ...
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| how to tell if your being played... | 10/15/2007 |
Q: ...okay, here's a little bit of background information. I met this guy named Mike back in feb. ...
A: Okay Jennifer... let's go over this. You know a guy. Every single relationship this guy has been in ...
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| Please Help me... | 10/15/2007 |
Q: my name is Travis, and I'm 33yrs old. My ex-girlfriend's name is Dawn, and she's 30yrs old. We were ...
A: hey Travis.... It sounds like you genuinely care about this woman and are doing everything you can ...
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| Question about taking a break with Girlfriend | 10/15/2007 |
Q: I am 19 and my girlfriend is 19. We were dating for two years up until a month ago in which she ...
A: I understand Adam. The best thing you can do is fill your time. I had the biggest problem right ...
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| Question about taking a break with Girlfriend | 10/15/2007 |
Q: I am 19 and my girlfriend is 19. We were dating for two years up until a month ago in which she ...
A: hey Adam... as soon as the word Suicide is mentioned I have to tell you that you need serious help ...
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| 9 months... | 10/13/2007 |
Q: I am 24 my boyfriend of now 9 months (which we have lived together for almost a year) is 32. He is a ...
A: Hey Erin... almost every guy DOES look at porn. And it has NOTHING to do with you. A guy could be ...
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| long distance | 10/12/2007 |
Q: i've been going out with this girl for 3 years, and i'm absolutely in love with her. but i'll have ...
A: well Patrick, the only way to keep it going in a way that keeps you both happy is travel, travel, ...
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| A tall Order | 10/12/2007 |
Q: I am dating a man that I care about deeply. He is about and inch shorter than I am. I like to wear ...
A: hey Ann, if you like wearing heels... keep wearing heels. It's really not that emasculating to date ...
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| my ex-boyfriend | 10/12/2007 |
Q: well me and my ex hade been together for 2 months and befor i got with him i told him that i was ...
A: hey amber... you have LOTS of time to find someone in the Chicago area. Especially at 15 it's going ...
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| my ex-boyfriend | 10/11/2007 |
Q: well me and my ex hade been together for 2 months and befor i got with him i told him that i was ...
A: I don't think long distance relationships are good. They almost never work, and they cause more ...
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| What does he really want? | 10/10/2007 |
Q: I started dating this guy about a year ago. Within a few months, we decided (I was the one who ...
A: Hey Paris. Let me start by saying you REALLY violated his trust and confidence by snooping in his ...
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| About to give up | 10/9/2007 |
Q: I'm Danielle, 23, and from New Mexico. There's this guy who goes to my school that I really really ...
A: Hey there Danielle. It's not uncommon for a guy to be attracted to more than one woman at once. ...
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| 9 months... | 10/9/2007 |
Q: I am 24 my boyfriend of now 9 months (which we have lived together for almost a year) is 32. He is a ...
A: Hey Erin. Let's start with the non-jealousy issue first. A lot of this comes with the age ...
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| Has he lost Interest? | 10/6/2007 |
Q: I am 18 years old and there is this guy that I like and he likes me. We are ''friends with ...
A: Hey there Alicia... it sounds like he may have lost interest. You didn't mention how old the boy was ...
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| I want her in my life. | 10/6/2007 |
Q: Tony At the beginning of 2007 i met the most gorgeous girl in this world. She means the world to me. ...
A: Well Dave... unfortunately there's nothing much you CAN do as long as she is seeing someone else. ...
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| relationship issues | 10/4/2007 |
Q: i'm a relationship now,and everything is generally okay, except that i feel that i'm a bit clingy, ...
A: Hey there Danielle... sounds like you're going through the typical problems in a relationship. In ...
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| Former friend, now a lover, now what | 9/12/2007 |
Q: Hey Tony, I would like to point out that I mention some ideas of mine regarding what the woman I ...
A: Hey Alvaro, it sounds like there's virtually nothing you can do that can calm her concerns. She has ...
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| how do i get to like me | 9/8/2007 |
Q: i have known this guy for more than two years. we have been together on and off and the relationship ...
A: you can absolutely tell him! Let him know that you never intended for this to be strictly a sexual ...
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| help please... | 9/7/2007 |
Q: ive been dating a guy i have liked since the first day i met him...well, we were dating for 6 ...
A: Hey there Mashell, here's the situation... you can't really do anything to earn someone's trust. it ...
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| how do i get to like me | 9/7/2007 |
Q: i have known this guy for more than two years. we have been together on and off and the relationship ...
A: Hey there sarah, I'm afraid I've got some bad news. With the relationship you two have had over the ...
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| how do i get him interested? | 9/7/2007 |
Q: i have known this guy for almost 2 1/2 years. we have been dating on and off.the relationship has ...
A: Hey there sarah, I'm afraid I've got some bad news. With the relationship you two have had over the ...
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| Doe he still like me?? | 9/6/2007 |
Q: I am 16 . I have liked a guy who I only shared 1 class with for 2 years. We are both extremely shy ...
A: Hey there Sara, usually when someone likes you... it takes more than just time for them to stop ...
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| Love Triangle? | 9/6/2007 |
Q: This has the potential to be confusing, although I will try to make it as clear as possible. About ...
A: Oh okay Kim, that does change things actually. I still stand by the fact that Jay is interested in ...
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| Love Triangle? | 9/6/2007 |
Q: This has the potential to be confusing, although I will try to make it as clear as possible. About ...
A: Hey there Kim. It's not BAD that Jay had an interest in one of your friends but it may make things ...
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| clueless | 9/3/2007 |
Q: I've been seeing this guy at work for over a year, took no notice of him and he did not seem to be ...
A: hey alitia, the only thing to do at this point is ask him out. That will give you all your answers. ...
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| ring | 8/31/2007 |
Q: I am interested in a guy, but he is weraing an initial ring(2 letters) with a stone, on his left ...
A: Hey Alitia, not necessarily. Have you looked at the ring closely? Is it his initials? It could also ...
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| Am i wrong | 8/31/2007 |
Q: I have been dating a guy for 2 month and it was my 30 th birthday yesterday ( thursday). I was also ...
A: hey Emily, you've only been dating for 2 months.. don't take it that personally that he wasn't there ...
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| Should I stick in there even when he's not sure? | 8/31/2007 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. We have an amazing relationship on all levels, and ...
A: hey Leah, these situations are always tough. Really the only thing you can do is keep doing what ...
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| He left me, but he doesn't seem sure... | 8/30/2007 |
Q: I hope you can help, I think things could get better, but I'm not sure why he really left. I'm ...
A: Hey Saila, sorry to hear about the circumstances you're going through. It's always hard when two ...
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| How to be a perfect NSA partner? | 8/28/2007 |
Q: I am 30 years old and have been in several sugardaddy relationships. Yeah sure, I've gotten some ...
A: It seems that sugar daddy relationships are much more common these days and I know what you mean ...
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| What did he mean? | 8/27/2007 |
Q: I've been seeing this guy for 4 months. Not really dating, more friends. A little flirty, but ...
A: Hey there Renee. My initial reaction to this is to suggest that he just wanted to have sex with you ...
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| question on the ex | 8/22/2007 |
Q: i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me ...
A: Hey antionette. It doesn't matter what he wants from you, what matters most is what YOU want from ...
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| How to tell my date about my birthday | 8/18/2007 |
Q: I have been dating a person for 3 month exclusively but we never really defined our relationships. ...
A: Hey Amy, you can mention something just casually. Say something about how your parents are going to ...
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| Warning Signs? | 8/12/2007 |
Q: I have been dating a guy, P, for 3 months, and believe I love him. The sex is great and we do have a ...
A: It sounds like this relationship is in for a rocky time. Men who have jealousy and trust issues are ...
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| does he fancey me? | 8/12/2007 |
Q: I just recently got a job in a warehouse. I have worked there for about 2 weeks now and there is ...
A: .. the answer is YES! He definitely likes you. Guys don't wink at girls or call them beautiful or ...
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| help | 8/11/2007 |
Q: I am 15 and I am dating a 17 year old soon to be Marine. He is very respectful, fun, nice, man but ...
A: I know how much it stinks to have nothing to talk about! When people don't have a lot in common but ...
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| Will he ever come around? | 8/11/2007 |
Q: My ex boyfriend and I were together for 3 years. He recently cheated on me twice just one week ...
A: Hey there jsy... it sounds like he's just changing as a person, which a lot of people do between the ...
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| I don't know what to think. | 8/10/2007 |
Q: I am in my mid 20's and was recently started dating a 30 yo single mother. We were introduced by ...
A: Hey Dustin, I would wait it out. When dating a 30yr old you'll find that they are much more ...
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| lost confidence | 8/9/2007 |
Q: my girlfriend and i have been for 4 months. the first three months were brilliant then she kept ...
A: Hey Adam, what you'll have to see is how she acts towards you now. If after 3 months she wasn't so ...
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| Im confused about some things in the relationship | 8/8/2007 |
Q: first of all im 20 and my girlfriend is 18. My situation is that I live with my parents going to ...
A: Well Andrew, I know this isn't going to be what you want to here but it's mostly you who's at fault ...
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| HELP! | 8/7/2007 |
Q: This will be long but PLEASE help! I just recently got out of a FIVE year relationship...kinda. my ...
A: Hey Ben, I've been through that exact same situation before, as many people have, and the result is ...
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| next move? | 8/7/2007 |
Q: Neder, I met this man briefly at a conference. He gave me a quick tour of the town. During our ...
A: Well Sarah (or Diep. Which is it?), if you're going to copy and paste your question to more than one ...
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| Dont want to be a chump | 8/6/2007 |
Q: Ok, to start off i met this woman off an online dating site. One of only 3 i have had. I dated her ...
A: Hey Cryss, I know how you feel man. i think we've all been there before. We can have any girl we ...
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| Should i leave him or give him another chance? | 8/6/2007 |
Q: We have been dating for 2 months then we did not see each other for 1 month because he did not ...
A: I think that's a good idea. I was unaware that you lived on different continents! I think to pursue ...
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| A older man | 8/6/2007 |
Q: Well...uhmm. There is a guy that I have known for about 2 or 3 years. I always thought he liked me ...
A: I would let it go. Age difference isn't a huge concern when you're both out of high school, but at ...
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| Should i leave him or give him another chance? | 8/6/2007 |
Q: We have been dating for 2 months then we did not see each other for 1 month because he did not ...
A: Hey Avon, this situation is entirely up to you. I wouldn't worry about his long term concerns at ...
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| my ex | 8/4/2007 |
Q: well...i just got off the phone with my ex!and we were dateing for a week !but later i went to my ...
A: He's just mad that you rejected him and she doesn't like you probably because you dated him. They're ...
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| my ex | 8/4/2007 |
Q: well...i just got off the phone with my ex!and we were dateing for a week !but later i went to my ...
A: Hey there Kristina. That's a beautiful name by the way, my sister's name is Kristina spelled the ...
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| She feels single when not together | 7/28/2007 |
Q: I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now, I'm 23, she's 22. I live about an hour away from ...
A: well... the unfortunate thing is that SHE can't do anything to maker herself feel differently about ...
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| HELP ME | 7/27/2007 |
Q: me and my girlfriend have been going out for seven months now but been seeing each other for over a ...
A: Hey Aaron, the timing is different for everyone. It will definitely take longer if you see each ...
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| She feels single when not together | 7/26/2007 |
Q: I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now, I'm 23, she's 22. I live about an hour away from ...
A: She needs to feel wanted. I went through a similar situation with an ex. She needs that feeling of ...
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| She feels single when not together | 7/26/2007 |
Q: I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now, I'm 23, she's 22. I live about an hour away from ...
A: Hey Mark. When a girl says she needs her space, that's her way of breaking up with you without ...
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| Should we break up? | 7/26/2007 |
Q: I recently had a new male friend I knew for only a short period through friends move in with me as a ...
A: Hey Erin, either way... if he's acting this way because of his ex, OR if it's just the way he is... ...
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| Should we break up? | 7/25/2007 |
Q: I recently had a new male friend I knew for only a short period through friends move in with me as a ...
A: from what you're telling me I would agree with you that it doesn't sound like he's very into the ...
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| she means the world to me | 7/25/2007 |
Q: my ex girl dumped me abut 3 months ago. i miss her more than anyhting, i did exactly what a guy ...
A: Going through a breakup like that is always very very hard. My very first breakup was almost exactly ...
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| bf commitment issue | 7/24/2007 |
Q: I'm 28, bf 24. We have been together for 6 months, almost every day. We are doing really well until ...
A: I think the way you're handling the phone calls is a very good idea. Only after you tell him you're ...
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| Silent Treatment | 7/24/2007 |
Q: I have been having an affair with a guy for a year. He had a serious live in relationship with a ...
A: Did you consider the possibility that maybe now YOU'RE the one he's having an affair on? He's ...
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| A "casual" relationship | 7/23/2007 |
Q: I'm an 18 year old girl working as a dancer at a theme park for my summer job. One of my male ...
A: I'm going to "try" and be nice in this answer but I'm a little steamed. You definitely need to ...
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| bf commitment issue | 7/23/2007 |
Q: I'm 28, bf 24. We have been together for 6 months, almost every day. We are doing really well until ...
A: I wouldn't say you're being foolish, but I think you're being "overly hopeful." I think there's a ...
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| bf commitment issue | 7/23/2007 |
Q: I'm 28, bf 24. We have been together for 6 months, almost every day. We are doing really well until ...
A: He's already given you his answer. He's not thinking forward, he's thinking backward if that makes ...
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| Plzz for god sake help me | 7/22/2007 |
Q: My name is kshitij mehta i am from india i love a girl my age is 24 yrs and hers is 23.I met this ...
A: I wouldn't believe her. At this point, she is saying whatever she can to keep you near her but she's ...
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| what | 7/21/2007 |
Q: "my boyfriend of three months tried to choked me. I was arguing with him because he was on the phone ...
A: It sounds like you're making the right decision. Hopefully this is still salvageable. It sounds like ...
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| Plzz for god sake help me | 7/21/2007 |
Q: My name is kshitij mehta i am from india i love a girl my age is 24 yrs and hers is 23.I met this ...
A: it sounds like you are in a very hard situation. I'm not completely familiar with marriage customs ...
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| what | 7/20/2007 |
Q: "my boyfriend of three months tried to choked me. I was arguing with him because he was on the phone ...
A: You both need to apologize. You did 2 things that are unacceptable. You went behind his back, used ...
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| New guy | 7/19/2007 |
Q: I recently ran into a guy I knew thru his late wife (she passed 2 years ago). We got intimate pretty ...
A: I know you're scared to put any pressure on him, but pressure comes with relationships. Even if you ...
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| confused | 7/19/2007 |
Q: hope ye can help. I've been seeing a guy for the last months and things have been great couldn't be ...
A: You're absolutely right. He has to live for the moment. Just because he's going traveling, it's no ...
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| New guy | 7/18/2007 |
Q: I recently ran into a guy I knew thru his late wife (she passed 2 years ago). We got intimate pretty ...
A: Hey Jess, this problem always arises when people get intimate too fast. The easy way to know if he ...
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| What he wants out of it. | 7/17/2007 |
Q: i've been dating this guy for 3 weeks now and i am completely confused as to where this is going. ...
A: Well Kassidy, it sure SOUNDS like you're dating! He obviously likes you, but from what I understand ...
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| He Says he's not ready | 7/17/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend says that he is "not ready" for marriage and I need to know what that really means. We ...
A: It would help a lot if I knew how old you both were, and if you'd like to follow up to this question ...
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| Relationship advice | 7/16/2007 |
Q: I've been dating a guy for about 2 months now and we've both been divorced within the last 2 years. ...
A: that's always a very hard situation. YOU'RE the one that has to try and cope now when someone pulls ...
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| I want him | 7/13/2007 |
Q: I'm really really interested in this guy. When we met, he was in a semi-serious relationship. ...
A: Hey Gracie, unfortunately no matter how much you want him, it's probably not gonna happen right now. ...
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| My relationship | 7/12/2007 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a year now, we are both divorced and have 6 kids between us that ...
A: the answer to this question is easy but I'm afraid you're not going to like it. You have to get out ...
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| magic words? | 7/11/2007 |
Q: Joe (my current boyfriend) and I met in a fairly odd way, I was dating one of his best friends from ...
A: It sounds like aside from the problem with "moving things forward" you have a great relationship and ...
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