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| Subject | Date Asked |
| casual relationship | 2/6/2012 |
| Q: I am having a casual thing with someone with whom i get on very well and thats precisely the ... A: ultimatums sometimes yield ultimate answers to them, so I would be careful, would it be better to ... | |
| question | 2/4/2012 |
| Q: since you are a guy i am going to ask you. I have been seeing this guy for about a month now. ... A: sounds a little "Flighty"to me, he may not mean to be or he may have too many irons in the fire, ... | |
| Is this a rebound | 2/2/2012 |
| Q: My question is farely long but I will try to make it as brief as possible. I met a girl back in ... A: this indeed sounds like a rebound but more importantly the fact of cheating is of greater concern. ... | |
| update | 2/1/2012 |
| Q: Nicolette again. I have an update for you and would like to know what you think. I hope I'm not ... A: and no you are not a bother, I am here to help if I can. I think that art can do wonders in lifting ... | |
| Keeping a relationship | 1/30/2012 |
| Q: Mu issue is somehow sophisticated, whenever i go into a relationship it starts that i love ... A: the first thing I will say is, if you are prepared for a life of loneliness and solitude, by all ... | |
| Embarrassed about online dating? | 1/26/2012 |
| Q: Okay, well, I'm 18, and recently, I made an account on Okcupid because I'm bi and I was having ... A: you strike me as a a very reasonable person so I am sure you won't take this wrong, "you are way ... | |
| Is he interested? | 1/21/2012 |
| Q: I went on a date with a trauma surgeon. He's a busy guy with crazy working hours obviously. I'm a ... A: Julie hello, he likes you kid! He is a trauma surgeon, he's lucky to have five seconds to properly ... | |
| given up on women | 1/17/2012 |
| Q: Hey, I'm successful 23 year old who make $65k+ a year, I've got a sweet place with a cool roommate, ... A: Yes, "Tired" I feel you, I had quite a dry spell myself a few times. Once I thought I would be ... | |
| Jealous Over Video Games | 1/13/2012 |
| Q: I am in an amazing relationship with a guy I adore. Unfortunately, we don’t share a lot of hobbies. ... A: You are not crazy, a gaming addiction can be very powerful, like any other addiction it can take ... | |
| How to tell a guy no | 1/13/2012 |
| Q: Okay...So I was in my Gym class and this guy popped the question, "do you want to go out with me?" I ... A: so many times we find ourselves in a bad situation for trying not to hurt someone's feelings. There ... | |
| Rules Appon Dating A Marine. | 1/11/2012 |
| Q: Ok So This Guy I've Know Since I was 4 Were Five Years Apart But Yet At The Same time So close. We ... A: I can tell you that in the Air Force there is a high level of expectations for enlisted men and even ... | |
| Question | 1/11/2012 |
| Q: Do you think not having alot of friends is keeping me single? Do guys not like girls that have few ... A: It is not necessarily that men do not like women that have few friends as much as men have no idea ... | |
| Question | 1/8/2012 |
| Q: im 23 yrs old, so i just started seeing this guy and I want to know what to do to "impress" him so ... A: MK thank you for your question, this comes up more often in peoples minds but few actually put it to ... | |
| women work money | 1/5/2012 |
| Q: i am aguy with all the material benefits which ive worked hard for, no debt i dont do debt,but i ... A: welcome to Earth, you are so right about what you say but I would have to amend your statement a ... | |
| My Boyfriend | 1/5/2012 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for 3 years. During that time period the longest ... A: Nina thank you for your question, you have really painted a good picture of not only the situation ... | |
| When the Past Isn't Past | 1/4/2012 |
| Q: I'm 27 years old and there's this guy in my church who really like me. He's nice, kind, and very ... A: First of all I would like to say that I am so sorry to hear you went through this abuse and hope you ... | |
| is he jealous? | 12/22/2011 |
| Q: i have a friend who i am FWB with. lets call him mike. mike has a habit of acting possesive around ... A: Sounds like he is to me but be careful or you might lose one or both of them if you do not assure ... | |
| Question about someone at work | 12/17/2011 |
| Q: The question I have is about this guy at work. I am a guy also btw. Ok the first time this guy and I ... A: Ask him if he'd like to grab a beer sometimes after work and let him choose the place (always public ... | |
| a great gift | 2/14/2011 |
| Q: how're you doing?Nice to have you here among other experts! I had a successful first date with this ... A: I have found that the gift you choose can be improved by information. Find out about her, her likes ... | |
| Rough Patch | 2/12/2011 |
| Q: Me and my bf have been together for almost 3 years and are both 24. For the past 3 weeks we've been ... A: For the reasons behind your actions toward him, I would have to know more about your situation, what ... | |
| break up or keep trying? | 2/11/2011 |
| Q: I have been dating a girl for right at a year, and we are way apart on some issues. I have no doubt ... A: My best advice is to tell you what I did once to get through something similar. First of all I was ... | |
| break up or keep trying? | 2/11/2011 |
| Q: I have been dating a girl for right at a year, and we are way apart on some issues. I have no doubt ... A: Wow John, you bring up a lot of issues all of which paint a story of an unhappy situation. You feel ... | |
| Should I date someone who may not be suitable to be my husband? | 2/7/2011 |
| Q: I am a 28 year old girl. I met this guy who is from a different country, race, religion but is ... A: And you will have the peace of mind in knowing you did the thing that is right for you no matter how ... | |
| Should I date someone who may not be suitable to be my husband? | 2/7/2011 |
| Q: I am a 28 year old girl. I met this guy who is from a different country, race, religion but is ... A: The reason I suggested dating him was to find out about your likes and differences and if you can ... | |
| Should I date someone who may not be suitable to be my husband? | 2/5/2011 |
| Q: I am a 28 year old girl. I met this guy who is from a different country, race, religion but is ... A: I get this question a lot and I always find it amazing that people sometimes pass up the possibility ... | |
| How to talk to a girl without being overbearing? | 2/3/2011 |
| Q: Recently I've been talking to a girl that goes to my school. We met when she advertised (on an ... A: I would have accepted her offer to pay and keep it professional, sometimes when a girl wants to see ... | |
| not wanting a relationship for years is abnormal? | 1/30/2011 |
| Q: I am single since 2008 after a disastrous relationship and I have NO intention to get into another. ... A: To the confused you are abnormal but I think the way you are handling things "should" be the normal ... | |
| 2 guys! | 1/29/2011 |
| Q: I used to go out with a guy who I fell in love with at 1st sight! We had lots in common and ... A: Now this one is easy, you yourself said the new guy is not forever and that you are more connected ... | |
| question | 1/27/2011 |
| Q: I am wondering something. (im 22yrs old) DO guys generally want in girls the same thing girls want ... A: The answer to your question is not the same for all men as it would not be the same for all women. ... | |
| question | 1/25/2011 |
| Q: so I have some issues when I start dating someone. Im 22 and I have a tendency to freak out, my ... A: Everything you are mentioning here sounds very normal, you are a very compassionate person it is OK ... | |
| HELP | 1/12/2011 |
| Q: however there is a twist she is pregnant and carrying my child iam not unhappy about it but it dosnt ... A: I and my daughter took a while to reunite emotionally, there had been so many untruths told to her ... | |
| Is he interested? | 1/8/2011 |
| Q: There is a man at my university who I am interested in. We had classes together and when we first ... A: Sounds like possibly invitation to love is waiting for you both, of course ask him to dinner at a ... | |
| sexual problem | 1/8/2011 |
| Q: I had Gynecomastia (Male Breast Enlargement) when i was younger and pretty much stayed away from ... A: While the particulars of your situation are somewhat unusual they are not unique, many people ... | |
| Need an opinion | 1/6/2011 |
| Q: Im confused and in need of some opinion. I met a guy last year, he was the attending physician when ... A: I am thinking you did not call him but showed up unexpectedly at the hospital to see him, you may ... | |
| my bofriends ex | 1/5/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over four years. We are in the same fire company ... A: One must do what their heart tells but if all the people who care for their first loves were not ... | |
| Commitment Phobic Boyfriend | 1/3/2011 |
| Q: So my boyfriend has been very distant recently, and finally he agreed to sit down with me and talk, ... A: I suggest you both sit down with a qualified relationship councilor, that is good advice to even ... | |
| Should I reconcile with my brother? | 12/31/2010 |
| Q: My brother and I haven't spoken for over 14 years. His second wife had a big role in creating ... A: I have found a few truths in life, things that are universally true no matter what the details of ... | |
| new girl | 12/24/2010 |
| Q: ok so this is a long one but hope you can help. so theres this girl that i really like but i just ... A: Play it her way or not at all, it is seldom that you get a girl to tell you exactly what she wants ... | |
| what to do? | 12/22/2010 |
| Q: I have a terrible crush on my former lecturer.he is 30 and not in a r/ship.he sent me a frnds ... A: He is probably concerned about the teacher/student relationship that is looked badly upon if ... | |
| dating dilemma | 1/18/2010 |
| Q: So, I been dating this guy for over 8 months. We see each other about once a week. We live about an ... A: I believe I have already answered this question but just in case the skinny is do not take the word ... | |
| hello | 1/13/2010 |
| Q: what does it mean to appeal to someone's emotional side? And how would u do this? Or in ... A: Sympathizing mostly getting to understand what upsets them in life is just a matter of listening or ... | |
| we do not talk as much | 5/3/2009 |
| Q: I met this guy 10 years ago, but lost contact. after 10 years, my sister contacted him and we ... A: I feel where you are coming from I really do but he told you he was afraid of commitment or words to ... | |
| we do not talk as much | 5/3/2009 |
| Q: I met this guy 10 years ago, but lost contact. after 10 years, my sister contacted him and we ... A: He has already told you of his fear of the "I" word you might be walking into a mistake right no I ... | |
| amplifying the attraction | 5/2/2009 |
| Q: Sorry it`s a bit long.I`ve met this gal in the university,so far two dates with her have gone very ... A: 1.Ask her 2.no girl who cares likes to share. you do run the risk of hurting her feelings and how ... | |
| frustrated, what to do? | 5/2/2009 |
| Q: i am 18 years old. This girl and i broke up a little more than a week ago becuase the relationship ... A: Life is nothing without calculated risk, sure you risk getting your heart broken again but what you ... | |
| I need some help understanding. | 5/2/2009 |
| Q: You might remember me, not sure. My name's Nicolette. I'm a 21 year old college student, and I have ... A: Nicolette you two are involved in not only a passionate pursuit acting but it can also be very ... | |
| my gf | 5/15/2008 |
| Q: we used to have good sex but now everytime i see her she says that shes too tired or not in the ... A: Sometimes it is not only what you do but also where you do it. Some women get turned on as much by ... | |
| family | 5/15/2008 |
| Q: my girlfriend and i dated for almost 6 months. were both 24. she was looking to get married. One ... A: answer number 1. no it was you than caused her too end it but I don't think you intended to offend ... | |
| help | 5/13/2008 |
| Q: I just got out of a relationship were i was compleatly in love...an it destroyed me... an i see her ... A: What you describe is a true bummer and my heart goes out to you.All I can tell you is these happened ... | |
| Getting him to propose | 5/11/2008 |
| Q: Robert, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, and have lived together for one and a ... A: Getting a grip on your spending habits is something you should do whether or not he was in the ... | |
| RE: What was that all about | 5/9/2008 |
| Q: I need help understanding this man. We work together. I had not actually had any interest in ... A: I believe he may have really liked you, but some other factor may have changed his mind. Hard to ... | |
| relationship | 5/4/2008 |
| Q: ""I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. We broke up about 7 months ago. I want to know if there ... A: First of all why in your opinion did you breakup, secondly never give so much info about your self ... | |
| How long should I wait? | 5/3/2008 |
| Q: Here is the situation, I know this girl, we've know each other ever since we were little kids. Her ... A: Women have always reserved the right to change their minds take as what she says to be what she ... | |
| my gf | 5/2/2008 |
| Q: we used to have good sex but now everytime i see her she says that shes too tired or not in the ... A: First do not feel bad that you climax too soon, this will probably not last. When you are young it ... | |
| follow up: lost interst | 4/2/2008 |
| Q: Some have waited a lot longer than that to start a relationship. There are certain benefits to this ... A: I would suggest you get with some girlfriends or family girlfriends and get a make over, it will ... | |
| A little help... | 4/2/2008 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for about 10 months and it seems like we aren't talking as ... A: You two may have gotten too used to each other, when you know someone well there may be little to ... | |
| Robert Please Help! THANK U!!!! | 4/1/2008 |
| Q: First of all thank you so much for taking in my question. I am under a lot of duress, and issues. My ... A: Some people are more able too handle death than others but the focus should be on you. At this time ... | |
| relationships | 4/1/2008 |
| Q: I am at the end of getting my divorce. I met a guy that I have known most of my life. He is 2 years ... A: Satisfy yourself, if that means calling him,call him. Never sit at home years later and kick your ... | |
| lost interst | 3/31/2008 |
| Q: i am 27 yaers old and i never had a boyfreind .and i have lost interst in guys altother .now i don,t ... A: Some have waited a lot longer than that to start a relationship. There are certain benefits to this ... | |
| I screwed up, how can I get my gf to know that I'm truly sorry. | 3/28/2008 |
| Q: My girlfriend has really gone out of her way to make room for me in her schedule. Apart from ... A: First stop beating yourself up for being human, you just are, we all are and unless I miss my guess ... | |
| How long should I wait? | 3/24/2008 |
| Q: Here is the situation, I know this girl, we've know each other ever since we were little kids. Her ... A: Women love to feel that you are soul mates my advice become hers, find out what she likes and ... | |
| How long should I wait? | 3/23/2008 |
| Q: Here is the situation, I know this girl, we've know each other ever since we were little kids. Her ... A: Immediately in concerns of the heart, I can hardly believe that you would take a chance on losing ... | |
| ex | 3/21/2008 |
| Q: my girlfriend and i dated for almost 6 months. were both 25. we had talked about marriage. it had ... A: Most women want to be excepted by their boyfriends family but most of all want to be presented to ... | |
| Friends and then Lovers? | 3/21/2008 |
| Q: Okay so I have been best friends with this guy for over a year now and we have been through a lot ... A: it is one that I have first hand knowledge of and I hope my advice helps. Recently (two years ago ... | |
| Girl Trouble. | 3/19/2008 |
| Q: Hey Robert, My name is Brian and I'm 16 years old. I knew this girl named Niece for about 14 years, ... A: Be there for her Brian with no pressure, if a girl trusts you and you turn her on to a friend,they ... | |
| girl | 3/18/2008 |
| Q: hey Rob. there is a girl that i work with that i am attracted to. she is very outgoing but she ... A: I think that deep inside you already know the answer to your first question, you sound smart and ... | |
| My boyfriend has lost interest in sex | 3/17/2008 |
| Q: Lee My name is Lizzie. I am 22 years old and have been dating my 27 year old boyfriend for 2 ... A: You may have made the mistake of submitting the question twice. But I am glad you did because I have ... | |
| My boyfriend has lost interest in sex | 3/17/2008 |
| Q: Lee My name is Stephanie. I am 22 years old and have been dating my 27 year old boyfriend for 2 ... A: First I would like to tip my hat to him ,he must love you a lot and find you very sexy to have kept ... | |
| My mom is constantly interfering | 3/17/2008 |
| Q: Recently my mom confronted me about information that she had found on the internet about my ... A: O.K. I hear you loud and clear,been there done that, got the t-shirt. I am proud of you for calling ... | |
| She's the only girl I want but she's just got engaged. | 3/16/2008 |
| Q: Hey Robert. Sorry if this is a bit long. I've known this girl for around three or four years now and ... A: It is bad manners but not wrong, besides she is not married yet and simply telling her that there is ... | |
| take a beak or break up? | 3/13/2008 |
| Q: I am a 33 year old female. I have been dating my boyfriend, age 35 for a year and a half. We both ... A: Lets struggle together for answers, I know that it is not easy but I get letters each day saying ... | |
| Im so confused | 3/10/2008 |
| Q: Hey! I'm 24 years old and have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 years off and on. At first things were ... A: Sometimes in reading a letter you can almost hear the voice of who's writing it your voice seems ... | |
| What Do I Do NOW? | 3/10/2008 |
| Q: Okay, so I've known this man for 20 years. He's been divorced for 4 years and I have never been ... A: Slept on your question rather than answering immediately and my opinion has not I believe he has ... | |
| i need help | 3/9/2008 |
| Q: i been with this guy for 6 mon on and off but we r runing out of things 2 talk about i really do ... A: sometimes the message gets lost and confused between lovers and friends, when this happens I suggest ... | |
| expressing my love to a friend | 3/7/2008 |
| Q: ok so let me start at the beginning. when i was in kindergarden i got really close with this one ... A: Why do one thing when you can do both Write her the letter and give it to her on or before the ... | |
| relationships | 2/28/2008 |
| Q: I am at the end of getting my divorce. I met a guy that I have known most of my life. He is 2 years ... A: Shelly please, please listen to me , This is good advice, enjoy being with this man, let things be ... | |
| My man and his many friends | 2/27/2008 |
| Q: I recently started seeing a guy, we have been out on four dates and have been having a lot of fun ... A: sounds like he loves the company of women, so do I. I would much rather spend most of my time with ... | |
| problems with girls. | 2/22/2008 |
| Q: I have been known as a shy, nice guy, according to my peers. I have always wanted to change that. I ... A: When I am asked this question I always use my college friend Henry as an example: Let me just say ... | |
| looking | 2/18/2008 |
| Q: I have been in a relationship for six years, and a very good one.How do i not look at other women? I ... A: It is very difficult to do when love the feminine form, what I would try is to invest in a good pair ... | |
| Will she want him back? | 2/14/2008 |
| Q: I met my boyfriend about 2 months ago. Recently I found out that he had a relatioship about 2 years ... A: Ellen, if you let something as abstract as that bother you, you are in for a life of hardship. You ... | |
| How to decide between old vs new love | 2/12/2008 |
| Q: Not sure where to start..other than at the beginning I suppose. I am a 30 year old male who at the ... A: If it were me, I would be as supportive as I could to my wife and kids and not lose the woman who ... | |
| dating problems | 2/12/2008 |
| Q: ok.. i like this girl but the thing is .. she i pregnant.. i really dont kno what to do.... when i ... A: Get her and yourself a book on to raise a baby now before it is born, the most important thing is ... | |
| What do I do | 2/10/2008 |
| Q: I'll try to keep this short. This is a situation thats been bothering me for some time now. I ... A: As long as you can remember that they ere attracted to each other, and you don't set yourself up ... | |
| men | 2/2/2008 |
| Q: THIS IS FROM PERVIOUS MESSAGE .Absolutely any extra info you can provide helps me with my answers, ... A: You are beautiful to me and I am sure you will find that right person. I choose women totally on ... | |
| men | 2/2/2008 |
| Q: THIS IS FROM PERVIOUS MESSAGE .Absolutely any extra info you can provide helps me with my answers, ... A: Personality is the most important thing to most real men and character. These things are what you ... | |
| men | 2/2/2008 |
| Q: THIS IS FROM PERVIOUS MESSAGE .Absolutely any extra info you can provide helps me with my answers, ... A: What is your question, if it is do guys prefer blonde ,skinny girls that are young and attractive? ... | |
| men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | 2/1/2008 |
| Q: "i have wanted a boyfriend every since i was 18 years old now 11 years later i still don,t have ... A: Absolutely any extra info you can provide helps me with my answers, have you started on my ... | |
| men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | 2/1/2008 |
| Q: "i have wanted a boyfriend every since i was 18 years old now 11 years later i still don,t have ... A: It was a typo I meant "Britain" as in Great Britain? I felt by your language style that you were ... | |
| men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | 1/31/2008 |
| Q: "i have wanted a boyfriend every since i was 18 years old now 11 years later i still don,t have ... A: I need you to write me again after this and keep writing for at least a month or so until we get ... | |
| Love | 1/29/2008 |
| Q: Iv known this girl 16 (almost 17) for only about 4 months now. As soon as i saw her i knew i liked ... A: With all due respect , remember that you are both very young and may not really understand love well ... | |
| love outside social class | 1/26/2008 |
| Q: I met a guy with whom I now think I might be in love with. The problem is that he is totally from ... A: 1. You should be perfectly honest with him and try to seek a solution together,,, just like a ... | |
| love outside social class | 1/25/2008 |
| Q: I met a guy with whom I now think I might be in love with. The problem is that he is totally from ... A: Taziri, thank you for your letter I have been in your situation and I was just as confused and I can ... | |
| dating problems | 1/23/2008 |
| Q: well, me and this girl are pretty much in love but theres a problem behind this.. she is 15 and i ... A: I do have a little experience in this area as in I was a cop and studied law for a while in college, ... | |
| dating | 1/22/2008 |
| Q: ok , this started from my side about 6 months ago about me , i worked in a company of 100 people ... A: I do not mean this in a bad way but you need to probably slow down and express yourself more ... | |
| Renewing a friendship... | 1/21/2008 |
| Q: I have recently found that a girl I knew before I moved to a new school when we were little goes to ... A: Your first conversations should be more of a getting to know you situation, try to find out what she ... | |
| midlife dating dilemma | 1/18/2008 |
| Q: I like a very shy man who I think is maybe a hopeless case, and I'd really like your opinion. I've ... A: hate to tell you this but in my opinion he for you. Men make it very clear what they want most of ... | |
| 2 months | 1/16/2008 |
| Q: "i've been dating a guy for 2 months. what should i expect for a 2 month relationship? we don't ... A: Absolutely and sometimes it makes the time you do spend together more enjoyable. Basically in all ... | |
| breakup | 1/10/2008 |
| Q: " i dated my girlfriend for almost 6 months. there never seemed to be any serious issues. then out ... A: In my opinion is that you can not listen to a woman all the time with just her mouth, when she asks ... | |
| breakup | 1/10/2008 |
| Q: " i dated my girlfriend for almost 6 months. there never seemed to be any serious issues. then out ... A: it sounds like she was at least honest with you and did care for you. You both in my opinion did not ... | |
| break up | 1/7/2008 |
| Q: I am a 22 year old white female. My birthday is august 1, 1985. My boyfriend broke up with my ... A: (a lovely name by the way). What your ex- is going through is quite common for his age although I ... | |
| helpless | 1/6/2008 |
| Q: i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and have sex on everyday basis and i have not fell ... A: Not really you could just be missing a few factors , there are cycles that a woman body goes through ... | |
| help?? | 1/4/2008 |
| Q: Well I was with my ex for a year, but I left him because he became abusive towards me! Since then ... A: it is important to know when love turns to obsession. In my opinion all love is obsession or you are ... | |
| what do i do from becoming more then a friend? | 1/3/2008 |
| Q: 23/f Ok I have this friend Terry (26). He is a very good friend and we always have fun hanging ... A: I strongly feel that he is a very happy man and very comfortable in his life, you on the other hand ... | |
| dating my ex | 12/30/2007 |
| Q: I am facing quite an ordeal here. My ex broke up with me a couple of years ago, I am 25 and she ... A: again I can tell you these feelings are common, don't feel guilty. Not meaning to sound bad I hope ... | |
| How can I get him to be into me? | 12/29/2007 |
| Q: I am from Mexico and I am 35 years old, single, female and pretty. I am studying my PHD in France. I ... A: I give you the advice I would give my own sister, let it go ; it was great vacation and you met some ... | |
| dating my ex | 12/28/2007 |
| Q: I am facing quite an ordeal here. My ex broke up with me a couple of years ago, I am 25 and she ... A: There is nothing wrong with this girl, or with you. You are going thru a relationship. the fact that ... | |
| learning | 12/27/2007 |
| Q: I am trying to understand something. What does it mean when a partner cries during love making. ... A: this is an important question that you may many different answers to ranging from the sublime to the ... | |
| Falling for someone who is Engaged | 10/8/2007 |
| Q: I am a 22 year old male and have an issue. I am currently in grad school and in my major met this ... A: She is engaged not married if there were a time to tell her how you feel it would be now or ... | |
| How to know if a girl likes you | 10/5/2007 |
| Q: I am 21 years old and i met this girl 2 weeks ago who is 18. I made her my girlfriend ... A: it sounds like you have a lot of hostility pinned up inside you and I regret the little regard you ... | |
| please help | 10/2/2007 |
| Q: we had been coworkers and hung out one time, then she went away to college teling me shed contact me ... A: If she does not get your sense humor toooo bad, excuuuussseee mmmmmeeee.Don't put too much into it ... | |
| How to know if a girl likes you | 9/30/2007 |
| Q: I am 21 years old and i met this girl 2 weeks ago who is 18. I made her my girlfriend ... A: if some woman hurt you in the past, believe me that is not the way most women are, you just need to ... | |
| How to know if a girl likes you | 9/29/2007 |
| Q: I am 21 years old and i met this girl 2 weeks ago who is 18. I made her my girlfriend ... A: Ohhh she likes you the laughing is nervous way of dealing with your presence in her life. In many ... | |
| Is the girl shy, or is she flirting with me ? | 9/28/2007 |
| Q: This morning in assembly i was sitting with my friends and chatting with them, then i looked across ... A: Does the phrase "nothing from nothing" mean anything to you. It is worth investigation ,my opinion ... | |
| seeing other people, while still staying together? | 9/18/2007 |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for a little more than 10 months. At the beginning of the relationship, ... A: It sounds like he has already told you pretty much the same thing if he acts hurt remind him of "I ... | |
| Game Over? | 9/16/2007 |
| Q: I recently slept with a man who I was very interested in. I had talked with him at restaurants a ... A: By carefully reading your message I can tell you already know what this means, but I don't think you ... | |
| How can i have confidence ? | 9/13/2007 |
| Q: i recently started Sociology the other day & there is a new girl who's rly pretty. Yesterday i ... A: you got get her away from outside influence if she is shy ask her over to library to study together ... | |
| do i have a shot? | 9/10/2007 |
| Q: im 19 years old and had a "date" with another 19 year old girl who is shy but parties and has done ... A: text or facebook her the same amount of times you did when she was there with you plus one or two ... | |
| relationship | 9/7/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating a guy from mexico. we are both in our 50's. I am american. I know that mexican ... A: this Is true in many cultures India has similar traditions of men being non-responsive to females ... | |
| help | 8/28/2007 |
| Q: i need a lot of help when it comes to talking to girls.what are some things that i can talk about ... A: ok, this one is easy cause girls like to talk, you must remember to not be insulting and when humor ... | |
| Brother's friend or more? | 8/27/2007 |
| Q: I'm a little suspicious about my brother's friend. He's been acting differently for a while. I can't ... A: When i was 17 there were things in my life that i had going just like you, mom and other adults said ... | |
| this guy i like | 8/18/2007 |
| Q: ok i like this guy at school and he messes with me takes my bookbag looks through it jokes around ... A: he most definitely likes you at times in school it is hard for a guy to show outward affection to a ... | |
| Should i leave him or give him another chance? | 8/6/2007 |
| Q: We have been dating for 2 months then we did not see each other for 1 month because he did not ... A: Your follow-up is one of the MOST lucid and well-thought that I have heard since I have been trying ... | |
| Should i leave him or give him another chance? | 8/6/2007 |
| Q: We have been dating for 2 months then we did not see each other for 1 month because he did not ... A: You should definetly give him another chance. All I hear, is a man making a healthy desicion to take ... | |
| HELP ME | 7/30/2007 |
| Q: Right I've Been going out with my girlfriend for about 8 months now and she has been distant of late ... A: Often when a woman says those kinds of things, she may be trying to hide something that caused her ... | |
| Should we break up? | 7/26/2007 |
| Q: I recently had a new male friend I knew for only a short period through friends move in with me as a ... A: Sometimes people fall into relationships too soon after a breakup, without resolving past issues. ... | |
| Potentially more? | 7/22/2007 |
| Q: I am a 27yr old virgin who has a general lack of knowledge when it comes to men and relationships. ... A: First of all, you have told me that you are virgin and have little knowledge of serious ... | |
| girl | 7/19/2007 |
| Q: ok there is this girl i like and my friend told me that she likes me and i asked her out and she ... A: I have no idea what you are talking about. I have tried to understand and have tried reading it many ... | |
| trying to get her back after a break up and what to do | 7/18/2007 |
| Q: I don't know what to do. My girlfriend recently broke up with me after 3 good months together. It ... A: Believe you me, everyone believes that they are a logical person. The thruth usually is this: We are ... | |
| what | 7/17/2007 |
| Q: my boyfriend of three months tried to choked me. I was arguing with him because he was on the phone ... A: In my opinion, the both of you have committed worngs against the other. You should really consider, ... | |
| Me and my friend like the same girl. | 7/16/2007 |
| Q: Ok here is my problem. This whole thing started, when this girl I was friends with started liking me ... A: I can definitely say that the solution to your dilemma is very simple. You need to tell your friend ... | |
| Confused | 7/13/2007 |
| Q: I have been in a 6 month relationship with this woman. We have a house together, and planned on ... A: Let me first start by saying, that I do not believe that the problem is you. I seriously think that ... | |
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I was lucky to have a grandmother that was wise beyond her years and she passed information on to me. She gave me the most important piece of information anyone could possess in order to understand people.
She taught me that everybody is the same.
People all share similiar dislikes and likes, they thrive on the same things, they are discouraged by the same things. She taught me to not see color in the way I conducted my life.
I have been a member of certain organizations that were designed to assist people in moments of crisis.
I can honestly say that any advice I give would be as unbiased as possible. Basically I just pass along things I have learned in life to other's in hopes that it will help them find peace. We do this by looking inside ourselves, learning to relate to other people, to sympathize with their pain and to truly try to help.
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I have experience in newspaper and radio journalism. Lifelong observer of the human element. I have been in management most of my life. Military background. I have met many people from different cultures. I have traveled across the US several times and have had the oppotunity to see many facets of people. And I have made my own mistakes and learned from them.
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I have listened to a lot of stories that people have told me over the years. And I remember those situations and stories. I have listened to people in outreach programs, people in jails, couples experiencing break-up problems from the time I was 5 years old.
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