| Subject | Date Asked |
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| we do not talk as much | 5/3/2009 |
Q: I met this guy 10 years ago, but lost contact. after 10 years, my sister contacted him and we ...
A: I feel where you are coming from I really do but he told you he was afraid of commitment or words to ...
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| we do not talk as much | 5/3/2009 |
Q: I met this guy 10 years ago, but lost contact. after 10 years, my sister contacted him and we ...
A: He has already told you of his fear of the "I" word you might be walking into a mistake right no I ...
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| amplifying the attraction | 5/2/2009 |
Q: Sorry it`s a bit long.I`ve met this gal in the university,so far two dates with her have gone very ...
A: 1.Ask her 2.no girl who cares likes to share. you do run the risk of hurting her feelings and how ...
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| frustrated, what to do? | 5/2/2009 |
Q: i am 18 years old. This girl and i broke up a little more than a week ago becuase the relationship ...
A: Life is nothing without calculated risk, sure you risk getting your heart broken again but what you ...
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| I need some help understanding. | 5/2/2009 |
Q: You might remember me, not sure. My name's Nicolette. I'm a 21 year old college student, and I have ...
A: Nicolette you two are involved in not only a passionate pursuit acting but it can also be very ...
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| my gf | 5/15/2008 |
Q: we used to have good sex but now everytime i see her she says that shes too tired or not in the ...
A: Sometimes it is not only what you do but also where you do it. Some women get turned on as much by ...
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| family | 5/15/2008 |
Q: my girlfriend and i dated for almost 6 months. were both 24. she was looking to get married. One ...
A: answer number 1. no it was you than caused her too end it but I don't think you intended to offend ...
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| help | 5/13/2008 |
Q: I just got out of a relationship were i was compleatly in love...an it destroyed me... an i see her ...
A: What you describe is a true bummer and my heart goes out to you.All I can tell you is these happened ...
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| Getting him to propose | 5/11/2008 |
Q: Robert, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, and have lived together for one and a ...
A: Getting a grip on your spending habits is something you should do whether or not he was in the ...
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| RE: What was that all about | 5/9/2008 |
Q: I need help understanding this man. We work together. I had not actually had any interest in ...
A: I believe he may have really liked you, but some other factor may have changed his mind. Hard to ...
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| relationship | 5/4/2008 |
Q: ""I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. We broke up about 7 months ago. I want to know if there ...
A: First of all why in your opinion did you breakup, secondly never give so much info about your self ...
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| How long should I wait? | 5/3/2008 |
Q: Here is the situation, I know this girl, we've know each other ever since we were little kids. Her ...
A: Women have always reserved the right to change their minds take as what she says to be what she ...
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| my gf | 5/2/2008 |
Q: we used to have good sex but now everytime i see her she says that shes too tired or not in the ...
A: First do not feel bad that you climax too soon, this will probably not last. When you are young it ...
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| follow up: lost interst | 4/2/2008 |
Q: Some have waited a lot longer than that to start a relationship. There are certain benefits to this ...
A: I would suggest you get with some girlfriends or family girlfriends and get a make over, it will ...
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| A little help... | 4/2/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for about 10 months and it seems like we aren't talking as ...
A: You two may have gotten too used to each other, when you know someone well there may be little to ...
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| Robert Please Help! THANK U!!!! | 4/1/2008 |
Q: First of all thank you so much for taking in my question. I am under a lot of duress, and issues. My ...
A: Some people are more able too handle death than others but the focus should be on you. At this time ...
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| relationships | 4/1/2008 |
Q: I am at the end of getting my divorce. I met a guy that I have known most of my life. He is 2 years ...
A: Satisfy yourself, if that means calling him,call him. Never sit at home years later and kick your ...
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| lost interst | 3/31/2008 |
Q: i am 27 yaers old and i never had a boyfreind .and i have lost interst in guys altother .now i don,t ...
A: Some have waited a lot longer than that to start a relationship. There are certain benefits to this ...
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| I screwed up, how can I get my gf to know that I'm truly sorry. | 3/28/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend has really gone out of her way to make room for me in her schedule. Apart from ...
A: First stop beating yourself up for being human, you just are, we all are and unless I miss my guess ...
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| How long should I wait? | 3/24/2008 |
Q: Here is the situation, I know this girl, we've know each other ever since we were little kids. Her ...
A: Women love to feel that you are soul mates my advice become hers, find out what she likes and ...
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| How long should I wait? | 3/23/2008 |
Q: Here is the situation, I know this girl, we've know each other ever since we were little kids. Her ...
A: Immediately in concerns of the heart, I can hardly believe that you would take a chance on losing ...
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| ex | 3/21/2008 |
Q: my girlfriend and i dated for almost 6 months. were both 25. we had talked about marriage. it had ...
A: Most women want to be excepted by their boyfriends family but most of all want to be presented to ...
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| Friends and then Lovers? | 3/21/2008 |
Q: Okay so I have been best friends with this guy for over a year now and we have been through a lot ...
A: it is one that I have first hand knowledge of and I hope my advice helps. Recently (two years ago ...
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| Girl Trouble. | 3/19/2008 |
Q: Hey Robert, My name is Brian and I'm 16 years old. I knew this girl named Niece for about 14 years, ...
A: Be there for her Brian with no pressure, if a girl trusts you and you turn her on to a friend,they ...
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| girl | 3/18/2008 |
Q: hey Rob. there is a girl that i work with that i am attracted to. she is very outgoing but she ...
A: I think that deep inside you already know the answer to your first question, you sound smart and ...
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| My boyfriend has lost interest in sex | 3/17/2008 |
Q: Lee My name is Lizzie. I am 22 years old and have been dating my 27 year old boyfriend for 2 ...
A: You may have made the mistake of submitting the question twice. But I am glad you did because I have ...
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| My boyfriend has lost interest in sex | 3/17/2008 |
Q: Lee My name is Stephanie. I am 22 years old and have been dating my 27 year old boyfriend for 2 ...
A: First I would like to tip my hat to him ,he must love you a lot and find you very sexy to have kept ...
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| My mom is constantly interfering | 3/17/2008 |
Q: Recently my mom confronted me about information that she had found on the internet about my ...
A: O.K. I hear you loud and clear,been there done that, got the t-shirt. I am proud of you for calling ...
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| She's the only girl I want but she's just got engaged. | 3/16/2008 |
Q: Hey Robert. Sorry if this is a bit long. I've known this girl for around three or four years now and ...
A: It is bad manners but not wrong, besides she is not married yet and simply telling her that there is ...
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| take a beak or break up? | 3/13/2008 |
Q: I am a 33 year old female. I have been dating my boyfriend, age 35 for a year and a half. We both ...
A: Lets struggle together for answers, I know that it is not easy but I get letters each day saying ...
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| Im so confused | 3/10/2008 |
Q: Hey! I'm 24 years old and have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 years off and on. At first things were ...
A: Sometimes in reading a letter you can almost hear the voice of who's writing it your voice seems ...
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| What Do I Do NOW? | 3/10/2008 |
Q: Okay, so I've known this man for 20 years. He's been divorced for 4 years and I have never been ...
A: Slept on your question rather than answering immediately and my opinion has not I believe he has ...
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| i need help | 3/9/2008 |
Q: i been with this guy for 6 mon on and off but we r runing out of things 2 talk about i really do ...
A: sometimes the message gets lost and confused between lovers and friends, when this happens I suggest ...
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| expressing my love to a friend | 3/7/2008 |
Q: ok so let me start at the beginning. when i was in kindergarden i got really close with this one ...
A: Why do one thing when you can do both Write her the letter and give it to her on or before the ...
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| relationships | 2/28/2008 |
Q: I am at the end of getting my divorce. I met a guy that I have known most of my life. He is 2 years ...
A: Shelly please, please listen to me , This is good advice, enjoy being with this man, let things be ...
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| My man and his many friends | 2/27/2008 |
Q: I recently started seeing a guy, we have been out on four dates and have been having a lot of fun ...
A: sounds like he loves the company of women, so do I. I would much rather spend most of my time with ...
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| problems with girls. | 2/22/2008 |
Q: I have been known as a shy, nice guy, according to my peers. I have always wanted to change that. I ...
A: When I am asked this question I always use my college friend Henry as an example: Let me just say ...
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| looking | 2/18/2008 |
Q: I have been in a relationship for six years, and a very good one.How do i not look at other women? I ...
A: It is very difficult to do when love the feminine form, what I would try is to invest in a good pair ...
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| Will she want him back? | 2/14/2008 |
Q: I met my boyfriend about 2 months ago. Recently I found out that he had a relatioship about 2 years ...
A: Ellen, if you let something as abstract as that bother you, you are in for a life of hardship. You ...
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| How to decide between old vs new love | 2/12/2008 |
Q: Not sure where to start..other than at the beginning I suppose. I am a 30 year old male who at the ...
A: If it were me, I would be as supportive as I could to my wife and kids and not lose the woman who ...
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| dating problems | 2/12/2008 |
Q: ok.. i like this girl but the thing is .. she i pregnant.. i really dont kno what to do.... when i ...
A: Get her and yourself a book on to raise a baby now before it is born, the most important thing is ...
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| What do I do | 2/10/2008 |
Q: I'll try to keep this short. This is a situation thats been bothering me for some time now. I ...
A: As long as you can remember that they ere attracted to each other, and you don't set yourself up ...
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| men | 2/2/2008 |
Q: THIS IS FROM PERVIOUS MESSAGE .Absolutely any extra info you can provide helps me with my answers, ...
A: You are beautiful to me and I am sure you will find that right person. I choose women totally on ...
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| men | 2/2/2008 |
Q: THIS IS FROM PERVIOUS MESSAGE .Absolutely any extra info you can provide helps me with my answers, ...
A: Personality is the most important thing to most real men and character. These things are what you ...
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| men | 2/2/2008 |
Q: THIS IS FROM PERVIOUS MESSAGE .Absolutely any extra info you can provide helps me with my answers, ...
A: What is your question, if it is do guys prefer blonde ,skinny girls that are young and attractive? ...
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| men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | 2/1/2008 |
Q: "i have wanted a boyfriend every since i was 18 years old now 11 years later i still don,t have ...
A: Absolutely any extra info you can provide helps me with my answers, have you started on my ...
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| men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | 2/1/2008 |
Q: "i have wanted a boyfriend every since i was 18 years old now 11 years later i still don,t have ...
A: It was a typo I meant "Britain" as in Great Britain? I felt by your language style that you were ...
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| men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | 1/31/2008 |
Q: "i have wanted a boyfriend every since i was 18 years old now 11 years later i still don,t have ...
A: I need you to write me again after this and keep writing for at least a month or so until we get ...
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| Love | 1/29/2008 |
Q: Iv known this girl 16 (almost 17) for only about 4 months now. As soon as i saw her i knew i liked ...
A: With all due respect , remember that you are both very young and may not really understand love well ...
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| love outside social class | 1/26/2008 |
Q: I met a guy with whom I now think I might be in love with. The problem is that he is totally from ...
A: 1. You should be perfectly honest with him and try to seek a solution together,,, just like a ...
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| love outside social class | 1/25/2008 |
Q: I met a guy with whom I now think I might be in love with. The problem is that he is totally from ...
A: Taziri, thank you for your letter I have been in your situation and I was just as confused and I can ...
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| dating problems | 1/23/2008 |
Q: well, me and this girl are pretty much in love but theres a problem behind this.. she is 15 and i ...
A: I do have a little experience in this area as in I was a cop and studied law for a while in college, ...
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| dating | 1/22/2008 |
Q: ok , this started from my side about 6 months ago about me , i worked in a company of 100 people ...
A: I do not mean this in a bad way but you need to probably slow down and express yourself more ...
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| Renewing a friendship... | 1/21/2008 |
Q: I have recently found that a girl I knew before I moved to a new school when we were little goes to ...
A: Your first conversations should be more of a getting to know you situation, try to find out what she ...
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| midlife dating dilemma | 1/18/2008 |
Q: I like a very shy man who I think is maybe a hopeless case, and I'd really like your opinion. I've ...
A: hate to tell you this but in my opinion he for you. Men make it very clear what they want most of ...
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| 2 months | 1/16/2008 |
Q: "i've been dating a guy for 2 months. what should i expect for a 2 month relationship? we don't ...
A: Absolutely and sometimes it makes the time you do spend together more enjoyable. Basically in all ...
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| breakup | 1/10/2008 |
Q: " i dated my girlfriend for almost 6 months. there never seemed to be any serious issues. then out ...
A: In my opinion is that you can not listen to a woman all the time with just her mouth, when she asks ...
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| breakup | 1/10/2008 |
Q: " i dated my girlfriend for almost 6 months. there never seemed to be any serious issues. then out ...
A: it sounds like she was at least honest with you and did care for you. You both in my opinion did not ...
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| break up | 1/7/2008 |
Q: I am a 22 year old white female. My birthday is august 1, 1985. My boyfriend broke up with my ...
A: (a lovely name by the way). What your ex- is going through is quite common for his age although I ...
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| helpless | 1/6/2008 |
Q: i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and have sex on everyday basis and i have not fell ...
A: Not really you could just be missing a few factors , there are cycles that a woman body goes through ...
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| help?? | 1/4/2008 |
Q: Well I was with my ex for a year, but I left him because he became abusive towards me! Since then ...
A: it is important to know when love turns to obsession. In my opinion all love is obsession or you are ...
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| what do i do from becoming more then a friend? | 1/3/2008 |
Q: 23/f Ok I have this friend Terry (26). He is a very good friend and we always have fun hanging ...
A: I strongly feel that he is a very happy man and very comfortable in his life, you on the other hand ...
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| dating my ex | 12/30/2007 |
Q: I am facing quite an ordeal here. My ex broke up with me a couple of years ago, I am 25 and she ...
A: again I can tell you these feelings are common, don't feel guilty. Not meaning to sound bad I hope ...
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| How can I get him to be into me? | 12/29/2007 |
Q: I am from Mexico and I am 35 years old, single, female and pretty. I am studying my PHD in France. I ...
A: I give you the advice I would give my own sister, let it go ; it was great vacation and you met some ...
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| dating my ex | 12/28/2007 |
Q: I am facing quite an ordeal here. My ex broke up with me a couple of years ago, I am 25 and she ...
A: There is nothing wrong with this girl, or with you. You are going thru a relationship. the fact that ...
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| learning | 12/27/2007 |
Q: I am trying to understand something. What does it mean when a partner cries during love making. ...
A: this is an important question that you may many different answers to ranging from the sublime to the ...
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| Falling for someone who is Engaged | 10/8/2007 |
Q: I am a 22 year old male and have an issue. I am currently in grad school and in my major met this ...
A: She is engaged not married if there were a time to tell her how you feel it would be now or ...
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| How to know if a girl likes you | 10/5/2007 |
Q: I am 21 years old and i met this girl 2 weeks ago who is 18. I made her my girlfriend ...
A: it sounds like you have a lot of hostility pinned up inside you and I regret the little regard you ...
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| please help | 10/2/2007 |
Q: we had been coworkers and hung out one time, then she went away to college teling me shed contact me ...
A: If she does not get your sense humor toooo bad, excuuuussseee mmmmmeeee.Don't put too much into it ...
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| How to know if a girl likes you | 9/30/2007 |
Q: I am 21 years old and i met this girl 2 weeks ago who is 18. I made her my girlfriend ...
A: if some woman hurt you in the past, believe me that is not the way most women are, you just need to ...
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| How to know if a girl likes you | 9/29/2007 |
Q: I am 21 years old and i met this girl 2 weeks ago who is 18. I made her my girlfriend ...
A: Ohhh she likes you the laughing is nervous way of dealing with your presence in her life. In many ...
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| Is the girl shy, or is she flirting with me ? | 9/28/2007 |
Q: This morning in assembly i was sitting with my friends and chatting with them, then i looked across ...
A: Does the phrase "nothing from nothing" mean anything to you. It is worth investigation ,my opinion ...
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| seeing other people, while still staying together? | 9/18/2007 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for a little more than 10 months. At the beginning of the relationship, ...
A: It sounds like he has already told you pretty much the same thing if he acts hurt remind him of "I ...
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| Game Over? | 9/16/2007 |
Q: I recently slept with a man who I was very interested in. I had talked with him at restaurants a ...
A: By carefully reading your message I can tell you already know what this means, but I don't think you ...
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| How can i have confidence ? | 9/13/2007 |
Q: i recently started Sociology the other day & there is a new girl who's rly pretty. Yesterday i ...
A: you got get her away from outside influence if she is shy ask her over to library to study together ...
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| do i have a shot? | 9/10/2007 |
Q: im 19 years old and had a "date" with another 19 year old girl who is shy but parties and has done ...
A: text or facebook her the same amount of times you did when she was there with you plus one or two ...
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| relationship | 9/7/2007 |
Q: I have been dating a guy from mexico. we are both in our 50's. I am american. I know that mexican ...
A: this Is true in many cultures India has similar traditions of men being non-responsive to females ...
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| help | 8/28/2007 |
Q: i need a lot of help when it comes to talking to girls.what are some things that i can talk about ...
A: ok, this one is easy cause girls like to talk, you must remember to not be insulting and when humor ...
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| Brother's friend or more? | 8/27/2007 |
Q: I'm a little suspicious about my brother's friend. He's been acting differently for a while. I can't ...
A: When i was 17 there were things in my life that i had going just like you, mom and other adults said ...
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| this guy i like | 8/18/2007 |
Q: ok i like this guy at school and he messes with me takes my bookbag looks through it jokes around ...
A: he most definitely likes you at times in school it is hard for a guy to show outward affection to a ...
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| Should i leave him or give him another chance? | 8/6/2007 |
Q: We have been dating for 2 months then we did not see each other for 1 month because he did not ...
A: Your follow-up is one of the MOST lucid and well-thought that I have heard since I have been trying ...
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| Should i leave him or give him another chance? | 8/6/2007 |
Q: We have been dating for 2 months then we did not see each other for 1 month because he did not ...
A: You should definetly give him another chance. All I hear, is a man making a healthy desicion to take ...
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| HELP ME | 7/30/2007 |
Q: Right I've Been going out with my girlfriend for about 8 months now and she has been distant of late ...
A: Often when a woman says those kinds of things, she may be trying to hide something that caused her ...
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| Should we break up? | 7/26/2007 |
Q: I recently had a new male friend I knew for only a short period through friends move in with me as a ...
A: Sometimes people fall into relationships too soon after a breakup, without resolving past issues. ...
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| Potentially more? | 7/22/2007 |
Q: I am a 27yr old virgin who has a general lack of knowledge when it comes to men and relationships. ...
A: First of all, you have told me that you are virgin and have little knowledge of serious ...
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| girl | 7/19/2007 |
Q: ok there is this girl i like and my friend told me that she likes me and i asked her out and she ...
A: I have no idea what you are talking about. I have tried to understand and have tried reading it many ...
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| trying to get her back after a break up and what to do | 7/18/2007 |
Q: I don't know what to do. My girlfriend recently broke up with me after 3 good months together. It ...
A: Believe you me, everyone believes that they are a logical person. The thruth usually is this: We are ...
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| what | 7/17/2007 |
Q: my boyfriend of three months tried to choked me. I was arguing with him because he was on the phone ...
A: In my opinion, the both of you have committed worngs against the other. You should really consider, ...
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| Me and my friend like the same girl. | 7/16/2007 |
Q: Ok here is my problem. This whole thing started, when this girl I was friends with started liking me ...
A: I can definitely say that the solution to your dilemma is very simple. You need to tell your friend ...
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| Confused | 7/13/2007 |
Q: I have been in a 6 month relationship with this woman. We have a house together, and planned on ...
A: Let me first start by saying, that I do not believe that the problem is you. I seriously think that ...
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