General Writing and Grammar Help/Tempt


I'm writing a paper and have a section on what it means to tempt someone. Looking it up online, it gives several meanings: entice someone to do something unwise; get them to simply want to do it; or try to persuade to do.
So based on that, for example, if a waiter asked you "can I tempt you with dessert? " and you said "you can try", is that redundant? In other words, is that like saying "you can try to try"? Or is that simply stating "you can try to persuade"?

I'm just trying to figure out how to properly use the word tempt in conversation.

ANSWER: I think you understand the concept and usage here

"Can I tempt you ..." means can I persuade you to buy

"You can try .." is a teasing response

But it is a bit redundant

because "Can I tempt you" is a euphemism

I hope that clarifies things for you


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QUESTION: Thank you for your quick response. But what do you mean by "you can try" is teasing, and "can I tempt you" is a euphemism?  Also, if saying "you can try" is redundant (implying "try to try), then what is a proper response? Could you just say "yes" and the "try" is implied?

These are coded social messages - and you should not think of them in literal terms

"Can I tempt you ..." means I would like to sell you something


"You can try .." would mean [literally] "I am open to persuasion"

But in fact it would mean "No - I am not going to buy"

I hope that helps

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