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About Dr. Darleen Claire Wodzenski
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Expertise
Gifted children require a bit more creativity and flexibility when it comes to parenting, education and child rearing. Please ask questions pertaining to parenting, self-esteem and body issues, relationships, social development, learning models and educational philosophies, family and sibling issues, dating, emotional development, philosophy and spirituality, etc.. My credentials are as a Kinesiologist (utilizing movements and postures to focus the mind and improve mental function), Ministerial Counseling (non-denominational), and Parent Coaching. My doctorate degree is in divinity, and I also completed a 4 year pre-med program with an additional year of doctorate level study in the health sciences. I also have had extensive experience teaching piano and dance, as well as tutoring college from undergraduate to graduate level. The sum total of my experiences, education and life have left me with a tender heart for gifted children. Their special gifts can leave them vulnerable in unusual ways, and we need to handle them with kid gloves so that their innocence and inner beauty are preserved as they grow into adulthood.

Experience
My greatest experiences have been as a parent to my three teenagers who are each gifted in their own unique way, as well as several other children who have entered my life and our home in some alternative ways. I have greatly enjoyed a practice as a Parent Coach and Ministerial Counselor, and love to incorporate Brain/Body Integration techniques, such as Educational Kinesiology, into programs to help children become more effective in school and in life.

Publications
Envision Health, The Local News

Education/Credentials
With a Doctorate in Divinity, and training from the Educational Kinesiology and Health Kinesiology Foundations a well as certification as a Project Literacy US instructor, I enjoy drawing from a diverse background in learning models and parenting techniques to create solutions that are effective, gentle and uplifting. Parenting is a gift that keeps on giving, and even challenges are laced with tender moments and great opportunities to share meaningful experiences with your child.

   

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In Category  Gifted Children

SubjectDate Asked

Helping gifted daughter accept responsibility6/21/2009
  Q: I have a very sweet, sensitive gifted daughter. I'm concerned about something. When I point out ...
  A: Children who are very capable and smart sometimes fail to learn some important life lessons as ...
Is my 4 year daughter old gifted?6/13/2009
  Q: I have read many articles that have been posted on the web site and I appreciate the wealth of ...
  A: Giftedness is a tricky subject. Actually, all people are gifted. It's a matter of whether WE, the ...
overly emotional 8 year old6/12/2009
  Q: My daughter is 8 years old. She is a straight A student and has no difficulty in learning new ...
  A: I would have a LOT of questions for you before I could properly address your situation. There are ...
Gifted / Talented 2 y.o. baby6/10/2009
  Q: As far as I understood from questions and answers that 2 years old gifted baby test is not ...
  A: Congratulations on your wonderful child! You and your wife must be having so much fun. Two year ...
Dont know what to do about very confident gifted son6/7/2009
  Q: I apologise in advance if this is way too long but i have so much i need to know. I have a 5 year ...
  A: Your situation is a serious one. I don't necessarily think your child is being successfully ...
GIfted Curiiculum6/5/2009
  Q: I will be home schooling my eight year old gifted son beginning in the fall. School was a social ...
  A: Check with your state's education website and print out a list of the state standards. It will be a ...
gifted child or not6/1/2009
  Q: My son 4yrs and 3 months old. He could comfortably read at 3 1/2 years old. He can write just by ...
  A: Congratulations on your wonderful son. While it may be true that you're a gifted teacher, it is ...
Advanced 18-month old?5/30/2009
  Q: I'm seeking your expert opinion regarding my 18-month old daughter. I've been getting feedback from ...
  A: Congratulations on your wonderful child. I can tell you're a loving and attentive mother. She's ...
Special Education4/8/2009
  Q: I personally consider my child Jake gifted in many ways. He is 11 and very creative but he does have ...
  A: Why don't you just call me. I'll be glad to speak with you for a bit to answer your question. I ...
How to help my child?4/7/2009
  Q: Dr. Wodzenski, I stumbled across this website and have read the posts with much interest. My son is ...
  A: It really sounds like your child is a totally unique and wonderful person. I'm so glad he has you on ...
Gifted but not "perfect"4/6/2009
  Q: I have twin daughters who are in the same gifted class because the only school in the district that ...
  A: Congratulations on having two absolutely wonderful daughters. The fact that they are twins is an ...
Is my toddler gifted or not?3/3/2009
  Q: My son is almost three and I am wondering if he is just bright or if he is indeed gifted. My son ...
  A: Yes, your child is gifted. Of course, I believe that every child has at least one area in which ...
Abhiramiajith-5 Year old2/4/2009
  Q: I would like to introduce baby Abhiramiajith Just 5 YEARS OLD She can sing and memorise more than ...
  A: Your child is lovely and gifted. I'm sure she will benefit greatly from a diversified education, ...
Gifted Underacheiver2/3/2009
  Q: My child Bryce is entering 9th grade next year and he has told me that he has no desire to take any ...
  A: Your son sounds like a wonderful kid. You must really enjoy being his Mom. Sometimes children let ...
Street Children2/2/2009
  Q: 1.) What is your knowledge about street children? 2.) As a psychology professor, what counseling or ...
  A: I'm assuming you're working on a project for a workshop or school. I'd be glad to share my ...
What to do with gifted daughter1/28/2009
  Q: Wodzenski, My daughter has been noticeably special since she was probably a year old. She has ...
  A: How lovely that your daughter is so delightful and smart. You have so many options. The world opens ...
Daughter1/28/2009
  Q: My daughter knew the entire Kindergarten cirriculum before she started school. She is one of the ...
  A: Congratulations! You certainly have a bright one on your hands. Here are a few things for you to ...
Websites or books for the cognitive ability test1/27/2009
  Q: My daughter is 5 and is an Intelligent child. This spring, she will be taking cognitive ability test ...
  A: The test is designed to measure your child's innate ability. Making a big deal out of the testing ...
interpreting son's GT test scores1/21/2009
  Q: My son recently was tested for GT. As an educator myself, I noticed he was above average, but we ...
  A: Something doesn't sound right with this situation. I suspect that you are onto something, with the ...
my boys1/20/2009
  Q: I have two very energetic 5 year old boys, not twins, just very close in age. At school the teachers ...
  A: Yes, I do have a few ideas. I was very ill when my children were young, and I understand the ...
testing1/17/2009
  Q: I have a six year old. we talked to her teacher on having her tested because of her grades she is in ...
  A: A great deal depends upon the type of testing and evaluation, as well as the attitude of testing ...
young gifted child has decided school isn't worth the effort1/14/2009
  Q: Darleen Claire Wodzenski; My daughter is 8 years old and in grade 3. Do to the intensely negative ...
  A: You can just let her drop out of formal school activities for a few months. Then she will begin to ...
gifted preschool1/10/2009
  Q: My son had been havinga lot of problems in preschool and theywere saying that he had adhd. We had ...
  A: I want to be REALLY clear that I answer your question correctly and fairly. My doctorate degree is ...
1st grade and gifted?1/6/2009
  Q: My husband and I completley disagree on this matter. Our son's school says that he is disruptive in ...
  A: I couldn't possibly tell you how to handle this situation. You are your child's parent, and I ...
gifted/autism1/4/2009
  Q: I am writing to you from Cape Town, South Africa. Here we have almost no facilities for anything ...
  A: I don't know what schools are like in your hometown. So I can't comment on the experience your ...
Is my daughter "gifted"1/3/2009
  Q: I have a 21 month old daughter who can count to ten on her own, knows all of her letters ( can ...
  A: I believe that ALL children are special, gifted and amazing. Each child has their own unique ...
My little brother1/2/2009
  Q: I have a question about my little brother's intellegence. He is 3 years old a 2 months and hardly ...
  A: It is clear to me that you are a very special person with unique talents. I'm not surprised that ...
Crying12/30/2008
  Q: We have two boys ages 6 1/2 and almost 9. The older of the two cries and gets angry at us quite ...
  A: Your child needs to learn how to handle and manage anger, disappointment and frustration. He does ...
Crying12/29/2008
  Q: We have two boys ages 6 1/2 and almost 9. The older of the two cries and gets angry at us quite ...
  A: It is wonderful that you recognize the serious nature of your son's outbursts, and that you are ...
GIFTED AND TALENTED STUDENT WITH BEHAVIOR AND FOCUS ISSUES.12/13/2008
  Q: I READ SOME OF YOUR LETTERS AND WAS HOPING YOU COULD HELP ME. I HAVE AN 8 YEAR OLD THIRD GRADER WHO ...
  A: I think you are absolutely correct in being willing to consider any option that will support your ...
Dealing with Behaviour whilst Supporting Personality12/11/2008
  Q: My son who will be six in March is having a hard time maintaining his self esteem and his identity ...
  A: Sounds like you're on top of things. You hinted at several things in your last post that may be ...
CogAT Scores12/5/2008
  Q: I've read many questions and responses about CogAT scores reflecting scores in the 130s. I just ...
  A: It's wonderful that you are so proactive and involved in your child's education. Bravo! My area of ...
Dealing with Behaviour whilst Supporting Personality12/4/2008
  Q: My son who will be six in March is having a hard time maintaining his self esteem and his identity ...
  A: FOLLOW UP: Dear Laura, I had a health crisis with my 16 year old on her birthday. I tried to make ...
Behavior issues12/3/2008
  Q: before I delve right in, I wanted to let you know that I have read many articles from regular ...
  A: Wow! You have a lot going on. It sounds like your little girl is a bundle of joy and has endless ...
gifted?12/1/2008
  Q: My five year old daughter ( 5 years, 2 mos.) is what I would call "bright". She has always been ...
  A: Did you see that I left a follow up ... it got tacked on to the beginning of the last question .. so ...
gifted?11/26/2008
  Q: My five year old daughter ( 5 years, 2 mos.) is what I would call "bright". She has always been ...
  A: Follow Up: Dear Jennifer, Thank you for your note. I certainly hope things work out easily for ...
2 1/2 year old gifted cont..11/21/2008
  Q: Wodzenski, I wrote before about my son being gifted and wanted to apologize for my spelling/typing ...
  A: To follow up ... yes, I believe your child is exceptional. Yet, please know there are MANY gifted ...
is my 2 1/2 year old gifted11/21/2008
  Q: .. I am writing you this because people often tell me my son is gifted. There are some things he ...
  A: You son sounds delightful!!! Each child has special gifts ... and it is wonderful that you are able ...
Teaching Smart Kids!!11/20/2008
  Q: I am a 4th grade teacher and I have a question about what you would suggest as valuable activities ...
  A: Each school has its own rules and protocols, but here are a few ideas ... perhaps one will work. 1) ...
how to handle a bright and sensitive 20 month old11/14/2008
  Q: Our 20 month old is very sensitive. He is also very bright. He can count to 15, knows all of his ...
  A: Toddlers are incredibly busy and complex creatures. They require LOTS of consistency in their ...
photography memory11/14/2008
  Q: my 12 yr-old girl is quite good in photography memory but poor in her academic, especially in ...
  A: It looks like she needs some support across the board. I would strongly suggest that you find a ...
Behavioral Probelms with our Gifted Child11/13/2008
  Q: She was in the Gifted Program in 1st Grade, and has continued into 2nd Grade. In Florida, Gifted ...
  A: I understand your concern. You're right to look for solutions. Of course, there's not enough ...
Is my son possibly gifted?11/12/2008
  Q: My son is 3 years, 7 months old. Before age 2, the only sign of "possible giftedness" was that he ...
  A: Your son sounds delightful! You must be having such a wonderful time raising him. There is pattern ...
Daughter,6,missed gifted cutoff by one point11/12/2008
  Q: As background, I have a son who is in 3rd grade who has been identified as gifted and is in his ...
  A: Congratulations on having such a wonderful family. I hear the love you have for your children in ...
Bored 5 year old boy?11/10/2008
  Q: My son just turned five this past week. He is a VERY bright boy (we often say "too smart for his ...
  A: It sounds like your son is both delightful and challenging! What fun you are going to have raising ...
Classes11/9/2008
  Q: I am in the gifted category and am in 10th grade. I have been noticing that recently, I have been ...
  A: Yes, this is completely normal. There is only so much typical school work that the brain can STAND ...
Very confused about my 6 year old son11/9/2008
  Q: my son just turned 6 in october. I have always wondered what kind of kid he is. I'll just write down ...
  A: I'm very glad to see that you are more comfortable with your son's nature. Please remember, he is ...
Rias profile significant scatter11/8/2008
  Q: My 9 year old son was tested for gifted support. The gifted multi disiplinary team has concluded ...
  A: I have tears in my eyes ... I'm so committed to helping parents see a better way to raise children ...
emotional issues in a gifted Child.11/6/2008
  Q: Dr. Wodzenski, I hope this letter finds you well. Thank you for answering questions for us confused ...
  A: Oh, yes. You did it just right with the cat story. You don't want to get involved with their ...
Very confused about my 6 year old son11/6/2008
  Q: my son just turned 6 in october. I have always wondered what kind of kid he is. I'll just write down ...
  A: You certainly have your hands full. Your son is a treasure to you, I know, and he is certainly ...
photography memory11/6/2008
  Q: my 12 yr-old girl is quite good in photography memory but poor in her academic, especially in ...
  A: FOLLOW UP MESSAGE: Good morning, Phyllis, I was thinking about your daughter last night, and ...
emotional issues in a gifted Child.11/4/2008
  Q: Dr. Wodzenski, I hope this letter finds you well. Thank you for answering questions for us confused ...
  A: I invite you to come on over to my side of the fence. In my world, I believe that children are ... ...
word play10/29/2008
  Q: What do you call it when you transpose the first letters of words, such as when you call Lorna Doon ...
  A: I think you're looking for "Spoonerism". Did you have a question about how to address this dyslexic ...
neccessity of preschool...and10/25/2008
  Q: I have 2 boys 3.5 years old,and 2 tomorrow. Both boys are very advanced. I could list tons of ...
  A: Keep up the great work! It can be difficult having two toddlers at the same time. Two of mine were ...
Unborn son10/24/2008
  Q: I am 20 years and I am expecting my first child on March 10th, 2000, which is a boy. I am very ...
  A: Congratulations! What a lovely idea ... I'm so glad you sent me this question. It is a topic near ...
potty training10/22/2008
  Q: I am having 3 year and 6 months boy.He just refuses to go to potty instead would do it in in pants.I ...
  A: It seems that your son does not WANT to potty train right now. Yet, it is very inconvenient for a ...
bright boys, or gifted?10/12/2008
  Q: I have 2 boys, age 4 & 7. People often comment on how bright they are but recently suggested it may ...
  A: Congratulations on your wonderful sons! I can tell what a fabulous time you are having with them. ...
Is my aggressive intense son gifted?10/10/2008
  Q: My son is almost eight and we know that he is above average intelligence. As a baby he was always ...
  A: Amber - I added to the post .. please scroll down to the end of the first post to find the ...
Asperger's or Gifted?10/9/2008
  Q: I am so desperate and confused. My family just moved to a new state and my 6 year old son started ...
  A: Keep up the good work. No matter WHAT any testing showed, I would just create the most supportive ...
My crazy smart kid10/8/2008
  Q: My daughter is 4 years old. She has been able to read since she was 3. She can read anything at ...
  A: I understand that you may not feel like you should be the one to do home school with her ... but ...
My crazy smart kid10/7/2008
  Q: My daughter is 4 years old. She has been able to read since she was 3. She can read anything at ...
  A: What fun! I can tell you're having such a wonderful time with your little girl. And YES, YES, ...
Is there a range...10/2/2008
  Q: Darleen My email was for Carol Bainbridge. I am sorry I mistakenly sent it to you. Yours sincreely ...
  A: No problem! Just wanted to mention that it's so important for all of us mothers to realize that ...
anxiety in my son9/30/2008
  Q: My son has always had difficulty with what I would determine to be anxiety. He is 5 years old and ...
  A: I'm so glad that you're taking such a proactive stance with your son's situation. Going to the ...
My possibly gifted child and having serious issues in school...9/25/2008
  Q: Okay, I don't want to be one of "those" moms, so I am always hesitant to say that my daughter is ...
  A: Check to see if you could teach at the Montessori in exchange for tuition ... there may be some ...
I don't understand my son9/25/2008
  Q: I am writing to get your opinion re a question that I have posted before. My son Daniel recently ...
  A: Welcome to the wild and wonderful world of parenting a gifted child! Please look at an answer I ...
My possibly gifted child and having serious issues in school...9/25/2008
  Q: Okay, I don't want to be one of "those" moms, so I am always hesitant to say that my daughter is ...
  A: I feel for you. If it is alright, I'm just going to go off in a free form style and answer ...

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