Graphology (Handwriting Analysis)/hand writing


My daughter in law sent a Christmas letter out and in the letter she wrote everyone's name starting with a capital letter, her brother's, my son's, her children, her sister's. when she wrote my name she spelt it with a lowercase laura with a lowercase l. I know this means something and I don't think it is a good thing. Like she doesn't respect me as a person or she doesn't like me or she doesn't think much of me but it isn't good. She posted pictures of the family at Christmas on facebook and pictures with people that weren't family and I commented how I was the only one there wasn't a picture of and a picture was worth a thousand words. Then she posted 8 pictures of me with the kids at Christmas and that made me feel really good, that she actually took pictures of me but purposely left them out of the pictures of family at Christmas.

Dear Laura,
Thank you for your inquiry. Yes, this does seem to have a negative meaning, though I can't say what's in her mind or heart. But I believe the reason these subtle hints grabbed your attention is that you were already feeling some degree of rejection from your daughter-in-law. I'm sorry if that's the case. I know it hurts. Just remember that it doesn't have to be a permanent situation. If you don't allow it to escalate into a full-blown feud, it is reversible.
I wish you luck and peace.

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Chucki DeSantis


I can answer questions regarding personality traits, talents and abilities, character, state of mind, mental and to some degree, physical health. I can answer questions about intelligence, compatibility with another person, honesty or deceptiveness. I can not answer or determine a writer's age, race, sexual identity,religious affiliation, guilt or innocence in a particular crime (except in cases of forgery), although I can determine the likelihood of writer's being capable of committing a crime.


I have been practicing in the field of graphology since 1976, having been privately tutored by Judith Ballard, the only known professional graphologist in the area at the time. I was certified by the American Association of Handwriting Analysts in 1978, after completing and passing their examinations. Most of my work has been on a volunteer basis, but I've been hired for various purposes on a case-by-case basis.

Record Chronical:Renton Washington, local area newspaper: Burien, Washington, Channel 7 news (telecast interview), Seattle, Washington.

I taught a non-credit course in graphology at Highline Community College in Washington State, where I earned an A.A. degree in psychology.

Past/Present Clients
No current clients. In the past, clients included local employers, one prison matron(on a personal contract), three local restaurant/lounge locations (where I "entertained" customers to gather samples for research).These were; Jim Moore's Steak house, Diamond Jim's and Latitude 57. I wrote a column answering write-in queries from readers, though I can't recall the name of the publication. (It was a long time ago).

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