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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| not able to do sex several time in between short time | 1/30/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I am 30 years old unmarried male.my problem is after having sex with my partner once it took me too ... A: You are probably better off accepting that refractory period as normal. Just enjoy what you can ... | ||
| not able to do sex several time in between short time | 1/29/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I am 30 years old unmarried male.my problem is after having sex with my partner once it took me too ... A: Two to three hours is not too bad a <b>refractory period</b>, the interval during which a male is ... | ||
| Breasts as erogenous zones | 1/29/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Do most women experience a connection between breast stimulation and sexual readiness? When ... A: The breasts are definitely an erogenous zone for females, and many males too. There is nothing ... | ||
| Dildo? | 1/29/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I just turned 18 and am just beginning to explore my sexuality. I have read lots of material and am ... A: Yes, that is the advantage to using a dildo for a sexually inexperienced woman. For many it hurts ... | ||
| Dildo? | 1/29/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I just turned 18 and am just beginning to explore my sexuality. I have read lots of material and am ... A: A dildo is apt to be a better product for a woman than a vibrator. A dildo (especially a softer, ... | ||
| Sexual intercourse | 1/26/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I want to cum hard and long A: You don't say that you're currently experiencing premature ejaculation, but even so, you can always ... | ||
| penis size | 1/24/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: plz can u tell whats the minimum size of penis that is required for good sex. currently i m 18 ... A: Men with two-inch penises can have satisfying sex. There is no stated minimum. Don't worry about ... | ||
| Erection & orgasm troubles | 1/22/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: My Penis is not hard and Em not control on myself My Cum Timing is just one mint because I'm Do ... A: Masturbating 3-5 times a day is very high, even extremely high, for any age. I suspect you would ... | ||
| it is normal not to have orgasms | 1/13/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: yes i had one before, but i was wondering if you tell me where it is loctace inside the body. ... A: It is neither normal nor abnormal for a female to not have orgasms. Many women, especially younger ... | ||
| Sniffing My Boyfriend's Penis | 1/8/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: First of all, I'm 18 years old and I don't have anything against people who have pre-marital sex but ... A: Yes, an uncircumcised male accumulates smegma under his foreskin, which is apt to develop a distinct ... | ||
| Will it fit? | 1/5/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Can most womens vaginas stretch enough to allow an erect penis in? My vaginal opening seems very ... A: Yes, the vagina can stretch to fit a baby's head. A penis, even a large one, is no problem for this ... | ||
| More pain after first time having sex? | 1/5/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I just recently had sex for the first time and I'm not going to lie, it hurt when my hymen broke. I ... A: When the hymen breaks, it is on its way to being gone. It will not grow back. Whatever pain you ... | ||
| Vagina and orgasms | 1/4/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: When a lady is mastabating and she is fingering her clit and it starts feeling nice and she becomes ... A: Orgasm is a total body experience, and sometimes the leg muscles get out of control during an orgasm ... | ||
| Performance Anxiety | 1/4/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I've been dating my current girlfriend for over two years now, and we've been having sex for over a ... A: There is no reason for performance activity. You're allowed to be as hard or soft or orgasmic or ... | ||
| Partner's legs hurt during sex | 1/3/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: To expert I would like to know is there anything my girlfriend and I can do so that her upper legs ... A: You could start by trying the female superior position and rear entry. Her legs ought not be ... | ||
| Sex and the woman's orgasm | 1/3/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Can i do sex after the girl has sqiuirted???? Will it give plesure to her???? A: Yes. Unlike males, women can continue sexual stimulation after they reach orgasm. It is usually a ... | ||
| Sex questions | 1/2/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: My boyfriend and I just started to have sex not so long ago like 2 weeks ago, it was my first time, ... A: Yes, that is fairly common when a female becomes sexually active. The important thing is to relax. ... | ||
| Partner's legs hurt during sex | 1/2/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: To expert I would like to know is there anything my girlfriend and I can do so that her upper legs ... A: I'm thinking the legs are hurting because of your weight. If she could find a position for her legs ... | ||
| Vaginal Orgasm | 12/30/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I just recently started having sex and I believe that I have yet to achieve a true orgasm. I do ... A: Be patient. You're pretty new to sex and can't expect to be doing everything perfectly right away. ... | ||
| Can Masturbation Help? | 12/29/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Can having good masturbation techniques help a woman with her ability to have good intercourse? I am ... A: Yes, absolutely masturbating can help you in intercourse. Females who have a history of being able ... | ||
| Adult Material - Online & Magazines | 12/11/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Is watching pornographic material, either online or in magazines, becoming more acceptable or is it ... A: Adult material is much more readily accessible today than in previous generations, because of the ... | ||
| Vulva Sensitivity | 12/10/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I do have a follow-up question. Are the ovaries as sensitive as the testes? It thank you for your ... A: I don't have ovaries, so I'm only commenting based on what I've heard and read. The ovaries are ... | ||
| Premature Ejaculation | 12/10/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: My question will be focused on Premature Ejaculation. First I am 35 years old I search the ... A: If you have a pharmacological solution, then go for it. I usually tell males with PE that when they ... | ||
| Vulva Sensitivity | 12/9/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: This question does not come under this particular category, but I thought that you may know the ... A: It does not hurt a woman as much, because a female's private parts are inside her body. It hurts a ... | ||
| Premature Ejaculation | 12/8/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: My question will be focused on Premature Ejaculation. First I am 35 years old I search the ... A: I am surprised that you are not asking this question in the category Premature Ejaculation, which ... | ||
| Condom use | 12/2/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I am uncut and when I attempt to roll on a condom it really pulls on the skin where the foreskin is ... A: Start by trying a larger condom that will not need as much force to apply. Lifestyles Kyng is ... | ||
| Not enjoying sex | 11/28/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Sir i am a newly married man. I use to masturbate regularly (once in a weak) and i enjoyed it. but ... A: Congratulations on getting married! Married people tend to have more and better sex than single ... | ||
| Inserting Penis and Penetrating the Vagina | 11/28/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Now, Is it true that, at the first time, when a girl has sex. Her hymen breaks, and it causes her ... A: Yes, it is true that a female will bleed when her hymen breaks. However, most females break their ... | ||
| Can a female feel when her period starts? | 11/27/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Can a female feel the semen being emptied into her vagina after a man has had his orgasm? I was ... A: Not always. Many females have been surprised to find menstrual flow dripping out of them. (It ... | ||
| Can a female feel ejaculation? | 11/25/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Can a female feel the semen being emptied into her vagina after a man has had his orgasm? I was ... A: Yes, a female can feel when a man ejaculates into her vagina, if there is no condom present, and ... | ||
| Re: Teasing | 11/24/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: well how would i go about doing that while giving her as much pleasure as possible A: Find out what she wants. If she can't have an orgasm vaginally, then work on giving her one orally ... | ||
| teasing | 11/23/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: hey i read some of ur articles and you know ur stuff so me and my girl have been 2 geather for 2 ... A: I don't think teasing is the answer. I don't think you should be looking for quick tricks. Instead ... | ||
| Female Orgasm | 11/16/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I am confused about the female orgasm. I, probably like many men, wonder if my partner is truly ... A: The things you describe are consistent with increasing female arousal. Not every woman's vagina ... | ||
| Takes too long to reach orgasm | 11/15/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Sex is great but it takes ages for me to come. I try concentrating and focusing but to no avail. ... A: Manual intercourse means your partner strokes your private parts with his hand or inserts one or ... | ||
| Takes too long to reach orgasm | 11/15/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Sex is great but it takes ages for me to come. I try concentrating and focusing but to no avail. ... A: If you're not satisfied with coitus as a means of orgasm, then I would suggest your partner bring ... | ||
| detecting male orgasm during sex | 11/12/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: how can a women tell that her male partner is ejaculating inside of her if there is no facial ... A: It is very unusual for a man to have an orgasm without making any noise. Usually his whole face ... | ||
| Giving a girl her first orgasm | 11/8/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Before a girl has an orgasm is it supposed to feel like she has to pee and the feeling should go ... A: To someone (male or female) who has never experienced orgasm, it is quite possible the feeling of ... | ||
| giving a guy good sex | 11/4/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Can you tell me what makes a girl good at sex? i know that a man is good at sex if he can get the ... A: There is no routine. There is no program I can tell you that will make every man think you're good ... | ||
| Girls that wear miniskirts make me masturbate | 10/25/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Alright, I wish their was a woman in this section that would take this question. If you know of a ... A: As you indicate you already know, I'm not a woman, but I will respond anyway. I really, really ... | ||
| Boyfriend is terrible at intercourse | 10/16/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Okay so hes 22, im 20 and I took his virginity a month ago, and dont get me wrong, hes not bad at ... A: It would be better if you told him what the problem is and not me. You seem to be the sexually ... | ||
Doug Adams
Top Expert on this page
Expertise
I am willing to answer questions in all areas of sexuality. I have been giving advice to both males and females for almost 10 years, and in that time I have answered thousands of questions. I advocate taking healthy practices into account in engaging sexually.
Experience
I have written the web site HealthyStrokes.com for almost 10 years, taking questions from both males and females on sexuality.
Education/Credentials
I have a Ph.D. in a field unrelated to sexuality from one of the leading educational institutions of the world.
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