Expert: Christian Eliab Ratnam - 8/22/2008

Question
QUESTION: Hi Christian:

I'm a 30 year old newlywed for 2 months. I was a virgin before we were married so this is new to me well 2 months old for me. I can't get enough of it. i have about 15 years of pent up sexual energy that I'm trying to burn up. Here is my problem last week I fell down the last 3 stairs in our house and wound up fracturing both bones in my lower leg. I'm in a full leg cast from the tip of my toes to almost my hip. The pain has let up the past few days and I'm looting to get back at it again. My husband has been great but is getting a bit impatient. I talked to my Dr about this and he said "if it hurts stop if not have at it" his exact words. The fracture was stable and the exercise shouldn't hurt the fractures. Do you have any Ideas as to how to archive "it" while only having use of one leg?? Oh by the way i had the ortho technician wrap the final layer in hot pink It's a total turn on for my husband!


ANSWER: Dear Susan,

    I am very much pleased that sex has become an important part of your life. Sorry about your fracture (at least the pink is turning your hubby on ;)) Well, I suggest you try positions that would require lesser leg use. Spooning would be a good option. If you don't know what exactly it is, it's a position where the both of you lie on your sides and the guy does the girl from behind (how 2 spoons look parallel to each other. It's not only a really sexy and intimate position it also pleases both parties really well as the woman would seem a lot tighter and less energy is used in the position. You can also try lying flat on your back and letting him do you from behind. That is a very pleasing position too. If all else fails...you still have oral sex. But I wish you the best time of sex and recovery!

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QUESTION: Thank you so much! We tried last night and It was a challenge I was in pain but the passion helped to cover some of it up. My Husband was a wild man. I think he has a thing for a laid up lady. We will try the spooning We just tired the way he have in the past but Not only was I in pain but this AM my husband had a big brush burn on his hip and side form the fiberglass rubbing on him. We have yet to try any sex from behind. Like I sated before I'm new to this and He is as well! Belive it or not we were both virgins when we were wed. It's hard to belive but true. As for the less energy thing, I have all kinds of energy I haven't done any thing the past week and a half but lay around the house. So any kind of position you can think of that would just require one leg let me know. I'm going to surprise him when he comes home today and let him explore.. Thank you ever so much for the reply and also if you reply to this one as well :-).

Answer
It's a pleasure to have been able to help you. There are a couple of one leg positions you can try. Especially when you are on top of him. But I believe the weight of the cast might weigh you down quite a bit. I therefore recommend that you try those positions from the back. The are sexually more stimulating and they best suit your current situation. Happy exploring. =)