Expert: Christian Eliab Ratnam - 8/22/2008

Question
Hi, I'm 18 penis is about 6inches long. I haven't had sex with my girlfriend yet but i'm a virgin and she's not. I want to know how to pleasure a girl and make her orgasm. How do i hit her G spot? Is it best to pleasure her G spot and then go for intercourse?  What positions are best for G spot stimulation. Is it better go go slow when inside her or speed up? Thanks Eric

Answer
Hi Eric, a girl's G Spot is located a few inches into her vagina. You can identify it's location by placing two or more fingers (depending on the size of her vagina) about two inches or so into her vagina. Your hands should be turned (palms and fingers facing upwards). Located close to the pubic bone, you would easily be able to identify something that feels like skin or a round walnut. That is the G Spot. Some girls have very sensitive G Spots and intercourse itself stimulates it. Whereas some girls need extra simulation to have a good orgasm. I suggest trying intercourse first. If that doesn't suffice, try stimulating it with your fingers while rubbing or licking her clitoris. From experience, the missionary position (the most common [guy on top] potion) is the best position for G Spot stimulation. As for speed, I suggest alternating between fast and slow or increasing speed as the time goes by. The safest bet is to ask the girl what she enjoys at that point of time. There is no fixed rule concerning that. Hope this helps. All the best!