Expert: Christian Eliab Ratnam - 8/30/2008

Question
my wife is 43 year old why she do not like to have sex what can i do about it. thank you

Answer
Hi Phillip,

     Well it is difficult for me to answer that question because I don't know your wife personally. However there are a few reasons why woman reject or dislike sex. 1) They do not orgasm every time they have sex. 2) It's mostly work for them. 3) They aren't totally aroused before having sex. 4) It might be painful for them (for reasons maybe only medically curable. I suggest that you talk to her about it. Ask her why she refuses to have sex with you. Have an open conversation. Tell me what the problem is, and I'll see if I can help you. I don't know the exact problem here so it is tough for me to provide you with a clear answer. You can also look at my other answers, they contain some tips on how to have great sex. You might want to take them into consideration too.