Expert: Christian Eliab Ratnam - 8/18/2008

Question
im a 17 year old female, whose sort of horny 24/7,
i can easily reach orgasm, but i cant squirt, whether i do it by myself or with my boyfriend.
i shiver n feel tense n  all, and i get exhausted, but it only comes out as i rub it.. how is it done?

Answer
Well I have some tips for your boyfriend to try out. Hope it would work for you.

  A pre-step to take before trying this method. MAKE SURE YOUR WOMAN (OR YOURSELF, LADIES) TAKE A LEAK BEFORE YOU START!! YOUR BLADDER MUST BE EMPTY. YOU WILL UNDERSTAND WHY LATER ON.

STEP 1: Make sure your woman, (or yourself, ladies) is comfortable. Maybe a little wine, soft music, or perhaps a good erotic massage, it doesn't matter just as long as she (Or yourself, ladies) is completely relaxed.

STEP 2: Do what ever it is you usually do to make your woman (or yourself, ladies)have a nice normal orgasm.(If you have problems giving your woman a regular orgasm just skip right to STEP 4).

STEP 3: Make sure you keep making her feel very comfortable, it is key!

STEP 4: Start licking your woman's clit and slide two fingers deep in her cunt. If your woman has a slightly bigger box then increase the number of fingers being used.

STEP 5: Turn said fingers so that your palm is up facing you. Ladies if you are trying to do this yourself you should have your palm against your pubic bone then bend the wrist so it points away from your body. Almost like you are making a scoop.

STEP 6: Push your fingers toward the ceiling. Ladies you want to turn your wrist like you are trying to start a motorcycle.

STEP 7: Run your fingers along this "wall", feel for a small rough area. Believe it or not it kind of feels like a walnut. She (or you) will know the spot immediately.

STEP 8: Keep rubbing, increasing the speed and pressure as you do. Don't rub too hard or

too fast right off the start. Work up to it.

STEP 9: This is probably the most important one. When you do see your woman (or feel yourself) starting to get real excited, they might tell you to (or you might want to) stop because they feel like they are about to pee. Remind them they have no pee in their bladder (if you followed the pre-step!) and tell them to

JUST RELAX and let it GO!!!!! Hope this helps.... have fun!