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I've tried anal sex with my husband befored but he can't never put it all the way in because it hurts to bad how can I not be scare or feel comfortable while he's doing it?

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Hi Maria,

The best advice I can give you (based on experience and knowledge) is to RELAX, the more tense you are, the worse it will hurt. Also, make sure to use a lot of lubricant. The first few times will hurt because your anus is a 'virgin' so to speak. After a while you will notice the pain and you'll experience a wonderful, new sensation. Enjoy!

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Gabriella

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I can answer any questions pertaining to sexuality, however, I will immediately discard inappropriate emails.

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Sexual counselor, marriage counselor

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BS Sociology, MA Psychology, LSW

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