Expert: Gabriella - 7/19/2009

Question
QUESTION: Hi, am 22yr old. I watch lot of porn videos n when i compare my penis with the porn star's i feel something wrong. Their penis head n mine is different. I think i have got skin over there. Wil it cause any problem? N also on orgasm while masterburating the semen is not getin out like a jet as in videos instead it just flows out when i squeez my penis head. Why it is so n wil it affect the sex with my partner in future?

ANSWER: Hi Renjith,

Are you circumsized? A circumsized penis will look much different at the tip than one that is not. Also, never compare yourself to what you see in a porn movie. A lot of those moves are staged and unrealistic. The way you ejaculate is normal. It will not affect sex with any future partners.

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QUESTION: Helo sir,
thx for ur fast respons..Wel u say tat the way i ejaculate is normal. But sir most of the time the semen comes out when i squeeze the foreskin. So how it wil get into the vagina of my girl n help in a baby whil intercourse? N is it necesary to circumsize? Does it hav anythin to do with my sex life? N i saw someone sayin in a forum tat the foreskin can b roled up. I tryd a lot bt i cant..Is it ok to go uncircumsized n it would b apreciatd if u could advice me to increas the amount and velocity of ejaculation. N one mor thing sir. Wil it unpleas my girl if i dont shoot the semen like a jet?

Answer
You can get circumcised at any age. I will warn you, as an adult it will be very painful to get circumcized, however, you will recover in 7-10 days. Most women enjoy a circumcised penis more than one that is not.  It is ok if you do not shoot like a jet, women cannot feel the semen when it comes out.

PS -- I am a madam, not a sir.