Expert: Gabriella - 7/11/2009

Question
I'm 20 years old and I just recently started giving bjs to my bf and I have read up about them and different styles to do so and I'm getting to be pretty good so he says. I'm a little on the heavier side and I have never let anyone go down on me and I was thinking about trying it but I have heard that some girls release their bowels or whatever when the orgasm is really good and I don't know what to expect should I ask my bf to do this what could happen as a result and if you have any advice on the bjs I would like that as well.

Answer
Hi Stacy,

I have never heard of a woman releasing her bowels during orgasm. Where did you find this information?

Ask your boyfriend to do it, it is a wonderful experience that can bring you closer. And if he's good at it, it feels great!

As for advice on blow jobs, men LOVE them (as you know). As long as you do not bite down, there is no such thing as doing them wrong. To make them more exciting, put ice in your mouth and let it melt as you are giving a bj. It adds moisture and he feels both 'cold' and 'warm' while you are doing it. Also, use your hand and rub up and down the shaft as you are performing. You can massage his testicles and rub his legs and stomach as you perform.