Expert: Gabriella - 7/29/2009

Question
So me and my girlfriend had sex.My first time and it wasnt for her...The  question im wondering about is this...The first time i had sex with her i didnt achieve an orgasm yet i felt it...A part of me felt like i held back...But the next day when we had sex i finally did cum....I didnt notice but she said that it was a lot of cum more then her other exs produced...So i was wondering is it normal to cum a lot? And for a girl to feel you cum even through a condom?

Answer
Hi Ian,

Every man is indeed different. One man can produce more semen one day than he did the day before. It just so happens you were the 'most' for her :)

And yes, a woman can feel a man cum through a condom. When a man reaches orgasm, not only does his penis momentarily swell, but he ejaculates seconds later. Sometimes a woman can feel both occasions whether he is wearing a condom or not.