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About Gabriella
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I can answer any questions pertaining to sexuality, however, I will immediately discard inappropriate emails.

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Sexual counselor, marriage counselor

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BS Sociology, MA Psychology, LSW

 
   

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How to Have Great Sex - Wondering


Expert: Gabriella - 7/29/2009

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So me and my girlfriend had sex.My first time and it wasnt for her...The  question im wondering about is this...The first time i had sex with her i didnt achieve an orgasm yet i felt it...A part of me felt like i held back...But the next day when we had sex i finally did cum....I didnt notice but she said that it was a lot of cum more then her other exs produced...So i was wondering is it normal to cum a lot? And for a girl to feel you cum even through a condom?

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Hi Ian,

Every man is indeed different. One man can produce more semen one day than he did the day before. It just so happens you were the 'most' for her :)

And yes, a woman can feel a man cum through a condom. When a man reaches orgasm, not only does his penis momentarily swell, but he ejaculates seconds later. Sometimes a woman can feel both occasions whether he is wearing a condom or not.

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