Expert: Gabriella - 7/15/2009

Question
QUESTION: Why do some females cry when they are getting 'deep throated' by a male? I don't mean due to them being upset emotionally in any way, but is there a physical reason why a penis going really deep down her throat could cause this?

ANSWER: Hi James,

I have never heard of this happening. I would assume the irritation to the throat and tonsils would cause the eyes to water, but I could not answer why they would cry. I do not believe there is a scientific answer.

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QUESTION: Ok, thanks. Also, I hope you don't mind another question but I read about giving your female partner a 'dirty sanchez' or a 'strawberry shortcake' and both ideas really excites me. But she is very reluctant to both, though not totally, she said she wants to make me happy but I want her to be too. Do you have any suggestions on how to make her more receptive to doing these? I don't want to humiliate her or anything like that. Thanks again.

Answer
Her decision to commit to these acts are a personal choice, and because of the nature of the acts, it would be hard to find a way to make her more receptive. I would suggest to ease into it during intercourse, but make sure to discuss it ahead of time so she knows to expect it.