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I can answer any questions pertaining to sexuality, however, I will immediately discard inappropriate emails.

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How to Have Great Sex - too small?


Expert: Gabriella - 7/13/2009

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Hello,
I am wondering if you can help me out with something...me and my boyfriend recently just started having sex, and I am worried I am too small for him...
When we had sex it felt really tight in there, and like he wasn't in all the way (because he couldn't fit).  Now I am a bit new to sex so this may be normal...If you could help out that would be great! Thanks!


Answer
Hi Amy,

If this was your first time having sex you will feel very tight. There really no such thing as a woman being to small or too large (despite any rumors you may have heard). Even a woman who has had a baby can be tight, depending on her genetics. If you were a virgin and your boyfriend was your first time, it will take several times to have intercourse before you feel 'not so tight' anymore and he will be able to go a little deeper. For some women it takes years before their vagina feels 'lose' (so to speak) and of course it also depends on the man's penis size. So, just hang in there. The more you and your boyfriend have sex, the more you will notice he can go deeper inside you.

I hope this helps!

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