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I can answer any questions pertaining to sexuality, however, I will immediately discard inappropriate emails.

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How to Have Great Sex - the problem with my fetish


Expert: Gabriella - 8/4/2009

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well, hi, im shan, i'd like to start off and say that i have a biting, and blood fetish. it's somewhat of a big deal to me, i can do without, but it's a major preference. the thing is, my girlfriend can bite me and scratch me all she wants, and i can have scars, bruises, and cuts everywhere, and it's no big deal because it's never seen, but when it comes to her, she bruises easy and i can't exactly go rough,and bite her hard or anything like that. so what exactly can i do in replacement to biting, or bleeding with the same crazy feeling and rush, but without? i hope im making sense. i can't really as people i know about this because their always weirded out by what turns me on and what not, so any information at all would be great.

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Hi Shan,

Since you cannot perform these acts towards her, an idea would be to hold on to something while having sex. Maybe tie a scarf or handkerchief to the bed and pull on it or bite it when you are ready. That way, nobody gets hurt and you can continue with your fetish.

Good luck!

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