How to Have Great Sex/Satisfying a woman


What should I do if I can't last long enough for my partner to have an orgasm?  It seems like it always takes women longer than me.  I can hold on a few minutes longer but cannot always make it.

Most of the time the male will reach orgasm first.  Many men prefer to satisfy their partners manually or orally before having vaginal intercourse.  That way they can enjoy relaxing together after the male has his orgasm vaginally.  Some couples do this after vaginal intercourse.  It's all up to you.  There is nothing wrong with one or the other of you if you can't have mutual orgasm vaginally.

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Doug Adams, Ph.D.


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