How to Have Great Sex/Oral sex with a virgin


Im 16 years old, and I have a horney girlfriend - she is so horney but shes virgin.
Im in love with oral sex and i want to try it with her, i want to lick her vagina! But i dont know if it possible and if she will enjoy it or not (because shes virgin), and i dont want her to loose her virginity at all!
Waiting for you answer,

ANSWER: Hello Alexander,

I don't feel quite right advising you about sex (including oral sex), as it is most likely illegal at your age where you come from.

However, I do believe everyone, including teens, should have access to good information and sex education. Here is a site for teens where you can ask questions about sex-

Thank you,

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QUESTION: No, you didnt understand me.. I just want to know if licking a virgin's vagina can make her not virgin any more. And if it doesnt make her unvirgin, does she feel it good and pleasured ?

Hello Alexander,

It depends on how you define a Virgin.  In many cultures it is defined by breaking a woman's hymen.  However, most people think any kind of sex including oral, is still sex.  So, it depends on how you, your culture, your religion, and your girlfriend define Virginity.  It is a very difficult to answer, as everyone defines it differently.

Most women get off on clitoral stimulation, whether that is oral stimulation, or by other means. It is hard to say whether your girlfriend will enjoy it or not.  That is a question only she can answer.

Thank you,

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