How to Have Great Sex/Multiple Orgasms



What prevents men from having usually only one orgasm during intercourse or masturbation?  Why can't he have multiple orgasms one after the other?  What prevents multiple orgasms for occurring?

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ANSWER: Men can have multiple orgasms, but they have to be able to separate their orgasm from ejaculation.  When a male ejaculates, he is done.  Once a male can orgasm but not ejaculate, he can have multiple orgasms and keep going and going and going.   I suggest reading the book Any Man Can by William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian to learn how to teach yourself to be multi-orgasmic.

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Okay, what prevents a man from having multiple ejaculations?  You indicated that "When a male ejaculates, he is done."  Why does this situation occur?

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When a male ejaculates, his penis rapidly goes limp and his sex organs go back to their normal states.  If a male can train himself to orgasm but not ejaculate, he can keep going until he finally does ejaculate.  That is how some men can train themselves to be multi-orgasmic.

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