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Hi, I am a girl who has been with this guy for awhile and we have had sex multiple times. I feel bad whenever he gets tired because I dont know how to get on top and..well you know what i mean but can you explain how to do it?

Great book -- by Cosmopolitan Magazine: "The Cosmo Kama Sutra".  It shows pix and says why you'll like the position.  My favorite sex position book.  Bottom line, though: he's lying down with an erection.  You sit on him with your knees bent and you put his cock into your vaginal canal.

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Robert Rubel, PhD


Great sex results from the overall approach you take with women. Great sex starts way before the bedroom. Most men are primarily interested in their own pleasure -- I specialize in ways of turning a so-so sexual experience into an extraordinary one not only with techniques but also by modifying/altering the man's approach to playing sexually with a woman.


Author of: Squirms, Screams and Squirts: Going from Great Sex to Extraordinary Sex I do a two-hour demo/workshop called "How to Pleasure a Woman." It covers mental approach, oral sex, fingering techniques, vibrators and erotic shaving.

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My other books deal with aspects of BDSM -- alternative sexuality.

BA, Univ of Colorado -- English with secondary school teaching cert. EdM, Boston University -- Urban Education PhD, Univ. of Wisconsin, Madison -- Urban Education Policy Studies with minor in criminology

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