How to Have Great Sex/masturbation

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I have been masturbating for a while now and  I always masturbate by lying on my back in bed. Are there any other positions or techniques that I could do to have a stronger and more intense orgasm?
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Answer
Gosh, masturbation positions are probably a function of your own fantasies.  Being on your back suggests, to me anyway, that you are "receiving" or in a "receiving position" rather than in a more dominant position on top looking down onto the person with whom you are having sex.

However, I'm an educational sociologist, so in that sense I can only offer you my opinion; this is not a field I've studied.  Personally, I was always on my stomach.  

Have you tried an Internet search?

Bob

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Robert Rubel, PhD

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Great sex results from the overall approach you take with women. Great sex starts way before the bedroom. Most men are primarily interested in their own pleasure -- I specialize in ways of turning a so-so sexual experience into an extraordinary one not only with techniques but also by modifying/altering the man's approach to playing sexually with a woman.

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Author of: Squirms, Screams and Squirts: Going from Great Sex to Extraordinary Sex I do a two-hour demo/workshop called "How to Pleasure a Woman." It covers mental approach, oral sex, fingering techniques, vibrators and erotic shaving.

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None relevant to this topic.

Publications
My other books deal with aspects of BDSM -- alternative sexuality.

Education/Credentials
BA, Univ of Colorado -- English with secondary school teaching cert. EdM, Boston University -- Urban Education PhD, Univ. of Wisconsin, Madison -- Urban Education Policy Studies with minor in criminology

Awards and Honors
Well, my book has been selling on Amazon mostly below the 5,000 sales rank for over two years.

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