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Hello I hope you can help me or point me in the right direction...I'm 27 yrs old and I have problems with having an orgasm.A I can only recall having an orgasmma couple of times during sex since I have started having intercourse. I have no problem getting lubricated and of course I do find my partner attractive and it feels great but I never get to the point of orgasm. Im not sure what I'm doing wrong or what is wrong with my body but could you please give me some advice? Thank you so much for your time.

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Are you able to reach orgasm while masturbating?  Most women find it easier to reach orgasm on their own.  Then they can help their partner bring them to orgasm.  It is much more difficult to teach a partner to help you orgasm if you can't do it by yourself.  To learn more about female masturbation, see http://www.healthystrokes.com/female.html.

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Doug Adams, Ph.D.

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I am willing to answer questions in all areas of sexuality. I have been giving advice to both males and females for over 13 years, and in that time I have answered thousands of questions. I advocate taking healthy practices into account in engaging sexually.

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I have written the web site HealthyStrokes.com for over 13 years, taking questions from both males and females on sexuality.

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