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Question I am a woman of 28 years, I am married to a very wonderful husand,I want to be able to satisfy my husband when it come to sex, each time i tried i guess my best is not good enough, though my husband is not complaning, Please tell what to do to be able to satisy my husband
Answer GIVING A MAN PLEASURE
(1) Be yourself, (2) don't hold back, and (3) ask him what he likes. If communication is open between the two of you, you can find out exactly what he likes. Because nobody knows his turn ons and fantasies as well as he knows them himself.
Giving a man pleasure during sex is even more complex than giving a woman pleasure: there are so many different men, with so many different turn-ons that the single best piece of advice will always be to talk to your man, get to know what he likes and dislikes, and get him to open up to you about how you could make sex mindblowing for him.
Very important is that you have to GET HIM TO TELL YOU THOSE FANTASIES... be open minded about it and expect the worst - some people are into all kinds of kinky things - it could be something simple like your feet or your ass, it could be more depraved like violence, death, blood, S&M, or it could be very basic like doing it outdoors, or female domination, I mean, just expect the worst and don't hate him for being turned on by whatever it is that turns him on. If you make him feel comfortable with his sexuality, he'll tell you what he likes.
Once you've done that, and tried all of the things he's told you, if it still doesn't work, the following things do it for a lot of men:
Pre-sex/foreplay...
Dress really sexy. Find out what he thinks is sexy. Every man has their own tastes. If you think you're sexy, you probably are. But a lot of men like: High heels, thigh high boots, lingerie, thongs, uniforms, stockings, ganter belts, glistening oil all over you, heavy slutty make-up, leather, latex, these are some of the things that drive many men crazy. If you dress up like that and more importantly ACT very sexual, very forward and dominant, very demure with bedroom eyes and fluttering eyelashes and pouty lips, very horny, very seductive, that will be a fantastic prelude to great sex. You will make him want to attack you. Wear some or all of the sexy things during sex. High heels, boots and thongs work especially well in turning boys on during sex.
Sometimes games work well: pretend to be a whore soliciting him for business. Or perhaps a nurse, or a teacher, or some other such fantasy scenario. Rape fantasies and incestuous fantasies are often popular with more daring and deviant types.
Acts of foreplay work well. Great blowjobs (like the one I described earlier), handjobs, licking him in nasty places (as nasty as you can imagine), fingering his backdoor, or just simple things like sucking his nipples (lots of men don't like this) or licking and sucking his ear, especially inside (you'll be surprised how turned on he gets if you do it right)...
Having him do things to you - MAKING him do things to you - can be wonderful for men who like dominant women. Most men have an element of that. Try telling him how hot you are, how amazing your body is. Make him watch you while you strip, or do a stripper-style dance for him. Tease him as much as you can. Push his head to your pussy and make him lick you. Push his face into your sexy ass. Try smothering his face with your breasts, pushing them together, or sitting on his face, or making him suck your toes and lick your legs and back. Maybe spit in his mouth - lots of guys like that - but do it in a girly way.
Then there's also telling him how hot HE is and how great HE is in bed - that is good for egotistical, arrogant types who get turned on by having their ego stroked.
During the act itself... you could try fucking him back (moving with him, slamming your pussy against his cock), try lots of eye contact, try talking dirty to him. Tell him about how good it feels and all the things you want him to do to you. On the other hand some men prefer women who just lay there and let the man use their bodies, while also moaning and being really into it. Ask him what he likes.
Tell him your fantasies while he's fucking you. Tell him about other girls (guys love girls who talk about other women during sex) and about how he's better than all the others who fucked you (if he's an ego-tripper). Talk to him about all the nasty things that you know HE likes too.
One thing that works well is kegles. You know, the exercises that girls do with their pelvic muscles. Try doing them while he's fucking you. If you're good, he'll really feel them. Be careful, they might even make him cum. You may be able to control his pleasure with your own expert pussy control.
When you're in missionary, you can do things with your legs that drive him crazy. Try wrapping them around him, squeezing him with them. Hurt him a little - he'll probably like it. Also, putting your legs wide in the air, up on his shoulders, or best of all behind your head can be very very sexy. Stroke his chest with your feet, if he likes them, put them in his mouth. That will drive him crazy while he's fucking you if he likes that sort of thing. Play with your clitty and get yourself off, while his cock's in you. Pinch your nipples and push yor titties together.
In doggie, act like an animal, throw your head back. Let loose with the noise, don't hold anything back. Bend your legs and look back at him if you can. If you dare, make him fuck your ass. At the least, tell him to lick it. This will intensify his doggie experience. If you wanna be nasty as anything, and if he likes nasty girls, when he's fucking your ass make him bring his cock round and put in in your mouth, suck it clean, then put it back in your ass. That's what the girls in the movies do, and the boys love it. You can also reach back and play with his balls as they swing, or even better, play with your clitty to increase your orgasms.
When you're riding him, try doing the splits on his cock. Guys love that. Also, use him for your orgasms. Just bounce up and down on him and get yourself off. If he loves you, he'll love that. You can try sitting on his face, then on his cock, and alternating.
Finally, I recommend ass play. SO many nerves are in the anal area, that if you play with, lick, tease, or finger his ass, especially during sex (if he's open minded) it will probably drive him CRAZY. The sopt just above the hole (towards the balls) and inside the hole heading in the same direction is known as the PROSTATE gland, aka the male g-spot and will drive him insane. When he's turned on, it feels better than anything. Play with his backdoor while you're fucking or sucking him, and watch him explode. You don't have to be too rough with it, but some guys like it that way.
Speaking of being rough, some guys like it when girls bite, scratch, spit on, smother, squash, slap and generally hurt them while getting off on them. Hurt him if he likes it. Similarly, many guys like to slap girls around, fuck them really really hard (abusively, almost), and cum on their face, etc... if you like being dominated and thoroughly ravaged in such ways, make sure you let him know, so he knows he can go all out with you; he may want to but may be worried that you're not into that. Not all guys are either dominant or submissive: the healthiest relationships are often when both partners like to play both roles and some in between. Variation is the key: communication is vital.
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