About Jonathan Expertise I will field questions on human sexuality to include heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality, lesbianism, sex therapy, fetishes, abberations, perversions, adultery and fantasies.
Question Hi.
I would like your view on threesomes. I've told my wife that it is my fantasy to have a threesome with her and another woman.
She is all for it if we can find another woman. Can you give me any tips on how I can make it pleasurable for her, me and another woman-provided that I find another woman.
Thanks
Answer If a man loves his wife and his wife loves him then neither would want ot share their marriage partner with a third person. I advise against it for these reasons. You may be awakening a hidden aspect of homosexuality in your wife and there may be a secondary relationship that develops between your wife and the third person. You also open up the marriage to disease that could result in all of your deaths or lifelong disease. It is also better to have a fantay that is never fulfilled. Whenever a fantay is fulfilled we are likely to feel diappointed. Since the thought is what excites us not the actual fulfillment of the fantasy. Its like there is nothing to strive for or imagine anymore. It may sound tempting but it will not help either of you. Depending upon your age you both need to get involved in a church which you are probably not into now. Learn why what you are thinking about is wrong and what the consequences may be. No one who has ever committed adultery has gotten away without getting burned. And this is adultery, you are bringing someone else into your marriage bed. The marriage bed is to be undefiled. You may not accept that or the idea of getting involved in a bible believing or bible preaching type church but the practical issues remain. Your marriage could break up or cause a strain , distrust, disease etc. Its just not worth it.
