Expert: Sara V. - 6/13/2006

Question
Hey, me and my friend both want to know how to make gus come quickly, when giving head it takes ages for them to come and i end up with jaw ache, etc we just want to know if there is a simple way during oral sex to make them finish quicker! thanks x

Answer
Hi Emily,

There is no one sure fire way but I do have some ideas for you.

First you must be enthuastic, guys love it when you like giveing head, your enthusiasm for the oral sex is more important to him then the actual technique. So the next time you go down on him, take his manhood in your mouth as if it were your favorite treat in the universe. Inform him of your eagerness by saying, "I can't wait to go down on you" as you unzip his pants, or "You taste so good" as you're sampling the goods. Sexy eye contact is also key, a guy can get lonely up there by himself and soon starts to wonder if you're having fun down there. So don't forget to give him an animalistic glance or two while you're downtown.

Second you need to find the most sensitive area of his penis. For most men the most sensitive area will be the point where the ring (or corona) of the head and the foreskin are attached Or were attached prior to his circumcision. Place your lips around the head of your partner's cock and twirl your lips wetly and gently around the coronal ridge at the back of the head of his penis. This does not require any great cocksucking skill and it works simply because this is the area that is most sensitive on his cock. It is important to for you to find the most sensitive area around the coronal area. Be seductive. Remember, there's no such thing as too much saliva; it should be lubrication for your hand. Your hand should act an as an extension to your mouth; make sure when you're going down with your mouth, your hand's going the same way. Keep a rhythm. Always use your free hand to cup his balls and gently caress them. Suck gently and make sure your tongue is moving the entire time. By sucking on this area of his cock continuously you will produce a quick powerful orgasm.  If that doesn’t work another technique is to pay more attention to the balls, guys love this, After pumping up and down for a while, move to his balls. Lick them, suck them (NO BITING) while jacking him off. In one motion lick up from his balls, all the way up the shaft and deep throat. That's one they always like. Another good move is to penetrate your mouth with his dick. Close your lips tight around your teeth and slowly push his dick in your mouth.

Good luck

Sara V
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