Expert: Maggie - 12/31/2006

Question
ok i dont need help with knowing how to have sex i am doing good but my boyfriend can go forever it takes him like 3hr to cum i love it lots but sometimes we dont have the time can you help me to cute down the time of geting him in  

Answer
Hi,

Thanks for your question.

Problems ejaculation can be caused by a lot of things. when this is not due to a physical problem or a medication problems (some drugs can impair ejaculation) then you've got to rule out the psychological causes of it. This is generally the most frequent causes of retarded ejaculation. Is he able to ejaculate after a reasonable amount of time when he masturbates or is the problem there also ? Psychological causes of it are even more likely if that's something you boyfriend only experience when he has sex with you.

Has your boyfriend had any bad sexual experiences in the past ? Is he worried about getting you pregnant, is he worried about something in particular ? Those are two of the questions he first have to ask himself.

This might help also getting help from his doctor if this is something he's been having a problem with for a long time now. The doctor would be a great help. This is really not something to be ashmaed of. That's something doctors are confronted everyday to.

(I'd really appreciate if you could please rate my answer. Thanks !)

Mag.