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do men prefer women with golden shiny hair?
i know this is strange, but do men prefer women with golden shiny hair? is that what's considered pretty? i noticed that even when men like brunettes, they do not want a pitch black brunette, they want golden brown. i have ugly pitch black draining hair colour and NO ONE ever wanted. no one. in fact i am quite ugly no matter what i do.i have no sense of beauty.


Men prefer women with beautiful character, a sense of humor and self appreciation. By you thinking that your hair is the reason why men are not attracted, is a silly notion. I am married twice and both times I picked a mate based on values, not the color of her hair. I would tell you that personal hygiene has been more a turn on for me, than hair color. A woman who takes care of herself is a bigger plus than the shiny tresses of hair color. I would be curious to see what you look like and why you are in such self doubt.
Work on your smile, your approach and don't be someone who wants to love a man, be a woman that a man wants to love. And by the way....blondes, don't always have more fun!


P.S. Black hair can be quite sexy, ask millions of beautiful Asian women!Real beauty begins within!

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I started as a young assistant at Vidal Sassoon in 1982 and got the training that has always sustained me throughout my professional life. I first became involved in hair color in the mid 80s when I realized that my passion for painting was a vehicle understanding hair color. I joined the industry of hair color teaching and began a career as a platform artist in 1991. The next 25 years, took me across the USA and North America doing all hair shows, demonstrations on both hair cutting and hair coloring. I went from regional education, to national, eventually crossing into North America and being promoted as the USA Artistic Director for It&lyhairfashion, N.A. My hair salon is an award-winning destination for hair expertise, and I am proud to say that I have one of the most elite hair expert teams working for me.

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