Question Doctor,
May be this question is not related to your but you can suggest me you idea thereof.
I have a situation here, i have a baby named juveria, she is 1.5 year old and she is very attach to her mother and me, well my wife left to delivery to the home country, here is the problem doctor, juveria will not stay with any body for a hour she need her mother around her, the delivery of my wife is next month and during the delviery juveria suppose to stay away from her mother for atleast 3 days, since the hospital will not allow kids with their mother, so please advice what should i do in such circumstance neither she stay with other nor mother can keep her in hospital, nor i'm avaialbe with her, please and please if you advice i shall be glad to you.
Answer There are some hospitals that will let the family stay with the mother or near the mother. Can you find a different hospital that would allow the family to stay with the mother. Are there any relatives that your child feels close to? Does your child have a doll or toy or blanket and remineds her of the mother. Is there something from the mother that has the sent of the mother that may relax her. Is there any music that you can play that will relax your daughter? Will leaving a small light on in the room she stays will sometimes help. If you believe in a god, I would also pray for guidance as this is a very difficult problem.
