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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| How Do I Get Over This Crush?!? | 1/30/2012 | Dan |
| Q: My problem isn't that massive, but its been on my mind for a while! So here it goes; Well I'm in ... A: Heya, Well, I don't think there's really any simple way to get over a crush. You just leave it for ... | ||
| Moving Away, Should I??? | 1/1/2012 | Dan |
| Q: My father is in the military and we could be going overseas next year. The only issue is that he ... A: Heya, Believe me, I know what you're talking about. I was born an American in Germany to two ... | ||
| am i the only girl who loves perverted guys? | 12/13/2011 | Jason |
| Q: hey, i'm a 17 year old girl and i think i'm like the only girl who loves perverted guys! i know i'm ... A: Honestly its not weird people have certain things that they are attracted to everyone is different. ... | ||
| Complicated friendships | 12/10/2011 | Alex |
| Q: Hey! I'm 13. well,i have a big group of friends, there are 6 of us. recently i have started to get ... A: Thats a sticky situation. You can do a few things, you can break off from the group and still hang ... | ||
| how many different dicks does the average girl suck during high school? | 12/2/2011 | Alex |
| Q: i'm 13 years old and i'm a girl and this is my 1st year in high school and i have kind of a weird ... A: I did find some but first let me explain something. This is pretty wrong for more than one reason. ... | ||
| confused | 11/12/2011 | Jason |
| Q: ..BAM we had 1 slight misunderstanding and we ain't been talking since and the worst part is that my ... A: Well I don't know what the misunderstanding is but some people just need time to think about things ... | ||
| Nervous about going to college | 11/12/2011 | Jason |
| Q: I got accepted into college and Im leaving in July.I live with my mom and we are extremely close. I ... A: Honestly College is the perfect time to evaluate who you want to be, If you want to be more social ... | ||
| Nervous about going to college | 11/12/2011 | Dan |
| Q: I got accepted into college and Im leaving in July.I live with my mom and we are extremely close. I ... A: Heya, Honestly, don't worry! I was pretty terrified when I first left for college as well, but ... | ||
| Nervous about going to college | 11/12/2011 | Alex |
| Q: I got accepted into college and Im leaving in July.I live with my mom and we are extremely close. I ... A: I definitely know the feeling. I'm nervous for college as well. But so is everyone else who arrives ... | ||
| Friend | 11/8/2011 | Jason |
| Q: SO, my friend Haylei just told me that she has had oral sex with her boyfriend and she doesn't know ... A: yea most teenagers are sexually active around this time just make sure shes on the pill when she ... | ||
| Please help I don't know how to grind! | 11/1/2011 | Jason |
| Q: Please help me! I'm 13 years old and in grade 8 and my high school dance is coming up in December ... A: alright well Id go for the booty shaking grind, don't worry about feeling slutty, because unless you ... | ||
| how do i know if my friends with benefits likes me back? | 10/28/2011 | Alex |
| Q: i'm 17 and me and my best friend are "friends with benefits" and we have sex almost every day. but ... A: A big show of affection from guys is if they want to kiss and such like you mentioned with how he ... | ||
| how do i know if my friends with benefits likes me back? | 10/28/2011 | Jason |
| Q: i'm 17 and me and my best friend are "friends with benefits" and we have sex almost every day. but ... A: Maybe you should just ask him, I mean if you feel a connection then ask. If you know for sure that ... | ||
| how do i know if my friends with benefits likes me back? | 10/28/2011 | Dan |
| Q: i'm 17 and me and my best friend are "friends with benefits" and we have sex almost every day. but ... A: Well, all you can really do is ask him. You can flirt with him, see if he responds, but honestly I ... | ||
| how do i know if my friends with benefits likes me back? | 10/28/2011 | Lailyn |
| Q: i'm 17 and me and my best friend are "friends with benefits" and we have sex almost every day. but ... A: That's a little something right there, how he looks at you. Does he lighten up when around you? Does ... | ||
| Depression/fear | 10/28/2011 | Alex |
| Q: I'm terrified because a boy that I used to know in 8th grade just transferred back to my school. I ... A: I understand the way you felt, I too have experienced those types of thoughts, but if you ever have ... | ||
| Flirting teacher | 10/22/2011 | Alex |
| Q: Is it wrong for a teacher to flirt with an 18 yr old student? My teacher is 27 and Im 18 and he ... A: If a much older man makes advances like these and they aren't wanted, you have to say something ... | ||
| Flirting teacher | 10/22/2011 | Lailyn |
| Q: Is it wrong for a teacher to flirt with an 18 yr old student? My teacher is 27 and Im 18 and he ... A: First off, the age gap is very wide. He has a lot more life experience than you do. After having ... | ||
| Flirting teacher | 10/22/2011 | Jason |
| Q: Is it wrong for a teacher to flirt with an 18 yr old student? My teacher is 27 and Im 18 and he ... A: Hey Danielle, First off wow, this is a pretty weird situation. Id say hes probably serious, ... | ||
| Flirting teacher | 10/22/2011 | Dan |
| Q: Is it wrong for a teacher to flirt with an 18 yr old student? My teacher is 27 and Im 18 and he ... A: Heya, That's definitely not OK and you should report him. If you don't want to get him in trouble, ... | ||
| Hi | 10/11/2011 | Alex |
| Q: I'm female, 13 and in grade 9. I've seen this boy around school and i think he's 1 year older than ... A: Well you could go about it a few ways. One way is you could be very blunt and up front about it with ... | ||
| Hi | 10/10/2011 | Alex |
| Q: I'm female, 13 and in grade 9. I've seen this boy around school and i think he's 1 year older than ... A: Hey, thanks for asking. Although you say you're too shy to go up to this guy. I know it can be ... | ||
| Convinsing a friend | 9/26/2011 | Alex |
| Q: Alright, so start off, my high school's homecoming is this Saturday and a whole bunch of my friends ... A: Well, if she doesn't want to go you really can't make her but the way that I would try to convince ... | ||
| invisable | 9/13/2011 | Jason |
| Q: i would really apricate it if you could help me. First of all i have a slight lisp, and im a 15 ... A: Hey, don't ever be afraid to be yourself, you have to realize not everyone is gonna like you but the ... | ||
| Avg Teenager Mentality | 9/7/2011 | Lailyn |
| Q: I am 20 years old male, living in Bangladesh. I am curious to know, and I am also doing an ... A: Sorry for the late reply--I've been busy. 1- "Average" is quite a tricky word isn't it. See there's ... | ||
| gym class | 8/29/2011 | Alex |
| Q: I am a 14 year old female going into 9th grade, and I am really uncooridinated. Like REALLY ... A: Even if you are as uncoordinated as you claim, don't worry, not everyone is the next Lebron James. I ... | ||
| question | 8/27/2011 | Alex |
| Q: Is being a quit guy seen as a pushover around other guys ? just wondering because i quit A: Well for me, when I am with a quiet kid I generally think they make the situation awkward, but thats ... | ||
| Advice | 8/23/2011 | Alex |
| Q: This year I am determined to change all this but worry I might fail to do so. What is your advice ... A: The best thing you can do to excel in school both socially and mentally is to leave all of your ... | ||
| hello | 8/22/2011 | Lailyn |
| Q: Should I stay true to who I am or who I want to be? I have always been a tomboy who would wear the ... A: You should always stay true to who you are--deep inside--and aim for who you want to be. Of course, ... | ||
| Confused | 8/16/2011 | Dan |
| Q: Ok, so I was on this band trip with lots of my good friends, including one girl who had been my ... A: Heya, Well I'm not too sure, but it sounds like she was just confused. She wasn't sure what she ... | ||
| question | 8/8/2011 | Jason |
| Q: Why does this dud pick on me ? ok this dud in my bio class keeps messing with me i don't even no him ... A: Jake, Listen man there are always gonna be guys who are insecure or jealous. Thats what it seems ... | ||
| Gonna be a freshman | 7/31/2011 | Alex |
| Q: I'm going to be a freshman in less than a month, and I'm already involved in colorguard, oral ... A: Well being a freshman you probably will not have the ability to know which assignments you do not ... | ||
| boys | 7/23/2011 | Lailyn |
| Q: This boy has asked me out 4 times and I said no because my mom told me to and now he is not ... A: I don't know how old you are, but your mom must have a good reason for refusing to let you date him. ... | ||
| Im afraid of this next school year what should i do? | 7/11/2011 | Alex |
| Q: Im going to be a sophomore next year. My freshmen year was great until February hit. I gave my ... A: Once again, you said 'why me' and its really not your fault, you fell in love with the wrong person, ... | ||
| Im afraid of this next school year what should i do? | 7/11/2011 | Alex |
| Q: Im going to be a sophomore next year. My freshmen year was great until February hit. I gave my ... A: First of all, you have some really shitty friends. You seem to be blaming this all on yourself, you ... | ||
| Im afraid of this next school year, what should i do? | 7/8/2011 | Haley |
| Q: Im going to be a sophomore next year. My freshmen year was great until February hit. I gave my ... A: Wow, you really have been through a lot. :/ I was a freshman last year too, and I actually went ... | ||
| hi alex | 7/6/2011 | Alex |
| Q: I have more questions to ask you about friends 1. What is the whole point of having friends ... A: There are many points to having friends. For some, its the vanity of it. That is, some people want ... | ||
| State of Mentability | 6/29/2011 | Lailyn |
| Q: Whenever someone makes a comment that I find offensive to myself (which may not actually be meant to ... A: This is part of your personality, and it is great that you want to improve yourself! I don't know ... | ||
| Don't know what to do with a guy | 6/29/2011 | Dan |
| Q: I really dont know what to do with this guy i use to like in my old school. Around 8 months ago i ... A: Heya, Haha yeah it is, actually! Right now I'm spending six months in China and I've met a girl ... | ||
| new school. new crush | 6/27/2011 | Haley |
| Q: Im a 16 year old female. Junior in high school. When school starts back in August I will be ... A: You should text him, contact him on Facebook, something over the summer to see if you have ... | ||
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I'm going into my Senior year now in High School and in my High School years I've had to deal with tough courses, being an outcast, finding new friends, dealing with pressure to take drugs and drink, dealing with depression (of my mothers family I know 80% of them suffer from depression including myself), parents divorcing (mine are currently going through the process), and relationship issues whether they be romantic relationships or something like losing a best friend so I can answer questions on those areas. I can also answer questions that pertain to the college search because I have been looking for colleges all over the East and West coast.
My experience is going to an all boys Catholic high school, coming from public middle school, being an outcast my freshman year and coming into Sophomore finding many new great friends and then struggling to find my meaning during Junior year due to the situations I was put through. I also have dealt with depression, not being athletically gifted, finding activities I love, dealing with people harassing me, coping with my parents divorcing and having a brother who adds to the stress of that, having a family that as long as I could remember had never gotten along with each other or each other's families, and balancing school work with working and activities.
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