High School Life/help?

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Hi,
I'm 14 years old and currently in high school. I don't go to school any more though because of something that happened a year back. Being of school for so much time I'm losing out on education, social life and getting myself and my parents into so much trouble!
A year ago, after I lost my gran who I was really close to I started mixing with the wrong crowd, drinking and taking drugs. I fell pregnant and it got around the full school, now I have a reputation I can't seem to get rid off. I don't know what to do because anytime I try and go into school I can't seem to build up enough confidence to do so.
Help !?

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Heya

Well is there any way you could change schools?  That's always the easiest option.

But seriously, you should just not care what people think.  I mean, honestly, why do you care if these people think you're a badass?  I mean, it's better than being bullied 'cause you're a wimp, right?  There are worse things to be made fun of.  It really doesn't matter what those kids think anyways.  You can always rebuild your reputation.  I mean, the majority of the people don't know you, right?  All they've heard is rumours, but when you go back you can prove to them that you're a cool person.

So don't sweat it.  Just be really friendly and open.

Good luck!
Dan

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Finishing off my second year of Uni, I have been through it all. High school wasn't very long ago and it had a huge impact on my life- for the better, definitely. I can answer anything from relationship problems to self image issues. I have been to many schools and I know how hard it is to make friends and want nothing more than to be accepted. I've learned patience and acceptance and I just want to help you guys out in any way I can =) Ask away!

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I have been a camp counselor several times in the past. Whenever some of the kids I was looking after had a problem they came to me to help work it out.

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Not really religious, but I help out the community church down the road by playing saxophone and piano for them whenever they put on a production. Montreal Chess Association, College Basketball Team.

Education/Credentials
High School Diploma, Various Language and History Awards, Currently working on a Bachelor's Degree.

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I'm an Honor Role student and I received the top academic award for my grade in my senior year (the Dux award).

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