About Tyler Expertise I can answer all questions pertaining to high school life, ranging from academics to sex (and everything in between). I will refuse to answer nonsense questions and questions from those who do not type in proper English.
Experience I'm a graduating high school senior, and I'm a go-to guy for all high school issues among my fellow classmates. I am somewhat of a teenage Dr. Phil.
Organizations Vocal Express, National Honor Society, Honor Roll, Principal's List
Education/Credentials Graduating senior of SWR High School, current admitted student to State University of New York at Geneseo for International Relations.
Awards and Honors Honor Roll, Principal's List, Excellence in Theatre, Outstanding Student in Environmental Science, SWRTA Scholarship
Question Im 16 years old and I swore I wont evr look for love evr again, however im gonna let it look for me insted. The reason for this is because I had a long and painful history of tryin to start a relationship with girls. Needless to say, I faild evrytime and fell in a downward spiral of depression. Weirdly, my lifes gotten better after makin dat promis to myself. Without dat pressure on me its been easier for to communicate with others. Yet, I still get a lil down wen I see a happy couple together and start to question my promise. I didnt tell anyone about this cuz im a lil afraid of their opinion. Wat do you think?
Answer Juan,
What you're doing is completely normal. Actually, after my last girlfriend I told myself the same thing and it's working wonders for me--I'm not actively looking for a woman to date, and it makes me much more comfortable with people and gives me a chance to practice flirting with any ulterior motive.
I don't see anything wrong with not looking for love, Juan. Maybe not forever, but I can perfectly understand not looking for love for a while.