About Mollee Expertise I can answer almost any questions about high school life. I've been through most of it, the good, the bad, and the ugly, and I would love to help you through it as well. Questions about high school drama, boys, girls, classes, relationships, what to do in certain situations, I'd be happy to answer them all.
Question Hey Mollee,
I am a 14 year old girl in the 8th grade, and over the summer, I went to a camp where I met a guy I started to really like. He liked me back, and as things turned out, he went to my school but was a grade below me. So we started dating, but we ended badly due to his immaturity. He broke up with me at a school dance in September, and he didn't even do it himself - he had his best friend do it for him. He didn't even give me a legit reason, either. He started prank calling me many times a day, and eventually stopped when I got a new phone. I started dating a new guy in October, but I broke up with him a few weeks ago because we never saw each other. Throughout the past 8 months, even when I was dating my other boyfriend, I found myself still thinking about my ex, even though he was such a jerk. I don't know why I miss him, but I do - in a way - and I still look for him in the hallways and try to walk past him when I can. Am I STILL not over him yet? What should I do about it?
Answer Hey :] okay so first of all one thing that i would advise you strongly against throughout middle school and high school is for you to date younger. A girl dating down grades almost NEVER works, because in middle school and high school one year can make a HUGE difference in a guys maturity level, especially in dating. Girls (for the most part) are a little bit more mature than teenage guys so for guys dating down works, but for girls, it usually just wont last or end well. Second Cardinal rule: if it didn't work out the first time, it WONT work out again, thats basically a 99.9% guarantee, and you'll definitely see more and more examples of this throughout high school. so this guy is DEFINITELY a no go. but i know as far as the female psyche goes,me telling you that this guy is something that you should definitely stay away from, wont help you to stop thinking of him. So here's a fews things that might: a) is staying completely busy, this is almost surefire. Keeping busy with your friends, usually can makes you forget about a guy ESPECIALLY if other guys are involved, meaning, GO AND FIND SOME HOT BOYS TO FLIRT WITH :] nothing has to be serious, trust me things will get serious soon enough. In the meanwhile just flirt your ass off, you'll find there are way better guys. and b) is HIGH SCHOOL.you have only a few months until you start going to high school. And trust me, high school is a WHOLE new ball game. you wont waste on second of thought on this guy once you hit high school, i promise :] I hope this helped.
