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I can answer almost any questions about high school life. I've been through most of it, the good, the bad, and the ugly, and I would love to help you through it as well. Questions about high school drama, boys, girls, classes, relationships, what to do in certain situations, I'd be happy to answer them all.

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High School Life - girlfriend problems


Expert: Mollee - 5/29/2009

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I have a hard time getting a girlfriend in person.I hate being alone all the time. I'm a really shy and quiet person. I'm not funny, strong, or extremely smart. No girl ever had a crush on me or anything like that. I think I'm really ugly because of that. What can I do?

Answer
Well, the least attractive thing in a guy to almost every girl is having no self-confidence. That seems to be your problem. you dont necessarily have to befunny strong or smart, although all of those help. If you exude self confidence, then girls will be WAYYYYmore attracted to you, i  promise. Your spending your time focusing on things that you're not, which is a total debbie downer. You need to find the good things about you and focus on that, and if you reaaly really really dont think you have good things about you, then create them. If you spend all your time thinking about how you werent born any of these things instead of spending your time bettering yourself to be some of these things, then you might never get a girl. Make yourself a better person (not even physically, even though that usually helps, but mentally) then girls will definitely take notice. Even if we seem conceited and shallow, all of us on the inside are looking for something thats wayyyyyyyy more than skin deep, trust me. I hope this helps. oh yeah, and p.s., even if you think your physically ugly, a guy that dresses fly, even if hes ugly, catches a girls eye, and quickly.

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