Expert: Mollee - 5/10/2009

Question
My best friend is the "high school whore". I am totally in love with her but i just can't deal with her lifestyle of drinking and sleeping with a different guy every weekend. How do I get over her

Answer
Well, first things first. Does this girl know that you are in love with her? If not then perhaps that is the reason that she behaves the way she behaves. She could feel the same way about you and think that it is unrequited, which would lead her to do the things she does. But if she does know, and you're absolutely positive she doesn't feel the same, my best advice to you would be to cut off any sort of relationship with her. You're never going to get over her if you remain best friends with her. As much as it may hurt both of you, she'll probably understand. Thats going to be the best way to get over her. But if you really want to know if she has feelings for you then act the same way she does. sleep with other girls every weekend, trust me if she really likes you then she'll pay attention, fast. hope this helps.