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High School Life - Okay your a dude right!?


Expert: Tyler - 6/3/2009

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well, i had a boyfriend who was wonderful....he was nice he gave me space you know i came first...for a while. Well, he told me he "loved me" (in quotes because i hate that word) but anywho...when he told me i said yup..uh huh me too. then the following week, i told that i felt bad for saying that and explained that i wasn't comfy using it..i thought he understood! but then he started thinking that older girls were more important than me and i don't say anything when they bother me if its a drama thing....but anywho it went on and on for a while and then he told me he loved me again and i said you too. then he said that we have been going out for so long and i would never hurt you and all this other crap! a week later he dumped me....do you think its because i wouldn't tell him i loved him...and i don't know what to do we don't talk anymore and we were best friends...do you think you could help or no?
                thank you,
                    Just really confuzled

Answer
Sarah,

If this situation happened with me, I know I would be hurt by a girl not reciprocating the feeling I verbally expressed to her.  Furthermore, your ex-boyfriend probably began to think that you were lying to him because you readily said that you loved him and then recanted it later.

I personally can't help you because I'm not in your life.  However, I can tell you that you'll need to move on from him.  The way he's reacting is not worth your attention when you can find better.

Cheers,
Tyler

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