AboutDan Expertise Being a senior in high school, I have been through it all. High school's been the best and worst years of my life. I can answer anything from relationship problems to self image issues. I have been to many schools and I know how hard it is to make friends and want nothing more than to be accepted. I've learned patience and acceptance and I just want to help you guys out in any way I can =)
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Experience I have been a camp counselor several times in the past. Whenever some of the kids I was looking after had a problem they came to me to help work it out.
Organizations Not really religious, but I help out the community church down the road by playing saxophone and piano for them whenever they put on a production.
Education/Credentials I'm a senior in high school and therefore have first hand knowledge of the subject.
Awards and Honors I'm an Honor Role student and I received the top academic award for my grade last year (the Dux award).
Question my friend Chelsea always have been close 2 me always came
over and all that BFFs do, until he parents decided to lie
and screw things up.
before the middle of march Chelsea always came over every
other weekend, hugging me a lot and talking to me a ton. her
mom and dad were from my point of view and what Chelsea said
liked me and liked me coming over. but that day everything
turned her mom thought we were kissing and doing really
weird things. and we weren't!! the next time i went over
Chelsea and i has some ice cream and we sat on the couch in
the living room, her dad was behind us at the table this is
where everything got worse... chelsea droped some ice cream
on my arm on accident and i said ewww but i took it off.
but her dad told chelsea to move on the other side of the
room, he thought that chelsea was licking me ear and we do
not do anything like that. so i went outside and i tryed
talking 2 chelsea in the backyard and when i came back in
and went back to teh living room i saw that her dad was
following us around like we are doing bad things. then
before i left i asked why he did all that and he said hes
trying to protect her. and all i told him "from what? her
best friend?" and i left.
iv been there once more after that and everyone was so quit
and looking like they didnt want me there. nobody hardly
talked like they used to and i felt like i wasnt wanted.
ever since then chelsea has been pushing me off when i hug
her, barely talks to me anymore, cant come over anymore at
all, leaves school for home right when the bell rings for
school to be over, she also kept telling me about how many
more days before schools over like she wants something and
some other things that i cant think of right now. it seems
like shes pushing me away and i told her a lot of times to
talk to her parents about it and get them to understand but
she kept doing that in bits and peices like she doesnt care.
I told a couple of my fiends and some say she has been
brainwashed and i dont know what to do! i miss her so much
and everything reminds me of her and makes me cry. i dont
know what to do anymore. please help me
thank you
Answer Hey
Well if I were you I'd have a serious talk with her. Tell her how much your friendship means to you and that she needs to talk with her parents and if she doesn't soon then your friendship might be ruined. If she's worth being your friend then she'll listen.
