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I've been like a year at my school, but because I'm so quiet and shy I haven't made close friends yet. I really want to change that and want to be more open to my classmates. What should I do?

Hi Hanna!

You seem like a nice person, all you have to do is be friendly!  You don't necessarily need to be really proactive and out there, but be open to your classmates, smile a lot, basically just show that you're not a closed person.  It doesn't matter if you're quiet or shy, as long as people can see that you're a friendly, warm person, they'll come to you.  Sometimes people misread shyness for disinterestedness, so just be smiley and happy and you'll be making friends in no time!

Hope this helped,


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