Expert: Pamela Smith - 7/15/2009

Question
My wife and I are looking for a resort where open/public sex is legal, either in Mexico or a Caribbean island.  Everytime I look at a website, i.e. hedonsim II/III or others, it always says open/public sex is not permitted.  WE ARE NOT SWINGERS.  However, we want to be able to have sex in the open and not worry about getting caught.  Could you advise which resort would be good for us?  Also, since we are not swingers, is there also a place where couples like us (not swingers) go and have open sex and not worry about others trying to hit on either of us?

Answer
Best resort for you would be Desire in Cancun.  They have a "play room" where you can enjoy each other in public, and several other areas around the property.

Hedonism II in Negril often does have many PDA's (Public Displays of Affection) even though they say it isn't allowed, it is.  Unless someone complains about it you can get away with it, especially on the nude side of the property. I have been there several times and depending on the crowd, it can be very interesting, the resort and guests just request you don't "finish" in the pool.

Both properties are wonderful and I book many clients to both properties.  Desire is geared towards "Lifestyle" couples, but that doesn't mean you have to be that kind of couple to enjoy the property.  Same goes with Hedo, while there are often many lifestyler groups there, you don't have to swing to enjoy the sexual atmosphere.

At either place IF you happen to get hit on, a simple no thank you will suffice.  Typically people will wait until they are invited, otherwise they just enjoy the show.  

If you would like help booking your vacation, just drop me an email with your preferred travel dates and where you are flying from.  

Pam
pam@globaldreamvacations.net