AboutMike De Bruyn Expertise I can answer questions on Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, NLP, and general personal change work. (I have some experience in EFT and EMDR, but not as much as hypnosis.) I will not debate the subject, attempt to justify it, or argue which modality is better than another. Please ask serious and specific questions so that I can give a specific answer. The more information you provide the better answer I can give.
NOTE: In light of recent trolls, I will reject any question which is argumentative. I intened to provide information only to people seeking help. Those who need to argue can go elsewhere.
Experience I trained in stage hypnosis and have worked in the field since 1968. I use traditional hypnosis, Ericksonian hypnosis and NLP in my work with private clients. I teach classes in Hypnosis and NLP and moderate the highly popular Hypnosis-Hypnotherapy group on Yahoo.
Question about 6yrs ago my daughter & i returned home from an hr long trip to find socks over the motion detectors of the alarm system in what was our home. i called police but the officer said nothing to report since nothing was taken. and there u go, this behavior never stopped. always obvious sign of trespass but never anything to warrant police record. i've come to realize my x had something to do with this, in fact the ground work seems to have been layed even far pryior to this. i believe her old sugar dad knew this "hypnotist" as it were. i never believed in such things but trust me i believe now. i now know jesus used suggestions to heal & that suggestions have been used to bring me down. it seems on going and unstopable. words can't do justice to this experience thats cost me four dogs, a career as a union electrician, my home, credentials & standings in my family etc. i can give in great detail all tricks , losses , suspicuions, accusations, all my dumb reactions and any thing required to convince you that this is what i feel it is , the work of someone VERY skilled and talented in the power of suggestion. yes i've bit and bit hard at the stupidest shit, but i didn't know. i firmly believe that public backing of me from my people would dissolve all this once and for all! but i can't buy even a cheer, much less a real consideration that these haters should leave me alone. i feel certain without hearing from my "team" that this prison will continue. i'm really not stupid, i believe my loved ones have been talked to by this bad ass suggestor or he has coached who ever did talk to them, my x etc. 14yrs sober& back in the bottle , i wouldn't be askin if i could figure it out. like i say much more detail available. i know quiet a bit about this suggestor i think but i don't know identity or what to do about it. and i wonder about u all
Answer Dayton,
First of all, do you realize that you did not ask a question in all of that?
But what you really need to hear is that you should get to a psychotherapist as soon as you can manage it. Obviously, things have gotten out of hand ... and to the point that you can't even formulate a clear statement of the problem. This will not get better on its own, and nothing anyone can do in an email or on an internet mail list will help you find the light at the end of the tunnel. What you need is to sit across from a professional and have him give you feedback on what he sees.
I am quite serious here, and I do hope you will take this as a very serious suggestion. Please go immediately to a professional therapist and lay it all out for him/her and get help ... NOW!
Best of luck with all of this, Dayton ... please do what I suggest as soon as you have finished reading this!
