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My birth mother is in the ICU with a breathing tube and right now I don't know what sort of prognosis she has. I am 200 miles away and haven't spoken to her doctors yet myself, I get my news from her husband. She is 66 years old and last week she fell and broke a hip, needing hip replacement surgery. Three years ago this happened with the other hip, she has chronic inflammatory demyelinating polyneuropathy which makes her prone to falls. Two days after surgery her oxygen levels dropped and she was given a face mask for oxygen. She kept pulling it off so they gave her a more substantial mask and tied her wrists to the bed. Today her husband said she's on a "resusitator" and I don't know if he meant that she has a breathing tube. He said they don't know why her lungs are collecting fluid. As a further complication she has hepatitis C and early stage cirrhosis. Her husband said she is sedated and unaware of her surroundings, that she may or may not recover, they're going to keep her in ICU for another 4 or 5 days and see how she's doing. I don't press him for details, he is a difficult person to deal with. Today he gave me the phone number of her pulmonologist but it was too late in the day to speak to him. I don't know what to think. What can you tell me? Thanks for your help.

Dear Lee,

If you have not done so already, call the pulmonologist. Due to HIPPA laws, it is questionable whether or not he will discuss her care. You can ask her husband to give the physician permission to speak with you. If she is unconscious, then she is intubated and sedated. Her comorbidities do complicate things. Rather than worry about the unknown, I recommend you speak with the professionals who are caring for her.  

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Dr. Pamela M. Cipriano, DNP, ACNP-BC


My name is Dr. Cipriano. I am able to answer questions regarding critical care issues including the cardiac system, pulmonary system, gastrointestinal system, gallbladder, small bowel obstructions, crohn's disease, diverticulitis, general abdominal surgery, ventilator management, ARDS, dehydration, heart failure, kidney failure, shock. pneumona, surgical complications, disease process.


I am a Hospitalist at a local hospital and in the emergency department. I am on the Medical Staff. I round, admit, discharge, consult and assist with surgeries in the OR. I manage patients in the ICU and Med/Surg floors.

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