About Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) Expertise I used to have many problems with low self-esteem. I was shy, could never talk loud enough, was always nervous but surprisingly I got over it and have become more outgoing, still shy in certain cases but for the most part it takes a lot for me to get shy. I would love to help anyone who wants to overcome low self-esteem or just wants to talk about it. So consider me as someone who gives advice and a friend. Anyways feel free to ask a question if you would like!
Question I'm a girl and I'm 13 years old and I hate my body! I'm really skinny and my boobs and butt are very small and this really affects my self-esteem. I wish that my boobs and butt were bigger so boys would notice me! I've tried eating a lot to increase the size of my boobs and butt but it really didn't make a difference and I get full easily. And I've eavesdropped on a lot of boys' conversations at school and I always hear them talking about how they want to "fuck" a girl and "suck on her nipples" and how they "wouldn't mind putting their dick in her butt" and stuff like that. But they never say stuff like that about me! I wish that boys would... But no boy thinks that I'm hot because my boobs and butt are so small! My best friend has really big boobs and her butt is pretty big too and she always gets attention from boys. And she already has a boyfriend! I would do anything to get a boyfriend... She always tells me about how fun it is to make out with her boyfriend and how good her boyfriend's dick smells and tastes and stuff like that and it makes me so jealous! My best friend sometimes jokes to me about how I'll be a virgin my whole life but she doesn't know that I don't think that's very funny! Over the summer, most of my friends have already gotten boyfriends and have already sucked a boy's dick. Even some of my friends who've never had a boyfriend have sucked a boy's dick. I'm afraid that I'll never get to do that! I don't get any attention from boys no matter what I do... I've even started dressing well, slutty since I've been in high school and I still get no attention (although it's only been a week). I mean, I always wear my pants low so my underwear sticks out, I always wear booty shorts to gym, I always wear no bra so my nipples stick out of my shirt, and I never wear underwear with a skirt. But I've still never heard a boy talking about how he wants to fuck me! What can I do to get more attention from boys and increase my self-esteem? BTW, sorry for typing a lot but I have a lot to say!
Answer Hello
First of all your 13... you haven't even started growing into your body. If you have ever taken a health course then you should know that you are still growing and will probably develop more cleavage later on. Also many men are different. I know many guys who could care less about breast size, as long as she has some, and many guys aren't into the shape/size of a girl's butt. So give yourself time to grow. Also remember that guys aren't turned on by sluttiness. That usually shows how desperate a girl is and you don't want to look like that. Start looking at yourself and find out what is beautiful about yourself and try to emphasize that. Wear makeup, try a different hair style, wear clothes that are sexy and cute but not slutty, and have confidence in yourself. Lastly keep in mind that it's not something to brag about doing all those sexual things at your age. Again, it's really slutty and guys prefer girls who have respect in themselves than a slut, so keep that in mind when you act/dress a certain way.
Melissa
