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About Rahul B. Vyas
Expertise
I can answer questions relating to low self esteem, low self-confidence, lack of self-respect and methods to improve the same. Also psychological and personality conflicts such as fear of change, fear of failure,under achievement, resentment in relationships, stress, depression, behavior problems like sudden emotional outbursts, violence and vindictiveness, argumentativeness, and gamut of other personality conflicts can be answered with handwriting analysis therapies as a remedial measure. Questions regarding allopathic medications for psychological disorders cannot be answered by me.

Experience
I have been practicing the science of handwriting analysis and handwriting formation therapy since last 5 years to provide diagnostic, preventive and remedial measure based on handwriting analysis and therapy. I have been associated with private psychologists and psychiatrists to provide them psychological assessment and personality analysis reports based on handwriting analysis and handwriting therapies. I also have individual clients throughout India. I have attended schools to give lectures handwriting therapies to underachieving students with emphasis on improving self-esteem, self-confidence, self-respect, high goals and improving concentration and memory.

Organizations
I run my own programmes and clinic under Stealth Handwriting Analysis Services. visit - www.stealthhandwritinganalysis.com

Publications
Have written articles on - > Modifying Behavior through Handwriting > Spotting Intelligence in Handwriting > Improving Self-esteem > Career guidance through Handwriting Analysis > Resentment in relatinships The following have been published in a family educare magazine called Coronela - India.

Education/Credentials
B.L.S.; L.L.B ; Dip.SIG (Graphology and Graphotherapy)

Awards and Honors
Advanced Certification in Graphology and Graphotherapy - World School of Grapho-Education & Therapy.

 
   

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Increasing Self-Esteem - feeling worthless


Expert: Rahul B. Vyas - 8/23/2009

Question
hello,
 i am 18 and i keep on having these attacks of panic when i dont get phone calls from my friends, or they do not reply to mu mails. i should probably start thinking like a grown-up now, and i keep on telling this repeatedly to myself, but after a brief period in banishment my demons come back. it is true that i dont get many phone calls and that my friend's replies to my mails are not very regular either. but what has become a problem is the feeling of insecurity that i get because of it. i feel that no one cares about me and that even if i go to the edge of the world for them they are not going to give back. please give me a remedy that will permanently put these self-destructive thoughts to an end. thankyou.

Answer
Hello sarah,

Firstly, your thoughts are certainly not self-destructive so pls rejoice !!!!!
As a handwriting analyst i come across so many handwriting samples of people who have a strong desire to share emotional responsiveness. Such people love to listen and get listened.
Every person has emotions and feelings but some people are depended for emotional support on others. In such cases, friends, family, neighbours and especially near and dear ones are of prime importance. There entire mental focus and energy is restricted to social needs.

Although i do not have your handwriting sample but from the symptons i can surely tell even you have a very high need for emotional approval.

Sarah there is no reason for you to feel upset or unloved, because people care and love you but they may not be as expressive as you may want them to.
This is nothing but different styles of expressing emotions.
Please do not feel insecured as there is no reason to feel so.
Enjoy the world around you without expecting emotional response and you will be happier.
I hope my words have helped you.

Thankyou.  

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