| Subject | Date Asked |
|
| Phenomena | 11/8/2009 |
Q: I want to know the this phenomena interpretation and reason where it is ( joying of thinking , ...
A: first, your english expressions do not clarify things for me. i also do not know your age. this ...
|
| depression suicide | 8/22/2009 |
Q: My life at my house is more or less hell for me. I am 18 years of age but I am already screwed up. I ...
A: nothing wrong with you except that you are Severely DEPRESSED. in your case, you need HELP from a ...
|
| No self esteem at all. | 6/4/2009 |
Q: I don't want to sound self-pitying but as this is a big problem for me I feel like I have to speak ...
A: at your age, this is not a major issue. life is for the long haul and not a few tricks and appear ...
|
| Guilty Feeling | 5/19/2009 |
Q: Sir, I am suffering a lot from the problem of not adhering to my plans and having a guilty feeling ...
A: Whatever i told you earlier still holds good. here's a viewpoint now our brains have different ...
|
| Guilty Feeling | 5/19/2009 |
Q: Sir, I am suffering a lot from the problem of not adhering to my plans and having a guilty feeling ...
A: since i dont know your age, i cannot give you specific steps. at an young age the mind is still ...
|
| eating disorder/low self esteem | 4/5/2009 |
Q: I was wondering if starving yourself is considered an eating disorder. I have only gone four days ...
A: you haven't revealed your age! anyway, self esteem is the only problem here. going 4 days on a fast ...
|
| I have wierd personality, please advice me about it. | 4/3/2009 |
Q: I need some advice about my half human half machine sort of personality . The James bond sort of ...
A: the mere fact that you are able to analyze your emotions or lack of it shows that your mind is NOT ...
|
| do boys like tomboys or girly girls more? | 3/16/2009 |
Q: hey... i'm a 13 year old girl and i have a question about whether boys like tomboys or girly girls ...
A: hold on my dear, you are just 13 and there is plenty of life left. Having dates with boys is not ...
|
| Need help increasing my social network | 3/10/2009 |
Q: In theory, I would expect myself to have a number of friends. I’ve been shy most of my life and ...
A: how old are you? because at an young age, all persons are not endowed with the skill reqd to make ...
|
| problem | 3/6/2009 |
Q: i feel very bad about the way i look(even if it isn't true or not). Can i send a picture to you to ...
A: GOD made you, right? there is some purpose unknown to you. i have a large number of friends who ...
|
| anxiety,depression,guilt | 2/3/2009 |
Q: I think i am having a problem with determination,and proposing what to do.I can not propose,and be ...
A: i understand your problem. first, the mere fact that you want to change yourself is a good sign. at ...
|
| my mom age 82, and I am age 53 | 1/30/2009 |
Q: You see the reason that I get like this is because I keep wondering what my mom is thinking if I ...
A: when i say it is your fault, you need not blame yourself. it is only to indicate the source of the ...
|
| my mom age 82, and I am age 53 | 1/30/2009 |
Q: You see the reason that I get like this is because I keep wondering what my mom is thinking if I ...
A: you need to change your perspective. your reactions need not be based on others' remarks,actions ...
|
| chatting | 1/2/2009 |
Q: My 15 years old boy uses to be till 3 am chatting in Internet and I am afraid to get involve in a ...
A: there are 2 options, depending upon his intelligence and behaviour. if he is smart let him learn the ...
|
| Self-Confidence Problem | 10/14/2008 |
Q: I am 20 years old. I have realized that I have very low self-confidence. That affects me in ...
A: i can understand how you feel; the stranglehold of one's own mind is suffocating and does not allow ...
|
| Should I just give up? | 10/9/2008 |
Q: I’m a 14 year old girl who just finished my first quarter of high school. The first nine weeks were ...
A: at your age, it is quite natural to feel others may be more attractive and one is not having enough ...
|
| care what people think of me | 9/22/2008 |
Q: my name is joey im 32 and i goto hairstyling school and i always wonder if people like me that day. ...
A: there is one thing that you should ALWAYS keep in mind. Your feeling bad when people give you a ...
|
| My Body | 9/8/2008 |
Q: I'm a girl and I'm 13 years old and I hate my body! I'm really skinny and my boobs and butt are very ...
A: 1) for 13, you are too early for this game. wait, life isn't going to runaway. there are plenty of ...
|
| My self-esteem | 9/3/2008 |
Q: I know this probably sounds like ranting but I really need some help because I feel helpless…I am ...
A: first, at your age it is normal to feel doubts, unloved, and end up feeling bad. it has something ...
|
| i am sorry | 8/27/2008 |
Q: i had a stupid fight with my friend. she wanted to go for shopping and i really wasnt feeling like ...
A: if you are 15 then just take the pressure off on yourself. it is perfectly ok to miss the ...
|
| hey | 8/25/2008 |
Q: i had a stupid fight with my friend. she wanted to go for shopping and i really wasnt feeling like ...
A: yours is a very interesting question. first i dont know your age so it is a bit difficult to give ...
|
| Self Hypnosis | 8/24/2008 |
Q: Does self hypnosis work for helping yourself stay motivated to work out and eat healthy? Any ...
A: almost everything about ourselves is a result of self hypnosis. It my come under the banner of ...
|
| sad | 7/28/2008 |
Q: well I am just going into 8th grade and i see that all the other girls have breast and are all ...
A: increasing self esteem will not increase breast size. It gives you a perspective that you are OK ...
|
| Insecure | 7/16/2008 |
Q: I have confidence with people I can trust around me but by mouse I am like a mouse caught by 2 ...
A: you have not asked any question ! at your age it may be common to feel insecure for different ...
|
| how do i not ruin a good relationship? | 6/3/2008 |
Q: I was wondering if you can please help me. Ive been in many relationships over the years, a lot ...
A: *self esteem is only one of the links of a relationship. * also i do not know your age to determine ...
|
| help ! | 5/27/2008 |
Q: I never used to think about the stuff that i have been ignored,disrespected or insulted by anybody ...
A: first, i don't know your age. you have already been thinking of awareness, esteem etc for some ...
|
| Anxious and stressed out | 5/2/2008 |
Q: My folks keep telling that I'm not studying for my CA inter exams and their lack of trust in me is ...
A: you have given me the background of your problem but have not asked a specific question. also no ...
|
| i hate me | 2/17/2008 |
Q: i hate being around people, i hate being seen, i don't feel comfortable around nobody not even my ...
A: your breaking of mirrors indicates that you are unable to bail out yourself from these concepts ...
|
| Self-Esteem issues | 9/13/2007 |
Q: I am a 15 year old male and I have a self-esteem issue, I have gotten a lot of sh*t because of how ...
A: i understand your problem. The world is famous for its diversity. some are black, some fair, some ...
|
| Down and out with someone new | 9/4/2007 |
Q: I recently started dating a long time friend of mine, after ending a 6 year relationship with ...
A: to change how you feel about yourself... the only option available to you regardless of ...
|
| How do i raise my self esteem | 9/2/2007 |
Q: well im 14 female and i have had problems with my selfesteem ever since 7th grade. its gotten better ...
A: at 14, you need not consider this a problem at all. for your age you are aware of subtler ...
|
| swallowing | 8/30/2007 |
Q: When I was in grade 12, we always went to church on sunday. It was half an hour trip and I would ...
A: what is your present age? Ok this has some roots in lack of self esteem but that is not the way to ...
|
| self help | 7/31/2007 |
Q: Im 22, and I just graduated college, with a BS in chemical biology, and i got about a 2.5 gpa. That ...
A: well, why does one not do things knowing that it would be worthwhile? 1) Immediate discomfort ...
|
| Trusting | 7/22/2007 |
Q: i am well educated in the mental world, i use to be a expert on this site for 4yrs.. Here;s my ...
A: here your question focuses on your feelings due to the actions of others. Yes, this is a good place ...
|
| eating | 7/19/2007 |
Q: I can't stop eating and I think it's because I'm stressed about school. When I stay at home, I keep ...
A: you have not told me your age. sometimes, at some age, persons start on an eating binge but it goes ...
|
| im an ugly whore | 6/14/2007 |
Q: im really ugly and i have freckles and no one likes me. i think im so popular when really im a fake ...
A: The beginning of self-esteem, is how you normally refer to yourself. if you constantly think that ...
|
| please help | 6/3/2007 |
Q: I was normally a really carefree girl until recently, where i have been getting really negative ...
A: between 15 to 18 yrs, one is likely to be over sensitive and feel hurt for small things too. this is ...
|
| Issues with women | 3/25/2007 |
Q: I am quite a confident person at workplace and related activities. But i have problems mingling with ...
A: i do not know your age and the country you are in. these things come into the equation. basically ...
|
| fs | 11/6/2006 |
Q: hey, im 16 years old and i have very low self-esteem i am fat and put myself down for that everyday ...
A: 1)you are at sweet 16 so don't worry if you are fat. There are millions who consider fat is ...
|
| shyness | 11/1/2006 |
Q: my problem is when ever i get around my boyfriends friends I don't know what to say to them, I get ...
A: God made people differently, some are smart, some dumb, some bold and some shy and so on. basically ...
|
| hey | 10/31/2006 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been on a break for a couple of weeks now... last night we talked and she ...
A: this has nothing to do with self esteem. my observation here is: In life do not force things. let ...
|
| self-esteem | 10/29/2006 |
Q: I previously had some issues... You answered my question here ...
A: okay here is an article for you to study; When we walk to the edge of all the light we have and take ...
|
| help | 10/26/2006 |
Q: My girlfriend and I recently took a break in our relationship... A few days ago things were going ...
A: just be supportive and do not intrude into her plans unless she asks. Has she asked you for any help ...
|
| making friends/habits/self help | 10/22/2006 |
Q: I've been having issues. Both with myself and with others. Its been going on for years, and now ...
A: i offer these suggestions. it is natural to look for approval and recognition but not compeltely ...
|
| Need help improving self and social skills | 10/19/2006 |
Q: I've always considered myself a sensitive person, but I wanted help on not taking everything so ...
A: you haven't told me your age and how long you have been feeling bad. anyway my suggestions are as ...
|
| Self Esteem Self Image | 8/10/2006 |
Q: I just turned 20.. And I have been dealing with some problems since I first began dating. My first ...
A: there is one fact of life that you need to understand. There is no such thing as TRUTH out there ...
|
| Pain in Limbic System | 7/23/2006 |
Q: This is Vipul Patel from India.. i hope you are also an Indian because your name is Ravindra.. by ...
A: vipul, the presence of pain means that your body is trying to tell you something. having depression ...
|
| help | 12/8/2005 |
Q: I am a mid-teen girl. I am going through tough times with my image. I have zero confidence. This ...
A: here are some thoughts for you: How do we get self-confidence? WHAT IS SELF-CONFIDENCE? ...
|
| shyness | 10/27/2005 |
Q: I am shy and people either think i'm boring or mean which i'm not i've told that a lot but i would ...
A: HOW TO ATTRACT TERRIFIC PEOPLE - written by Mike Moore ** ...
|
| Please help... | 7/30/2005 |
Q: I am 18 yrs old and expecting a child by the end of August the father has left me, he is in ...
A: Tips for Happiness in Daily Life By Remez Sasson Daily life can be made happier. It is a matter ...
|
| Comparing Myself | 7/27/2005 |
Q: I am 15, a female, and a high school student. I am on a dance team and I have a lot of fun. ...
A: Self-esteem versus Self-acceptance A common misconception is that a person's competence is ...
|
| How do i get more self esteem... | 6/21/2005 |
Q: How do i get more self esteem when talking to people?
A: Successfully Meeting And Greeting - Ten Strategies For Getting Off To A Good Start ~~~~~~~ A day ...
|
| Taking things too seriously | 6/12/2005 |
Q: I have a big problem taking things too seriously and personally. I always have to some extent, even ...
A: by reading your letter, the emphasis of the question is not clear. is it relationship or your job ...
|
| help | 6/7/2005 |
Q: I am 45 years old and am truly suffering. I've been married since 1985 to my college sweetheart and ...
A: the trouble with depression is , it is partly physical and partly mental. you need to work on both ...
|
| This problem | 5/24/2005 |
Q: 19,Male,Banker. My problem is,and im unsure if you will be able to help me, that i recently saw a ...
A: your reaction, at your age is normal and i feel the capacity to visualize someone else in your ...
|
| Confidence | 1/2/2005 |
Q: I tend to be a pretty out going person. I wasn't always, I actually used to be very, very shy (to ...
A: a human being is a mixture of many characteristics, including opposites. a person is not 100 % ...
|
| Shy in College | 11/17/2004 |
Q: I'm an 18 yr old male freshman in college. When I was younger I used to be the most outgoing and ...
A: at your age, it is quite common to feel lack of skills in making friends and keep the conversation ...
|
| Fear | 10/23/2004 |
Q: I have problem. The problem is “I have the guts to say something to another person. But when I get ...
A: first i do not know your age, the words in your letter, surprise me; gang, guts,enemy,scold. you ...
|
| speech | 9/30/2004 |
Q: When I speak alone to a micro-recorder I sound ok but when I have to speak to a group of people or ...
A: public speaking comes with practice and the know-how. the best way is to join a group for learning ...
|
| speech | 9/30/2004 |
Q: When I speak alone to a micro-recorder I sound ok but when I have to speak to a group of people or ...
A: public speaking comes with practice and the know-how. the best way is to join a group for learning ...
|
| scared of living in case i die | 7/15/2004 |
Q: - dear-Ranindra- could you name a few excercise that you think would help im really interested in ...
A: 1) for exercises, visit about.com or ivillage.com or yoga for different options. in the meantime ...
|
| scared of living in case i die | 7/13/2004 |
Q: ..may i ask another question?...do you believe we are spiritual beings having a human ...
A: as i had told you before, EVERYTHING, repeat EVERYTHING is created by your mind. even the physical ...
|
| scared of living in case i die | 7/12/2004 |
Q: im a 50 year old lady from qld who suffers frompanic and anxiety ive had this disorder since i was ...
A: reading your letter prompts me to say, FIRST: Recognize that EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD THAT HAPPENS ...
|
| Best advice from your topic of expertise | 4/10/2004 |
Q: I'm doing a personal research project on intelligence, genius and peak performance. I was ...
A: your question is a bit complex to answer in such a short period. considering that intelligence of ...
|
| eating disorder | 3/11/2004 |
Q: I am a 42 year old female and I have a problem with food. I am an emotional eater and I don't know ...
A: you may require a multi-pronged approach. *basically an exercise routine that is regular and graded. ...
|
| hi I am hassan:
first... | 3/8/2004 |
Q: first i like to thank for reading this.My self esteem is very low and nothing i can do about it.I ...
A: the trouble with self-esteem is the waiting for others to give a positive feedback. you say that you ...
|
| heart domination | 3/1/2004 |
Q: 20 years .. had this problem started when i was in 13how can i dominate and rule my heart? when i ...
A: this is quite a common occurrence in young persons. but since you are twenty and have it for over 6 ...
|
| mental health | 11/30/2003 |
Q: I want to sleep but cannot, Tons of thoughts comes in my mind and I am unable to stop them, I want ...
A: there is one fact that you need to tell yourself that sleep is a biological phenomenon and not a ...
|
